Ever feel like finding love shouldn't be this hard? That beneath all the frustration, ghosting, and disappointment, there must be an easier way? You're not alone—and there's profound hope for your love life, regardless of how discouraging the modern dating scene appears.

The truth is startling but liberating: about 85% of single people simply aren't positioned to be emotionally healthy relationship partners. Understanding this reality transforms dating from a personal rejection factory into a more objective search process. When someone demonstrates they're not right for you, they're actually giving you a gift—saving you time and heartache before deeper investment.

This episode reveals three powerful principles that can revolutionize your dating mindset: First, remembering you only need ONE right person (not hundreds of options). Second, trusting that God wants you to experience love and wouldn't place this desire in your heart without purpose. And third, embracing "NEXT" as your magic word when facing disappointment—allowing you to move forward with optimism rather than carrying emotional baggage.

The journey to finding love isn't about lowering your standards or pretending everything is wonderful with rose-colored glasses. It's about managing your emotions, clarifying what truly matters to you in a partner, and trusting the divine timing while doing your part. God has your perfect match ready, but sometimes there's inner work that needs addressing first.

Ready to transform your love life? Take the first step by joining our Spiritual Dating community where you'll find support, guidance, and proven strategies to attract the high-quality, emotionally available partner you deserve. Because as Joe reminds us: "You're not too old, it's not too late, and the love you desire is absolutely possible."

Where are you in your spiritual journey? Share your thoughts and questions in the comments – I'm here to support you in turning the love you desire into reality!

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If you feel stuck and would like to understand what's really blocking you from finding the love God created you to have, I invite you to sign up for a complimentary Spiritual Dating Strategy Session where you and I will jump on the phone (or Zoom) for a quick chat and we'll identify your blocks and discuss the first step you can take to overcome them.
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Have you ever fallen for someone who seemed perfect, only to discover months later they weren't emotionally ready for a relationship? That heartbreaking pattern stops now.

In this eye-opening episode, I share the crucial signs that reveal whether a man is truly prepared for commitment or just going through the motions. We dive deep into why many men genuinely believe they're ready for relationships until their unresolved issues surface when things get serious. This isn't about blaming or shaming – it's about protecting your heart and time from investments that won't pay off.

Learn why dating should be treated as your "test drive" phase, giving you the opportunity to evaluate compatibility before making a significant emotional investment. I break down specific indicators of relationship readiness, including how genuine interest manifests through consistent actions, not just promising words. We explore why men who prioritize sexual connection before establishing emotional intimacy often struggle with commitment, and why someone who treats you as a convenience rather than a priority is showing you exactly where you stand.

Perhaps most importantly, you'll discover how a man's relationship with his past and his connections with others reveals everything about his capacity for healthy partnership. Those who position themselves as victims or maintain toxic relationships elsewhere rarely have the emotional tools necessary for the committed relationship you deserve.

Ready to stop giving your heart to men who can't treasure it properly? This episode equips you with the discernment to recognize the right partner – one who consistently demonstrates through actions that he's prepared to love you the way God intended. Your spiritual dating journey doesn't need to include heartbreak after heartbreak. Let's make smarter choices together.

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Ever wonder why some relationships crumble under pressure while others emerge stronger after facing life's inevitable storms? The difference lies in what spiritual dating coach Joe Amoya calls a "holy relationship" – the kind of divine partnership that God intends for us to experience.

Drawing from his own journey – including a painful engagement that ended just days before the wedding and his current 24-year marriage – Joe reveals the two essential pillars that create unshakeable relationships. These aren't built on luck or chance but on conscious choices that anyone can make. Forget the myth that relationships are 50-50 propositions; holy relationships require 100% commitment from both partners to growth and contribution.

Unlike ego-based connections that begin with physical attraction or shared interests, holy relationships form when two people commit to becoming better versions of themselves while genuinely contributing to each other's wellbeing. This creates a beautiful cycle of giving and receiving that withstands any challenge life presents. When both partners approach love from this perspective, they don't merely survive difficult times – they use adversity as fuel for deeper connection and personal evolution.

Ready to transform your approach to relationships? This episode offers practical guidance for examining your past patterns and taking concrete steps toward the fulfilling partnership you deserve. Because as Joe reminds us: God didn't put that desire for love in your heart without making it possible to fulfill it. Your divine relationship isn't about luck – it's about preparation, intention, and a willingness to build on the right foundation.

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If you have a question you're struggling with or you know you need some guidance in your love life feel free to send me an email: info@joeamoia.com

Remember, you're not too old, it's not too late, and the love you desire is absolutely possible, because God didn't put that desire in your heart for no reason.

Could your expectations be the very thing keeping you from finding lasting love? If you're a spiritually-minded woman who feels like no man measures up, this episode delivers a crucial perspective shift that might transform your entire dating experience.

Most of us confuse expectations with standards, creating a subtle but powerful barrier to the love we desire. Expectations arise from our mind and ego—they're our mental checklist of how we think a partner should look, act, and behave. When these aren't met, we feel disappointment, frustration, and even anger. Standards, however, emerge from our heart, soul, and divine connection. They represent our authentic boundaries and non-negotiable values that honor our worth.

The divine wants you to experience extraordinary love with someone who sees your true essence. Your soul's desires and God's will are perfectly aligned—they're one and the same. Yet when we operate from rigid expectations rather than heart-centered standards, we create a low vibrational frequency that actually repels the love meant for us. Through personal stories and spiritual insights, this episode reveals why the relationship container God designs for us is about growth and connection, not perfection.

Take time for mirror work to identify where your expectations might be working against you. Are you dismissing potential partners based on superficial criteria? Are you seeking butterflies instead of genuine connection? By replacing expectations with clear, soul-aligned standards, you open yourself to divine guidance in your love life. The relationship your heart truly desires becomes possible when you allow God to lead the way.

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Ever feel like your dating life resembles a chaotic amusement park ride? Maybe it's a merry-go-round where you're constantly in motion but never actually getting anywhere. Or perhaps it's more like a roller coaster with extreme highs quickly followed by devastating lows. Whatever your experience, there's good news: dating doesn't have to feel this challenging, regardless of your age or past experiences.

This eye-opening episode breaks down the three key reasons why dating appears more difficult than it truly is. First, we explore how your current life stage naturally creates different dating circumstances than you experienced in your younger years – not worse, just different. Second, we examine how accumulated emotional pain from past relationships often builds invisible walls that block genuine connection. Finally, we reveal a profound mindset shift about what dating actually is – not a punishment to endure, but a purposeful process similar to how companies thoughtfully hire important executives.

Drawing on spiritual wisdom and practical psychology, I share the story of a woman who transformed her dating experience from a nightmare roller coaster into a meaningful journey that led to her ideal partner. You'll discover why online dating has become the number one way people over 50 meet partners today, and how approaching it with the right mindset and strategy can make all the difference.

Ready to make your dating life less frustrating and more fulfilling? This episode provides the framework to stop making dating harder than it needs to be. You'll walk away understanding that God didn't place the desire for partnership in your heart without providing a path to fulfill it – and that path can be far more enjoyable than you've been led to believe.

Come join our private Facebook community to continue the conversation. The link is in the episode description. Remember, you're not too old, it's not too late, and the love you desire is absolutely possible – because true love is your birthright.

What's really keeping you from the relationship you desire? Most spiritually-minded women believe they're ready for love, yet find themselves repeating painful patterns or unconsciously pushing away potential partners. The truth? It's usually not about finding better dating apps or mastering conversation skills—it's about clearing the energetic blocks created by past heartbreaks and disappointments.

This episode dives deep into the psychology behind why we struggle to let go of past relationship wounds and how these unresolved emotions create invisible barriers to the love we seek. You'll discover the crucial difference between emotions (the physical sensations in your body) and feelings (the names we give those sensations), and why 96-98% of your thoughts and behaviors around relationships are operating on autopilot, guided by unconscious patterns.

The most transformative insight? Those painful emotions you experience aren't problems to be fixed or avoided—they're divine messages revealing exactly what needs healing. When you learn to observe these patterns without judgment, practice true acceptance (which doesn't mean condoning hurtful behavior), and understand that forgiveness is a gift you give yourself, you create energetic space for the relationship God intends for you.

Through powerful stories of transformation, including a woman who believed her weight made her unworthy of love until she released the block that allowed her to attracted her husband, you'll see that you don't need years of therapy to heal these wounds. Your past doesn't define your future relationship—unless you let it.

Ready to clear the path for true love? Join our spiritual dating community and discover how the love you desire is absolutely possible, because God didn't put that desire in your heart for no reason.

The Spiritual Dating Podcast
Helping Smart, Successful Women Attract the Love They Deserve

Welcome to The Spiritual Dating Podcast—the show for heart-centered single women who are ready to attract a conscious, emotionally available man for a loving, committed relationship.

Hosted by Joe Amoia, A Spiritual Dating & Relationship Coach, this podcast is your go-to resource for navigating midlife dating with clarity, confidence, and purpose.

If you’ve built a successful life, raised your kids, done the inner work, and still find yourself asking, “Where’s my person?”—you’re not alone. This show is here to help you shift your energy, trust your intuition, and align with the relationship you truly desire.

Each episode delivers real talk, spiritual insights, and actionable strategies to help you stop settling and start receiving the love you deserve.

You’ve done everything else. Now it’s time to get love right.

Subscribe now and join a growing community of smart, divorced, and powerful women creating their next great chapter in life and love.