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In this episode of The Audacity!, we’re talking about villain energy-and why being misunderstood might be the most freeing thing that ever happens to you. 😈✨

This isn’t about manipulation or “playing the game.” It’s about becoming the hero in your own story… which means some people will absolutely cast you as the villain the moment you stop people-pleasing, stop over-explaining, and stop betraying yourself to keep others comfortable.

We unpack the shift from “princess era” (palatable, approved, performing) to “villain era” (self-assured, calm, unapologetically authentic), why projection isn’t feedback, and how your “no” can trigger people who benefited from your old availability. Plus, we pull in Wicked/Elphaba energy, the drama triangle, and real-life stories about boundaries, dating, and choosing peace over perception.

If you’re in your season of saying, “I’m not your hero—I’m mine,” this one’s for you.

In this episode, we cover:

• What “villain era” actually means (and what it’s not)
• Why being misunderstood can be a sign you’re healing
• The difference between people missing you vs. missing your availability
• Projection vs. truth: how to stop taking other people’s stories personally
• Why freedom often looks like a smaller circle
• How to choose yourself without guilt (and without ghosting)

🎧 Listen now and tell us: Are you in your villain era-or just done betraying yourself?

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In this audacious episode, Amanda and Ashton dismantle one of the biggest traps women fall into: outsourcing their identity to everyone around them. From childhood labels, to gossip-fueled small towns, to the constant pressure to win social approval, we explore why so many women abandon themselves in exchange for acceptance.

The girls get real about how social and biological hardwiring can blur the line between belonging and self-betrayal, how people-pleasing becomes a survival strategy, and how external validation can feel like a drug that keeps you small, silent, and stuck.

They dive into the shadow work, the gossip cycles, the rumors, the friendships that fall apart, the friendships that evolve, the dating patterns that expose everything you haven’t healed yet, and the soul-level shift that happens when you finally decide:

“I trust ME more than I trust the crowd.”

If you’ve ever changed your personality to fit in, asked ten people for advice before making a decision, shaped yourself around someone else’s comfort, or felt crushed by others’ opinions—this is your episode.

Get ready for self-awareness, humor, a little chaos, a LOT of honesty, and the permission slip you didn’t know you needed:

Your self-worth belongs to you. Stop letting the group chat run your life.

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In this episode, Amanda and Ashton dive into the viral Vogue article asking the question: “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?” From soft-launching relationships on Instagram to the new “flex” of being single and hyper-independent, they unpack why partnership has started to feel juvenile, cringey, or even politically loaded for modern women.

They explore how women’s empowerment and financial independence have shifted the dating landscape, why so many men aren’t stepping into healthy masculinity, and how emotional resilience is missing on both sides. They get real about lazy partners, weaponized independence, p*rn culture, and the loneliness epidemic while also reminding you that good love and conscious relationships still exist.

You’ll hear personal stories, spicy takes, and a loving call to raise your standards without hardening your heart. Because spoiler: it’s not embarrassing to have a boyfriend… it’s only embarrassing to stay with someone who isn’t really your partner.

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In this episode, Amanda and Ashton explore the deep-seated need to be chosen, examining its roots in cultural conditioning and personal experiences. They discuss how this need manifests in relationships, particularly for women, and the importance of self-worth and internal validation. The conversation highlights the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships and emphasizes the necessity of setting healthy boundaries. Listeners are encouraged to engage in conscious dating, recognize their own worth, and teach self-awareness to future generations. The episode concludes with actionable steps for healing and personal growth.

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Welcome back to The Audacity! and can we just say… ten episodes! That’s ten weeks of laughter, deep talks, self-reflection, and audacious honesty. In this milestone episode, Ashton and Amanda get real about something every high achiever wrestles with: the illusion of control.

Episode Summary

From Taylor Swift’s unshakable comeback to the messy beauty of surrender, this episode dives into what it means to let go of controlling every outcome-whether it’s in relationships, career, or motherhood. Ashton and Amanda open up about how their Enneagram types shape their need for control, the peace that comes from acceptance, and the balance between mastering your mind and surrendering to life’s flow.

There’s laughter, vulnerability, a few tangents (of course), and a healthy dose of humor, because growth doesn’t have to be serious all the time.

Topics Covered

• The balance between self-mastery and surrender
• Letting go of people’s opinions and finding peace in your own truth
• Learning to pray for peace instead of control
• Motherhood moments, mindset resets, and emotional boundaries
• The freedom in accepting what you can’t control

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The Takeaway

Peace isn’t found in controlling everything-it’s found in trusting yourself, letting go of what’s not yours to carry, and remembering that you always resurface stronger.

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Feeling “unhinged” and a little existential, Amanda and Ashton dive into what it really means to be in the top 2%—the few who think for themselves, choose a definite purpose, and refuse to drift. Pulling from Napoleon Hill’s classics, they unpack mindset tools like autosuggestion, visualization, and radical personal responsibility, while also exploring the healthy tension between ambition and self-kindness. From seatbelts and life insurance to fundraising and parenting, this one’s real, relatable, and a little spicy—ending with a poem that reminds you not to make yourself “more digestible” for anyone.

In This Episode

• What “top 2%” thinking is (and how to spot 98% drifting)
• Definite purpose vs. a life run by circumstances
• Autosuggestion & the subconscious (simple ways to rewire beliefs)
• Discipline over motivation—and why promises to yourself build trust
• The Results Pyramid: beliefs → actions → outcomes
• Ambition without burnout: goals, seasons, rest & self-kindness
• Mastermind alliances, positive mental attitude, and controlled thoughts
• Why service, emotional regulation, and growth-obsession change everything
• A mic-drop poem on not watering yourself down

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In this episode of the Audacity podcast, Amanda Galloway and her co-host delve into the complexities of relationships, focusing on identifying red and green flags in dating. They share personal experiences and insights on what to look for in a partner, emphasizing the importance of emotional availability, communication, and self-respect. The conversation also touches on the significance of healthy masculinity, setting boundaries, and the necessity of self-love in fostering healthy relationships. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own non-negotiables and to prioritize their emotional well-being while navigating the dating world.

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In this engaging podcast episode, Amanda and Ashton dive into a deep discussion about the drama triangle, a psychological concept that categorizes individuals into three roles: victim, rescuer, and persecutor. They explore how these roles manifest in personal relationships and share transformative insights from their own experiences. The conversation shifts towards the empowerment triangle, offering listeners practical steps to break free from the drama triangle and cultivate healthier relationships through self-awareness, boundaries, and compassion.

Takeaways

• The drama triangle consists of the victim, rescuer, and persecutor roles.
• Victims often feel powerless and seek validation from others.
• Rescuers derive their self-worth from helping others, often leading to codependency.
• Persecutors blame others and can exhibit abusive behavior.
• Awareness is the first step to breaking free from the drama triangle.
• The empowerment triangle offers a healthier perspective on relationships.
• Creating art or engaging in projects can help combat feelings of victimhood.
• Setting boundaries is essential for maintaining healthy relationships.
• Compassion and curiosity can transform conflicts into opportunities for growth.

Chapters

00:00
Taylor Swift's New Album: A Musical Journey

01:20
Understanding the Drama Triangle

03:25
Exploring the Victim Mindset

06:27
The Rescuer's Role in Relationships

07:27
The Persecutor: The Bully in the Triangle

07:57
Transforming the Drama Triangle

12:20
Self-Awareness and the Drama Triangle

15:33
The Empowerment Triangle: A New Perspective

19:24
Steps to Break Free from the Drama Triangle

23:04
Creating Your Own Reality

26:58
Setting Boundaries and Accountability

30:09
Practicing Compassion and Curiosity

34:22
Conscious Choices in Relationships

39:27
Finding Self-Worth Outside the Triangle

43:40
Building Healthy Relationships