In the season 4 opening episode of Yahweh’s Money, I had an open and heartfelt conversation with my husband, Nathaniel Cook Jr., about the intersection of love, legacy, faith, and finances in Black marriages.

Drawing on our 26-year journey together, we reflected on how biblical principles, patient partnership, and intentional money management have shaped our relationship and approach to generational wealth.

Here are a few key takeaways from our discussion:

Compromise is Crucial

Marriage and money both thrive on honest conversations and joint decision-making. Neither partner will always be right, and building wealth requires alignment—even if visions aren’t identical, they must point in the same direction.

Faith Fuels Financial Resilience

Leaning on faith helps navigate disagreements and encourages patience, trust, and hope—both in God and each other. Strong faith doesn’t erase worry, but it anchors couples through uncertain times.

Generational Understanding Builds Wealth

Wealth isn’t just about assets; it’s also about the mindset passed on. Demonstrating responsible financial behaviors and discussing money openly with our daughter has helped her set a new “floor” for her own future, raising the bar for the next generation.

If you’re looking to strengthen your relationship or build a financial legacy, consider scheduling a "money date" with your partner—pray together and align on your vision for the future.

Let’s keep breaking cycles and building together!

Episode Resources:

Ecclesiastes 4:12

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