🛑 Still Praying Over a Man Who Drains Your Peace?

Sis… that’s not your kingdom husband — that’s a red flag in disguise.

In this no-fluff, scripture-packed message, I’m not here to judge — I’m here to help you see.

You’ll learn:

• How to spot red flags — and stop romanticizing them

• The emotional toll of staying where God never sent you

• What godly love really looks like — hint: it doesn’t drain you

• Why soul ties and survival-mode relationships are not your assignment

And most of all — why it’s time to stop calling it “faith” when it’s really fear of being alone.

📖 From Samson and Delilah to Ruth and Boaz, we’re setting the record straight — and your standards back where they belong: in God’s hands, not in guilt.

It’s time to break free, Sis.

Because love from God? It doesn’t cost your peace.

👋 I’m Patricia Calixte (aka Patty Pat), and welcome to To Run or Not to Run — the space where scripture meets storytelling and sisterhood, and women rise, break free, and walk boldly in their worth!

Let’s leave the knockoffs behind and make room for the man God actually planned for you.

Timestamp

0:00 - Introduction

2:00 - Main Scripture

5:16 - Start of the Message

5:50 - Part 1 — What Real Love Looks Like

9:08 - Part 2 — Red Flags Aren’t Tests. They’re Warnings.

13:02 - Part 3 — You Don’t Fix Red Flags—You Move

16:13 - Part 4 — Soul Ties: They’re Grip, Not Grace

19:00 - Part 5 — Real Love Covers Weakness, Not Red Flags 21:47 - Declaration

22:31 - Prayer

24:31 - Closing Words

💬 Drop a “no more red flags” in the comments if you're choosing healing over history!

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