Do you actually want to play a bigger game or do you just like the idea of it?

Join Rachel Godfrey and Mark Coles for an unfiltered conversation about building a body, business and life you're proud of and taking responsibility for what that requires.

With over two decades each in coaching and consulting, Rachel and Mark discuss why people invest in support but still resist doing the work, how your identity influences your results, and why another strategy won't fix weak foundations.

They also get honest about their own blind spots, the skills they're developing, and why being successful doesn't mean you've finished learning.

In this episode:

• The pursuit of mastery: Why there's no finish line and how to find fulfilment in getting better.
  
  
• Identity before strategy: Why your habits, business systems and training plans need solid foundations.
  
  
• The humility to admit a skills gap: How Rachel and Mark identify where they're holding their own businesses back.
  
  
• Perfectionism versus high standards: Why an impossible standard can keep you stuck and undermine your leadership.
  
  
• Emotional stability and growth: Handling setbacks, making decisions from data, and dropping the expectation that success will finally make you feel enough.
  
  
• Messaging that attracts the right clients: Being direct without becoming another angry coach shouting at strangers online.
  
  
• Knowing which game you're playing: The difference between pursuing money, status, reputation and a life you actually enjoy.
  
  
• Ambition within a relationship: Creating space for your vision, your partner's vision and the life you're building together.
  
  
• Belief backed by action: Why optimism needs consistent work, patience and a willingness to fail.

If you keep saying you're ready for the next level, this conversation asks you to look honestly at whether your actions reflect that decision.

"If you want your game to change, you have to change."

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Connect with Rachel:
Instagram: @therachelgodfrey

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Our fat loss membership platform for high-achieving women 35+. Where health, identity, and feminine power find their home.
www.thehouseofonyx.com

At Chase Life Consulting & ONYX Performance it's our mission is to empower female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically.

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life.

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team 🖤

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: rachel@chaselifeconsulting.com

You train consistently. You eat "healthy." You work hard.

So why doesn't your body actually look like you train?

This is one of the most frustrating places to be especially when you're a high-achieving woman who is used to putting in the work and getting results.

And the answer usually isn't another fitness class, more cardio, cutting your food harder or adding another workout.

In this episode of The Chase Life Podcast, Rachel and David break down the real reasons your physique may not reflect the amount of effort you're putting in and why the problem often goes far beyond your training programme.

We cover:

• Why simply going to the gym consistently isn't enough and the importance of progressive overload.
  
  
• Why constantly changing exercises, rep ranges and programmes can keep you spinning your wheels.
  
  
• Why women need to stop being afraid of lifting heavy and what "heavy" actually means.
  
  
• Why lifting MORE weight isn't always the answer, particularly if your biomechanics and exercise selection are building a physique you don't actually want.
  
  
• The role of periodisation and why your training should have a longer-term progression rather than being a collection of random workouts.
  
  
• Why "I eat healthy" tells us almost nothing about whether your nutrition actually supports your goals.
  
  
• The bites, licks, tastes, grazing, weekend eating and "fuck it" moments that can quietly erase the deficit you think you're creating.
  
  
• Why emotional eating, stress eating and binge behaviours are not simply failures of discipline or willpower.
  
  
• The difference between functional hunger and using food to meet an emotional need.
  
  
• Why high achievers can become trapped in perfectionism, overthinking, completion addiction and the need to constantly be productive.
  
  
• Why we sometimes deliberately REMOVE cardio during a fat-loss phase rather than prescribing more of it.
  
  
• How sleep, stress and recovery influence your ability to build the physique you want.

And perhaps most importantly, why your body, business, career and psychology cannot be neatly separated from one another. The patterns follow you everywhere.

If you're perfectionistic at work, unable to switch off, constantly trying to control outcomes and running your life in survival mode, those same patterns will eventually show up in your relationship with food, training and your body.

The version of you who can stay in shape year-round isn't the version who sacrifices her career to prioritise fitness.

She's the version who performs better across everything because she has learned how to achieve more without permanently operating from stress, urgency and exhaustion.

If you're putting serious effort into your body but still feel like your results don't reflect the work you're doing, this episode will help you identify where the real gap might be.

CONNECT WITH US!

Connect with Rachel:
Instagram: @therachelgodfrey

Apply for Black Label Codes:
https://blacklabelcodes.com

At Chase Life Consulting & ONYX Performance it's our mission is to empower female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically.

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life.

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team 🖤

JOIN - ONYX Performance
The exclusive education, luxury wellness and membership platform for high-achieving women 35+. Where health, identity, and feminine power find their home.
www.thehouseofonyx.com

Private Consulting:
www.chaselifeconsulting.com

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: rachel@chaselifeconsulting.com

In this episode, Rachel sits down with private client Alyssa Shaw, CEO and Co-Founder of Manor Aesthetics & Wellness, to unpack the incredible transformation she's experienced over the past 18 months.

Alyssa wasn't lacking discipline. She wasn't lacking knowledge.

She'd spent years counting calories, tracking macros, training consistently and building a hugely successful business while raising three boys as a single mother.

From the outside, she looked like she had it all together.

Behind the scenes, she was living in a constant state of overdrive.

Every day was fuelled by anxiety, perfectionism and the need to stay in control. No matter how hard she trained, how perfectly she ate or how successful she became, her nervous system never switched off. The result? Sugar binges, chronic back pain, exhaustion and a body that simply wouldn't respond.

This conversation isn't about another fat loss strategy.

It's about what happens when you stop trying to fix your body... and finally address the identity that's driving every behaviour underneath it.

Together, Rachel and Alyssa explore:

• Why high-achieving women often feel trapped in chronic stress despite outward success.
• The hidden connection between perfectionism, over-achievement and emotional eating.
• How shame - not willpower - was driving Alyssa's nightly sugar binges.
• The identity shift that eliminated years of food obsession almost overnight.
• Why counting calories wasn't the solution.
• Recovering from chronic back pain after years of failed treatments.
• Why strengthening - not stretching - completely changed her body.
• The importance of regulating your nervous system before chasing more success.
• How building boundaries actually accelerated business growth.
• Why doing less often allows you to achieve significantly more.
• How to travel constantly while maintaining your physique without calorie counting.
• The surprising relationship between peace, productivity and financial success.
• Why high performers don't need more motivation - they need a new operating system.

This episode is a masterclass in what happens when you stop living in constant overdrive and start leading your life from a place of calm, confidence and clarity.

If you've built the career, achieved the success and ticked all the boxes... but still feel anxious, overwhelmed, exhausted or trapped in self-sabotaging patterns, this conversation will challenge everything you think is keeping you stuck.

Because your greatest transformation doesn't start with your body.

It starts with who you believe you are.

Connect with Alyssa

Instagram: @manoraesthetics
Website: https://thisismanor.com

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Connect with Rachel:
Instagram: @therachelgodfrey

Apply for Black Label Codes:
https://blacklabelcodes.com

At Chase Life Consulting & ONYX Performance it's our mission is to empower female entrepreneurs and executives globally to embrace and fulfil their true potential, unapologetically.

We aim to inspire them to courageously pursue their passions, knowing who they are, what they stand for and where they are going in life.

To optimise their physical and cognitive health; elevate performance standards and ultimately become a better version of themselves.

Our commitment is to support their transformation into a physically fit, compassionate, resilient, influential leader.

Accelerating their journey toward an amazing body, improved health, wealth, fulfilment and impact while creating a deeply fulfilling and inspiring life for themselves and their family.

Welcome to the team 🖤

If you have any questions for the podcast or would like to discuss consulting options please contact: rachel@chaselifeconsulting.com