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In this audacious episode, Amanda and Ashton dismantle one of the biggest traps women fall into: outsourcing their identity to everyone around them. From childhood labels, to gossip-fueled small towns, to the constant pressure to win social approval, we explore why so many women abandon themselves in exchange for acceptance.

The girls get real about how social and biological hardwiring can blur the line between belonging and self-betrayal, how people-pleasing becomes a survival strategy, and how external validation can feel like a drug that keeps you small, silent, and stuck.

They dive into the shadow work, the gossip cycles, the rumors, the friendships that fall apart, the friendships that evolve, the dating patterns that expose everything you haven’t healed yet, and the soul-level shift that happens when you finally decide:

“I trust ME more than I trust the crowd.”

If you’ve ever changed your personality to fit in, asked ten people for advice before making a decision, shaped yourself around someone else’s comfort, or felt crushed by others’ opinions—this is your episode.

Get ready for self-awareness, humor, a little chaos, a LOT of honesty, and the permission slip you didn’t know you needed:

Your self-worth belongs to you. Stop letting the group chat run your life.