What does kindness look like when it actually costs you something?

On this solo episode of the Still Coloring Podcast, Toni dives into Luke 5:17–25 and the story of four friends who carried a paralyzed man to Jesus—and refused to let a crowded room stop them.

They believed.

They sacrificed.

They were determined.

And they had enough faith to carry somebody who may not have had enough strength to carry himself.

Toni unpacks what their story teaches us about sacrificial kindness, friendship, generosity, faith, and becoming the kind of person God can trust with His people.

Because kindness isn’t just saying something nice.

Sometimes kindness costs your time.

Your strength.

Your money.

Your comfort.

Your pride.

And sometimes it means showing up for someone who can’t give you anything in return.

Toni also challenges us with a simple truth:

If you want good friends, you need to be one.

And Jesus’ instruction in Matthew 10 gives us the blueprint:

Give as freely as you have received.

The love you’ve received—give it.

The forgiveness you’ve received—give it.

The kindness Jesus has shown you—go give it away.

🌱 JOIN THE 21-DAY DO GOOD CHALLENGE

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Beginning November 1, Toni and the Still Coloring community are spending 21 days intentionally doing good—one simple act of kindness at a time.

Download the Seeds by Orchard app through the link in the show notes and join us.

And if the Still Coloring Podcast has encouraged you, consider supporting Toni through the donation link in the show notes as she continues building the podcast while raising her kids as a single mom.

Watch the full episode at YouTube.com/@tonijcollier and send it to the friend who has carried you through something you could not have carried alone.

Let’s plant some seeds. 🌱

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Tori shares the story behind her new book Safe House and introduces us to Tanya—the woman who welcomed Tori during some of the hardest moments of her childhood, gave her somewhere to live after she aged out of foster care, and still keeps a key available so Tori always has a safe place to land.

Together, Toni and Tori unpack why hospitality is about so much more than opening your home.

It’s about access and presence.

Listening well.

Building trust.

Making room.

And being willing to love people closely enough that it actually costs you something.

Toni also gets vulnerable about overcoming her own fear of opening her home and what she is learning through hosting a small group for single moms around her table.

This conversation asks all of us a challenging question:

Do people experience the welcome of Jesus when they experience us?

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And if the Still Coloring Podcast has encouraged you, consider supporting the show through the donation link in the show notes as Toni continues building the podcast while raising her kids as a single mom.

Watch the full conversation at YouTube.com/@tonijcollier and share this episode with someone who wants to become a safer, more present, more Jesus-like person.

Watch podcast episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@tonijcollier

Support the Still Coloring Podcast: https://square.link/u/u2FkAzC7?src=sheet

Shop Toni's merch: https://www.shopetch.co/collections/toni-collier

Connect with Toni:
Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tonijcollier
Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/stillcoloringpod
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/colliertoni
Newsletter: ToniJCollier.com/Newsletter
Website: ToniJCollier.com

Purchase Toni's newest book, Don’t Try This Alone: https://amzn.to/3BQqaBr
Purchase Toni’s children’s book, Broken Crayons Still Color: https://amzn.to/3x3I4xD
Purchase Toni’s first book, Brave Enough to be Broken: https://amzn.to/3VoCjVu