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In this audacious episode, Amanda and Ashton dismantle one of the biggest traps women fall into: outsourcing their identity to everyone around them. From childhood labels, to gossip-fueled small towns, to the constant pressure to win social approval, we explore why so many women abandon themselves in exchange for acceptance.

The girls get real about how social and biological hardwiring can blur the line between belonging and self-betrayal, how people-pleasing becomes a survival strategy, and how external validation can feel like a drug that keeps you small, silent, and stuck.

They dive into the shadow work, the gossip cycles, the rumors, the friendships that fall apart, the friendships that evolve, the dating patterns that expose everything you haven’t healed yet, and the soul-level shift that happens when you finally decide:

“I trust ME more than I trust the crowd.”

If you’ve ever changed your personality to fit in, asked ten people for advice before making a decision, shaped yourself around someone else’s comfort, or felt crushed by others’ opinions—this is your episode.

Get ready for self-awareness, humor, a little chaos, a LOT of honesty, and the permission slip you didn’t know you needed:

Your self-worth belongs to you. Stop letting the group chat run your life.

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In this episode, Amanda and Ashton dive into the viral Vogue article asking the question: “Is having a boyfriend embarrassing now?” From soft-launching relationships on Instagram to the new “flex” of being single and hyper-independent, they unpack why partnership has started to feel juvenile, cringey, or even politically loaded for modern women.

They explore how women’s empowerment and financial independence have shifted the dating landscape, why so many men aren’t stepping into healthy masculinity, and how emotional resilience is missing on both sides. They get real about lazy partners, weaponized independence, p*rn culture, and the loneliness epidemic while also reminding you that good love and conscious relationships still exist.

You’ll hear personal stories, spicy takes, and a loving call to raise your standards without hardening your heart. Because spoiler: it’s not embarrassing to have a boyfriend… it’s only embarrassing to stay with someone who isn’t really your partner.

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In this episode, Amanda and Ashton explore the deep-seated need to be chosen, examining its roots in cultural conditioning and personal experiences. They discuss how this need manifests in relationships, particularly for women, and the importance of self-worth and internal validation. The conversation highlights the impact of childhood experiences on adult relationships and emphasizes the necessity of setting healthy boundaries. Listeners are encouraged to engage in conscious dating, recognize their own worth, and teach self-awareness to future generations. The episode concludes with actionable steps for healing and personal growth.