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Is it really a low libido or is it something else?

One of the biggest myths about relationships is that a lack of sex automatically means someone has a low sex drive. In this episode, we break down the difference between libido and desire, and why confusing the two causes couples to chase the wrong solutions.

We explore why one partner can crave sex while the other feels disconnected, what creates a desire gap, and how stress, resentment, emotional safety, attraction, novelty, and relationship dynamics all influence whether we actually want sex.

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Most couples have sex—but surprisingly few couples actually talk about sex.

Whether you're wondering how to ask for more intimacy, share a fantasy, talk about a dead bedroom, or simply tell your partner what you enjoy, starting the conversation can feel harder than the sex itself.

In this episode of The Cliteral Truth, we share practical, real-life ways to bring up sex without criticism, shame, or starting a fight. You'll learn simple conversation starters, why so many couples avoid talking about intimacy, and how honest communication can lead to a more connected, satisfying sex life.

If you've ever thought, "I don't even know how to start this conversation," this episode is for you.

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Why do happy couples stop having great sex? Is it low libido, lack of attraction, stress, kids... or is something else happening beneath the surface?

In this episode, we unpack why sexual desire fades in long-term relationships, why emotional safety and communication matter more than most couples realize, and how to rebuild intimacy before a relationship turns into a dead bedroom. If you've ever wondered why you still love your partner but don't want sex the way you used to, this conversation is for you.