In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter sits down with Ashley Jameson of Pure Desire to talk about one of the most overlooked conversations in the church today—how these struggles are impacting women, marriages, and entire congregations. While many still view this as a men’s issue, the reality is far more complex and far more widespread.

Ashley shares from years of experience walking alongside individuals and churches, highlighting both the challenges and the hope she has seen firsthand. From powerful stories of freedom to the ongoing gaps in resources, she explains why this is one of the greatest discipleship opportunities facing the church right now. When people feel safe enough to bring their stories into the light, real healing can begin.

The conversation also explores the unique challenges women face, including shame, betrayal, trauma, and confusion around identity and worth. Ashley offers practical insight for churches, leaders, and individuals who want to take the next step—reminding listeners that healing is not instant, but it is possible with the right support, community, and commitment to the process.

Episode Topics Discussed

• Ashley Davidson’s role at Pure Desire and ministry background
• The vision and impact of Pure Desire’s counseling and group programs
• Her book Girl Talk and resources for moms and daughters
• The growing need for continued care beyond initial recovery
• Why this issue is a major discipleship opportunity for the church
• Current statistics and the gap in church resources
• How small churches can implement support systems
• The importance of testimonies and creating safe spaces
• Challenges women face, including shame, betrayal, and insecurity
• Why repeated struggles often point to deeper work that needs to be done
• The realities facing younger generations today
• Trauma, betrayal, and how it impacts the mind, body, and relationships
• Signs of unresolved trauma and unhealthy relational patterns
• How churches can better support individuals and spouses
• Encouragement for those feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or alone

Resources Mentioned

Pure Desire Ministries – https://puredesire.org
Pure Desire Online Groups and Church Partnerships- https://puredesire.org/groups
Girl Talk by Ashley Jameson- https://puredesire.org/shop/girl-talk

Timestamps

00:00 – Why This Conversation Matters
00:32 – Introduction to Ashley Davidson
00:37 – Pure Desire’s Impact and Ministry Overview
03:15 – Girl Talk and New Resource Development
06:44 – How to Connect with Pure Desire
07:28 – The Reality in Churches Today
11:30 – Supporting Small Churches and Leaders
14:10 – Addressing Hidden Struggles in the Church
16:39 – Unique Challenges Women Face
19:38 – The Younger Generation and Growing Needs
23:06 – Trauma, Betrayal, and Its Impact
25:59 – Signs of Unresolved Trauma
28:31 – How Churches Can Better Support Spouses
31:32 – Final Encouragement: You Are Not Alone

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"Most marriages don't fall apart overnight, they unravel through small compromises over time."

In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter sits down with Jim Ramos, founder of Men in the Arena and author of multiple books focused on equipping men to lead with strength, integrity, and purpose. Jim shares practical, hard-earned wisdom on how men can build guardrails to protect their marriages and avoid the small compromises that often lead to devastating consequences.

Drawing from decades of marriage and ministry experience, Jim unpacks the importance of boundaries, emotional connection, and intentional leadership in relationships. He explains that strong marriages don’t happen by accident—they are built through daily choices, disciplined habits, and a commitment to honor your spouse both privately and publicly.

The conversation also dives into deeply personal moments from Jim’s own marriage, including lessons learned through failure, repentance, and growth. Listeners will walk away with actionable insight, biblical encouragement, and a renewed understanding of what it means to build a marriage that lasts.

Episode Topics Discussed

• The mission behind Men in the Arena and calling men into action
• Why marriages need guardrails to stay strong
• Common relational pitfalls that lead to broken trust
• The importance of emotional connection in marriage
• Healthy ways to interact with the opposite sex
• Why certain compliments and conversations can cross boundaries
• The biblical meaning of “cleaving” and pursuing your spouse
• Building a marriage marked by intentional pursuit and connection
• The power of how you speak about your spouse to others
• How “framing” your spouse shapes how others see them
• Repentance, growth, and restoring trust within marriage
• Guardrails for singles and preparing for future relationships
• Living above reproach and protecting your integrity

Resources Mentioned

Men in the Arena – https://meninthearena.org
Pre-order Jim Ramos’ latest book- https://www.amazon.com/Men-in-the-Arena-Podcast/dp/B08K5BVH21
Men in the Arena Podcast – https://podcast.meninthearena.org/

Timestamps

00:00 – Why Guardrails Matter in Marriage
00:20 – Welcome and Introduction to Jim Ramos
00:34 – The Mission of Men in the Arena
01:24 – The Heart Behind the New Book
03:24 – Guardrails in Everyday Interactions
05:52 – Staying Emotionally Connected to Your Spouse
06:42 – The Meaning of “Cleave” in Marriage
10:46 – The Power of Speaking Well About Your Spouse
11:33 – Confession, Growth, and Restoring Trust
16:37 – A Word for Women and Shared Responsibility
17:46 – Guardrails for Singles
19:13 – Living Above Reproach and Protecting Integrity
22:27 – Where to Find the Book and Get Connected

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"If we want to see real transformation, we have to stop talking about behavior and start talking about the heart, the brain, and the trauma behind it."

In this episode of the Covenant Eyes Podcast, host Karen Potter and the team welcome Hannah Ashwell, a therapist from the United Kingdom specializing in trauma psychology and modern behavioral addictions. Hannah brings clinical insight and pastoral sensitivity to a topic many churches still struggle to address openly.

Hannah shares about her upcoming book Quit Porn, written to make complex psychological and spiritual concepts accessible to everyday readers. Drawing from her work as a therapist and her own life journey, she explains why recovery often requires both personal responsibility and compassionate support. Rather than focusing only on behavior change, the conversation explores deeper issues like shame, trauma, and the importance of honest conversation.

The discussion also highlights the role of the church in addressing this growing issue. Hannah emphasizes that silence allows struggles to deepen, while open conversations can bring hope and healing. From the impact on relationships and mental health to the importance of pastoral support and professional counseling, this episode encourages churches and individuals alike to step into the conversation with wisdom and courage.

Episode Topics Discussed

• Why pornography is often misunderstood as only a men’s issue
• The growing societal impact on relationships, families, and mental health
• Hannah’s background in trauma psychology and addiction counseling
• The inspiration behind her book Quit Porn
• Modern addictions beyond drugs and alcohol
• Why shame keeps people trapped in silence
• The difference between guilt and shame in recovery
• The role of trauma, opportunity, and digital access in behavioral struggles
• Why churches struggle to address the issue openly
• The importance of conversation, accountability, and community support
• How pastors can support people without carrying the entire burden alone
• When professional therapy becomes an important part of healing

Resources Mentioned

Hannah Ashwell Wellness: https://www.facebook.com/HannahAshwellWellness/
Quit Porn – https://www.quit-porn.com/
Quit Porn by Hannah Ashwell – Print edition available in the UK, audiobook and ebook releasing soon

Timestamps

00:00 – The Hidden Impact of Pornography on Society
00:35 – Meet Hannah Ashwell
01:26 – Writing the Book Quit Porn to Making Resources Accessible to Everyone
03:01 – Hannah’s Personal Journey and Motivation
04:49 – Why the Church Struggles to Address This Issue
07:11 – How Pornography Impacts Relationships and Society
09:00 – Helping Church Leaders Understand the Issue
10:46 – Addressing Pornography in the US vs. the UK 11:37 – Why Shame Keeps People Silent
13:39 – The Difference Between Guilt and Shame
15:46 – Addressing the Roots of Shame
17:41 – How Churches Can Support People in Recovery
19:47 – Where to Find Hannah’s Resources
20:43 – Final Advice for Churches

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