In this episode, Dr. Stacy and Rhonda Spencer unpack the last three phases of marriage: Rebuilding, Deep Love, and Legacy. They share stories of rebuilding trust, renewing vows, and finding strength through storms. With practical tools and honest reflection, the Spencers guide couples toward intimacy that lasts a lifetime and a legacy that blesses future generations.

In this season premiere of Eden Restored, Dr. Stacy and Rhonda Spencer break down the first three phases every couple faces in marriage: the Dream Phase, the Recovery Phase, and the Disappointment Phase. From rose-tinted glasses to real-world conflicts, quirks, and unmet expectations, they share honest stories, practical tools, and biblical wisdom to help you press through and grow deeper together.

00:00 – Welcome back!

00:19 – Why restoration matters for couples

00:43 – Today’s topic: longevity in marriage

00:52 – The 6 phases of marriage explained

01:16 – Don’t give up before you go up

01:40 – God’s vision for marriage

02:04 – The 6 phases overview

02:27 – Phase 1: The Dream Phase

03:15 – What makes the Dream Phase so powerful

04:02 – Phase 2: The Recovery Phase

04:45 – Facing conflict and reality checks

05:36 – Phase 3: The Disappointment Phase

06:22 – Why couples quit too soon

07:05 – Tools for pushing through hard seasons

08:30 – Closing thoughts and encouragement

In this powerful and transparent episode of the Naked and Unashamed SLS Podcast, Dr. Stacy and Rhonda Spencer open up about the hard-earned wisdom behind their joyful marriage. With honesty, humor, and hope, they dive into two of the biggest relationship game-changers: financial nakedness and emotional vulnerability.From growing up in poverty to building a solid financial future together, the Spencers share how they created a spending plan, navigated joint and personal accounts, dealt with debt, and stayed united through economic storms. They offer real, relatable advice about budgeting, emergency funds, and prioritizing shared goals like retirement and travel.But they don’t stop at money. This episode goes deeper into emotional safety, nonviolent communication, and how to talk to your spouse in a way that invites connection rather than conflict. With stories from their own journey—including breakthroughs around communication, intimacy, and trust—this is more than a podcast; it's a roadmap for couples who want to thrive.Whether you’re married, engaged, or seriously dating, this episode is a must-watch if you’re ready to build a relationship where both partners can be fully known, fully seen, and fully loved—naked and unashamed.Timestamps:00:00 – Intro & Toy Story Kickoff01:00 – The Truth Behind Our Smiles: Working Through the Mud04:00 – Financial Nakedness: From Pell Grants to Property Ownership08:00 – Budgeting Tips, Homeowner Hacks & the Envelope System13:00 – Joint vs. Separate Accounts Debate16:00 – Paying Off Debt: Real Testimonies19:00 – Joseph's Famine Principle Applied Today21:00 – Emotional Nakedness: Learning to Communicate with Grace30:00 – Childhood Trauma, Roaches, and Relationship Clean-Up33:00 – Trust, Honesty, and the Fruits of Repentance40:00 – Eden Circle, Marriage Mastery, and Final Wordswww.TheEdenCircle.comThe Eden Circle is an exclusive membership in the inner circle of Dr. Stacy L. Spencer and Rhonda Spencer. It is a select group of married couples who receive coaching concerning intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, spiritual guidance, and sexual healing.Subscribe, Like & Share:Help us reach 1,000 couples this year by subscribing and sharing this episode with your married or dating friends. Let’s grow stronger—together.