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  • Ep 136. The Truth About ADHD & Interrupting (It’s Not What You Think)
    2026/04/28

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    If you’ve been told you interrupt, talk over people, or “make things about you”… this video is for you.
    Interrupting in conversations can be a challenge for many people with ADHD, but it’s often misunderstood. It’s not about being rude, selfish, or inconsiderate.

    In this video, I break down:
    -Why interrupting happens with ADHD
    -The difference between masking vs. mutual communication
    -Practical strategies that actually support your brain
    -How to stay present without losing your thoughts

    This is not about “fixing” yourself or pretending to be neurotypical. It’s about understanding your brain and building better, more authentic connections.

    💬 If you have =experiences or strategies that might help others, please share in the comments, we learn from each other.

    Timestamps
    00:00 – Introduction
    00:35 – The real impact of interrupting in relationships
    01:15 – A client story (misinterpretation & hurt)
    02:00 – Two extremes: “just accept it” vs. high masking
    02:50 – What healthy communication actually looks like
    03:10 – ADHD & processing auditory information
    03:40 – Movement, notes, and staying present
    04:05 – Active participation vs. derailing conversations
    04:45 – When engagement gets misunderstood
    05:10 – Fidgeting, movement, and focus
    05:40 – Memory struggles & why interrupting happens
    06:10 – Strategy: “Hold that thought for me”
    06:40 – Writing things down instead of interrupting
    07:00 – Sensory environments & overwhelm
    07:30 – Advocating for your needs in conversations
    08:00 – Final thoughts: balance, not masking
    08:30 – Invitation to share experiences

    #ADHDCoach #ADHDAwareness #ExecutiveFunctioning #ADHDSupport
    #Neurodivergent #ADHDLife #ADHDTips #ADHDWomen #AdultADHD
    #CommunicationSkills #RelationshipsMatter #MentalHealthSupport
    #Neurodiversity #ADHDStrategies #EmotionalRegulation
    #AuthenticConnection #StopMasking #ADHDEducation

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    9 分
  • Ep 135. Why You Say YES When You Shouldn't (ADHD Fawn Response Explained)
    2026/04/15

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    Ever said YES to something you had ZERO time for... then regretted it instantly? 😩 Or waited until the absolute last minute on a deadline, only to crush it under pressure? What about staring at a big project and just... freezing? These aren't "ADHD fails" – they're your nervous system's automatic survival responses: Fight, Flight, Freeze, and Fawn.

    In this talk, I break down why these happen (spoiler: it's not about willpower), how they connect, and compassionate ways to interrupt the cycle so you can make intentional choices instead of reactive ones. No shame, just practical insights from an OT lens to build trust in yourself.

    Timestamps:
    [00:00:00] The "Yes Trap" – Why You Commit When You Shouldn't
    [00:01:00] Procrastination Magic: Deadlines That Finally Get You Moving
    [00:02:00] Nervous System Threats: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn Explained
    [00:03:00] Fawn Response: Keeping Everyone Happy (At Your Expense)
    [00:04:00] Fight Mode: Why Procrastination "Works" Under Pressure
    [00:05:00] Freeze & Flight: Shutting Down or Distracting from Overwhelm
    [00:06:00] Survival Brain vs. Wise Self: Why Logic Doesn't Apply
    [00:07:00] Compassionate Pauses: Say "Let Me Check" Instead of Instant Yes

    If this resonates, like + subscribe for more ADHD/executive function strategies that work with your brain. Drop a comment: Which response hits home for you? 👇

    #ADHD #ADHDTips #ExecutiveFunction #Neurodivergent #ADHDCoach #NervousSystem #ADHDAwareness #Procrastination #Overwhelm #AdultADHD

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    11 分
  • Ep 134. This Is Why You’re Avoiding That Task (ADHD)
    2026/04/15

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    If you’ve ever had a task sitting on your list for days… weeks… months and you just COULDN'T make yourself do it, this video is for you.
    This isn’t about laziness.
    It’s not just about “breaking things down.” Sometimes the real issue is something deeper: dread.

    In this video, I walk you through:
    -Why some tasks feel impossible to start (even when they’re small)
    -How “dread” impacts time, motivation, and follow-through
    -A simple tool to understand why you’re stuck
    -Practical ways to make high-dread tasks easier
    -No shame. No “just push through.”
    -Just realistic strategies that work with your brain.

    Timestamps
    00:00 – Why some tasks feel impossible to start
    00:40 – When typical ADHD strategies don’t work
    01:00 – The “dread scale” explained
    01:45 – Why validating dread matters
    02:00 – Real example: avoiding an insurance call
    02:45 – How dread distorts time and effort
    03:00 – Strategy #1: Choose the right time (bandwidth matters)
    03:30 – Strategy #2: Reduce friction before starting
    04:00 – Strategy #3: Plan for follow-up (boomerang tasks)
    04:30 – Different types of dread (confusion, time, sensory, etc.)
    05:00 – How to problem-solve based on your dread
    05:30 – Why “just do it” doesn’t work
    05:50 – Final thoughts + support
    #ADHD #ADHDcoach #ExecutiveFunction #ADHDlife #ADHDTips #Neurodivergent #ADHDwomen #TaskParalysis #ExecutiveDysfunction #ProductivityWithADHD #MentalHealthTools #ADHDsupport #Neurodiversity #ADHDStrategies #Overwhelm

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    6 分
  • Ep 133: ADHD & Time Blindness: Practical Strategies That Work in Real Life
    2026/03/31

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    If you’ve ever thought something would take 10 minutes… and it took 2 hours (or the opposite), you’re not alone.

    Time management with ADHD isn’t just about planners or discipline—it starts with something deeper: your ability to feel time.

    In this video, I break down:

    • Why time perception is so hard with ADHD
    • The “time as a second language” analogy
    • How underestimating and overestimating time both create problems
    • Practical, compassionate strategies that actually help

    This is not about shame. And it’s not about pretending ADHD is a superpower.
    It’s about working with your brain in a realistic, supportive way.


    Timestamps

    00:00 – Why time management is so hard with ADHD
    01:00 – Time as a “second language” analogy
    02:00 – Underestimating vs overestimating time
    02:45 – Why overestimating leads to overwhelm & shutdown
    03:00 – Strategy #1: Externalizing time (visual timers)
    03:45 – Strategy #2: Practice estimating time (make it a game)
    04:30 – Why time may never feel intuitive (and that’s okay)
    04:45 – Real-life story: losing track of time in Rome
    05:30 – Strategy #3: Buffering your time
    06:00 – How to make buffering actually work (without frustration)
    06:40 – Final thoughts + support options


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    7 分
  • Ep 132. Why Habits Feel So Hard with ADHD (and How to Make Them Stick)
    2026/03/24

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    If you’ve ever thought, “I’m just not a habit person,” you’re not alone.
    A lot of adults with ADHD feel like they can’t stick to habits. But most of the time, it’s not that you can’t build habits — it’s that you’ve been taught to build them in a way that doesn’t work for your brain.

    In this episode, I’m talking about:
    - Why we tend to start too big
    - The “snowball” method that actually works
    - Why celebration matters more than you think
    - How to restart habits without shame
    - The connection between habits and energy management
    - Why you should be picky about which habits you build

    This is especially important for late-diagnosed women who are already managing a lot of invisible mental load.

    Habits aren’t about becoming a different person. They’re about protecting your energy and making life a little easier.

    Let me know in the comments: What habit has actually stuck for you?

    ⏱ Time Stamps:
    00:00 – “I’m not a habit person”
    00:35 – Why we start too big
    01:05 – The plant metaphor
    01:45 – Start smaller than you think
    02:10 – Build in celebration (yes, even sticker charts)
    03:00 – How to restart without giving up
    04:05 – Habits and energy management
    05:00 – “Disciplined” people vs. habitual people
    05:45 – Be picky about what you turn into a habit
    06:15 – Where to go deeper

    #ADHDWomen #ExecutiveFunction #LateDiagnosedADHD #ADHDSupport #OccupationalTherapy #WomenWithADHD #HabitsThatStick #NeurodivergentWomen #EnergyManagement #ADHDStrategies

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    7 分
  • Ep 131. Nervous System Regulation for ADHD: A Simple Pyramid That Works
    2026/03/24

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    Emotional regulation is one of the most common goals people bring into coaching.
    Regulation doesn't mean “=never feeling big emotions or becoming calm all the time.

    It means being able to experience big emotions without feeling hijacked by them.

    If you have ADHD, nervous system dysregulation is common — and it doesn’t just affect attention. It impacts emotions, energy, and your ability to function in the moment.

    In this episode, I’m introducing:

    What emotional regulation actually means (and what it doesn’t)
    The difference between regulation, masking, and shutdown
    How attention, emotion, and energy are all connected
    A simple “pyramid” model of nervous system tools
    Why you need body-based tools and thought-based tools

    This is just a starting point, but it’s an important one.

    Let me know in the comments: What regulation tools work for you?

    ⏱ Time Stamps:
    00:00 – What emotional regulation really means
    00:40 – ADHD and nervous system dysregulation
    01:10 – Attention regulation example
    01:45 – Masking vs. true regulation
    02:15 – Big emotions vs. shutdown
    02:45 – Regulation and energy levels
    03:30 – The goal: function, not perfection
    03:50 – The nervous system pyramid
    04:10 – Bottom: body-based tools
    04:45 – Middle: practiced body/mind tools
    05:00 – Top: thought-based tools (CBT example)
    05:45 – Why you need tools from all levels
    06:15 – When thinking goes offline

    Hashtags:
    #ADHDWomen #ExecutiveFunction #EmotionalRegulation #LateDiagnosedADHD #NervousSystem #WomenWithADHD #NeurodivergentWomen #ADHDSupport #MentalHealthTools #ADHDStrategies

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    7 分
  • Ep 130: Boomerang Tasks: The ADHD Trap That’s Draining Your Mental Energy
    2026/03/17

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    Have you ever finished your part of something… but it’s not actually done?
    You made the call. You submitted the form. You sent the email.
    And now? You wait.

    But you still have to track it. And if it falls through the cracks, you’re the one dealing with the
    consequences.

    That’s what I call a boomerang task: if someone else doesn’t follow through, you have a problem- but not one you can deal with NOW.

    In this episode, I’m breaking down:
    ●What a boomerang task is
    ●Why they quietly drain so much mental energy (especially with ADHD/EF challenges)
    ●A simple way to manage them without carrying them around in your brain

    This is especially relevant for late-diagnosed women who are often juggling invisible tracking
    work on top of everything else.

    You don’t need to store these in your head. There’s a better way.

    Let me know in the comments: Do you have a system that works for these kinds of tasks?

    ⏱ Time Stamps:
    00:00 – What is a “boomerang task”?
    00:35 – Why these tasks are especially hard with ADHD
    01:05 – Stop using your brain as storage
    01:25 – The insurance claim example
    01:50 – Why your to-do list isn’t always the best place
    02:15 – Treating it like an appointment instead
    02:40 – Protecting your mental energy
    03:05 – What system works for you?

    #ADHDWomen #ExecutiveFunction #LateDiagnosedADHD #ADHDSupport
    #OccupationalTherapy #WomenWithADHD #NeurodivergentWomen #ADHDStrategies
    #MentalLoad #TimeManagement

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    4 分
  • Ep 129. Energy Budgets & Menus: Planning for the Different Versions of You (ADHD)
    2026/03/10
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    If you have ADHD, you probably know this feeling:Some days you’re focused, capable, knocking it out of the park. Other days? Low energy. Low focus. Drained. Absolutely can't get going.


    The most frustrating part is not knowing which version of you is going to show up.That unpredictability can really erode self-trust.


    In this episode, I’m sharing two practical tools I use in coaching (especially with late-diagnosed women):
    1. Energy Budgets – understanding what tasks actually cost you
    2. Menus – creating flexible versions of routines so it’s not all-or-nothing
    I'm talking about:
    • Why executive functioning tasks cost more energy
    • How to offload or redesign high-drain activities
    • The “3-course meal, brunch, and snack” model for routines
    • How to be able to rely on yourself without being rigid
    When you work with the reality of variable energy levels, you. move out of the "all or nothing" approach to the things we care about.Let me know in the comments: Do you have strategies that help you manage ever-changing energy levels.


    ⏱ Time Stamps:

    00:00 – The different versions of you
    00:45 – Why ADHD can erode self-trust
    01:15 – Executive functioning costs more energy
    01:50 – What is an energy budget?
    02:00 – Shopping as an energy drain (example)
    03:00 – Boring tasks and invisible energy costs
    03:45 – Introducing “menus”
    04:15 – The 3-course morning routine
    05:00 – The “brunch” version
    05:30 – The “snack” (skeleton) version
    06:15 – Avoiding all-or-nothing
    06:45 – Exercise example
    07:30 – Recap: energy budgets + menus


    #ADHDWomen #ExecutiveFunction #LateDiagnosedADHD #ADHDSupport #EnergyManagement #WomenWithADHD #NeurodivergentWomen #ADHDStrategies #MentalLoad #FlexibleRoutines


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    10 分