"Sometimes Love Isn't an Open Door (Especially with Teenagers)"

Let’s talk about closed doors—and not just the physical kind. In this episode, Kris and Rachel dive headfirst into one of parenting's most awkward and emotionally charged questions: What do you do when your teen has a date over and closes their bedroom door? And while we’re at it—what about when YOU have a date over?

This conversation unpacks the layered family dynamics and power plays behind those shut doors, and explores how to lead with healthy communication, emotional intelligence, and vulnerability—even when it feels uncomfortable. From teaching emotional readiness and modeling healthy relationships, to navigating personal boundaries and encouraging self-awareness, Kris and Rachel dig into it all both with some laughs and some hard-earned, real-life parenting wisdom.

They’ll explore how to shift from reactive to responsive, turning moments of tension into opportunities for connection, growth, and guidance. Because when it comes to teen relationships, the rules may be changing—but the need for support, communication, and gratitude stays the same.

If you’ve ever tiptoed past your teen’s room wondering if you should knock—or found yourself wondering how to model love and respect in your own dating life—this one’s for you!

Some key Takeaways:

• Modeling healthy relationships whether between spouses or significant others is crucial for children.
• Conversations about relationships should be ongoing, not one-time events.
• It's important to balance protection with exposure to real-life situations.
• Men and women can provide different, equally helpful perspectives to help children make informed decisions.

• Encouraging children to own their choices fosters responsibility and the decision-making skill.
• Love and relationships are learned within the family context. Navigating teenage relationships requires us as adults to own our own stuff.
• Children's emotional reactions often stem from deeper fears and insecurities.

• Be grateful for the closed door! It can be an invitation to a conversation.

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  If you need more inspiration for how to get through it- we got you! Relax with our curated Grateful Not Greedy™ playlist "Raising Teens Without Losing Your Mind" on Spotify!