In this December mini-episode, Vanessa opens her heart about why this month can feel heavier than any other - especially for those living with cancer, survivors, and anyone grieving someone they love.

She reflects on her own Christmas Eve diagnosis, childhood memories, the ache of missing her mam, and that strange feeling when the world is buzzing with festive energy but you don’t feel any of it.

Vanessa speaks honestly about the loneliness that can show up in December, the five stages of grief that many people still move through even long after treatment ends, and the emotional “rollercoaster” of scans, fear, hope, and healing.

This episode is for anyone who is struggling, surviving, or just trying to get through the days.

Vanessa also gives a glimpse into Season 2 of the podcast and thanks this growing community for helping make cancer a little less lonely.

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In this final episode of Season 1, I sit down with Karen Kruger, Avril Tierney, and Niamh Noonan to talk openly about life with breast cancer. We share the shock of diagnosis, the physical and emotional toll of treatment, and what it feels like to face life afterwards. We talk about fear of recurrence, body image, relationships, and the personal choices involved in treatment and surgery. We also explore self-love, coping strategies, and the comfort of connecting with others who truly understand. This honest and supportive conversation reminds anyone going through cancer that they are never alone.

Titles

• Navigating the Breast Cancer Journey
• Real Stories of Survival and Resilience
• The Emotional Rollercoaster of Cancer Diagnosis
• Life After Cancer: Healing and Moving Forward

Sound Bites

• "It's a massive shock, massive."
• "It's like survival guilt."
• "You have to rebuild yourself."
• "It's a grieving process."
• "Let it go, yeah. Yeah."
• "Screw you! You know?"
• "I'm actually a nicer person."

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I had a great chat with Breandán Ó Maoldúin, who opens up about his personal journey with bowel cancer (also known as colon cancer) and Lynch syndrome, a hereditary genetic condition that increases cancer risk.

Diagnosed at the age of 35, Breandán shares the emotional and physical challenges he’s faced - from treatment and recovery to managing long-term side effects. He speaks openly about the importance of mental-health support, community, and raising awareness around genetic cancers.

Through his story, Breandán highlights the need for early detection, genetic testing, and support networks for people and families affected by bowel / colon cancer and Lynch syndrome. His honesty and resilience remind us of the strength found in sharing real cancer stories, connecting with others, and finding purpose through advocacy and hope.

Takeaways

• Breandán was diagnosed with cancer at 35 due to Lynch syndrome.
• Lynch syndrome increases the risk of colon cancer significantly.
• Mental health is a crucial aspect of the cancer journey.
• Support groups can provide valuable connections and information.
• Awareness of genetic conditions can save lives.
• Every detection is key to survival in cancer treatment.
• Breandán emphasizes the importance of talking to professionals about mental health.
• His experiences have made him value life more than before.
• He encourages others to seek help and not feel ashamed.
• Advocacy and community support are vital for those affected by cancer.

Chapters

00:00
Brendan's Journey Begins: A Diagnosis of Cancer

02:38
Understanding Lynch Syndrome and Its Impact

05:20
The Battle with Cancer: Treatment and Recovery

07:51
The Return of Cancer: A New Challenge

10:42
Mental Health and Support During Cancer Treatment

13:23
Living with Cancer: Advocacy and Awareness

14:36
Facing the Darkness: Breandán's Struggle with Depression

16:35
The Importance of Mental Health Support

18:32
Embracing Emotions: The Human Experience

20:43
Finding Strength in Nature and Mindfulness

21:52
Life After Cancer: A New Perspective

24:21
Understanding Genetic Risks and Preventative Measures

26:12
The Power of Awareness and Early Detection

27:47
Living Life to the Fullest: Embracing Change

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In this heartfelt episode of 'Someone Like Me', Caroline Corcoran shares her profound journey of loss, having lost both her parents to cancer. She recounts the struggles, the emotional toll, and the lessons learned through her experiences. The conversation delves into the impact of cancer on families, the challenges of caregiving, and the importance of seeking support. Caroline also discusses her involvement in charity work, channeling her grief into helping others affected by cancer.

Takeaways

• Cancer affects the entire family, not just the individual.
• Navigating a loved one's cancer journey can be overwhelming.
• The importance of advocating for loved ones in medical settings.
• Grief can bring families closer together, despite the circumstances.
• Planning for end-of-life care can provide peace of mind.
• The emotional toll of watching a loved one suffer is profound.
• Finding purpose in grief can lead to positive outcomes.
• It's essential to talk about death and dying openly.
• Early detection of cancer can save lives.
• Support systems are crucial for those dealing with loss.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Grief and Loss

01:52
The Journey Begins: A Mother's Diagnosis

05:21
Navigating Treatment and Family Dynamics

10:00
Coping with Terminal Illness

14:02
The Final Days and Farewell

18:14
Life After Loss: Grieving and Moving Forward

19:12
Navigating Grief: The Loss of Loved Ones

28:50
Coping with Loss: The Aftermath of Grief

31:18
Turning Grief into Action: Charity Work and Legacy

37:10
Vanessa-Outro.mp3

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Summary

In this conversation, Martin Sweeney shares his personal journey with prostate cancer, detailing the initial signs, diagnosis, and the emotional impact it had on him. He emphasizes the importance of early detection, understanding treatment options, and the mental health challenges that accompany a cancer diagnosis. Martin also discusses the significance of support systems, both for patients and their partners, and highlights the need for open communication in relationships affected by cancer.

Takeaways

• Prostate cancer often shows no obvious symptoms, making awareness crucial.
• Family history plays a significant role in cancer risk.
• PSA tests are important for early detection of prostate issues.
• Receiving a cancer diagnosis can be overwhelming and isolating.
• Support services are essential for patients navigating their diagnosis.
• Men often struggle to discuss health issues, leading to delayed treatment.
• Understanding treatment options is vital for making informed decisions.
• Mental health support is crucial after a cancer diagnosis.
• Communication with partners about sexual health is important post-treatment.
• Advocacy work can help improve cancer care and support for patients.

Titles

• Navigating the Journey of Prostate Cancer
• From Diagnosis to Advocacy: Martin's Story

Sound Bites

• "I just heard the one word, cancer."
• "It's a total game changer."
• "You have to show the initiative."

Chapters
00:00
Introduction to Martin's Journey with Prostate Cancer

04:50
The Diagnosis: Facing the Reality of Cancer

10:40
Understanding Treatment Options and Decisions

18:47
Mental Health Impact and Support Systems

26:31
Navigating Relationships and Intimacy Post-Diagnosis

31:59
Current Health and Advocacy Work

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Summary

In this episode of Someone Like Me, host Vanessa speaks with Olivia Carpenter, a breast cancer survivor who shares her inspiring journey of resilience and hope. Olivia opens up about being diagnosed at a young age while her dad was going through cancer at the same time. She reflects on the emotional challenges of supporting him while facing her own treatment, the grief of losing him, and how these experiences inspired her to create Olivia’s Gifts a heartfelt initiative providing comfort to those undergoing treatment. This powerful conversation highlights the importance of community, support, and the unbreakable bond between family members during life’s most difficult moments.

Takeaways

• Olivia was diagnosed with breast cancer at 34 years old.
• She experienced the emotional toll of battling cancer while her father was also ill.
• Olivia's Gifts was created to provide comfort to cancer patients.
• The importance of community support during cancer treatment is emphasized.
• Olivia's journey highlights the fear of recurrence even after years of being cancer-free.
• She shares the challenges of navigating treatment while being a mother to three children.
• The conversation touches on the grief of losing a loved one to cancer.
• Olivia's father had a significant impact on her life and journey.
• The podcast emphasizes the need for awareness about breast cancer symptoms.
• Olivia encourages open conversations about cancer and support for those affected.

Chapters

00:00
Introduction to Olivia's Journey

01:07
The Diagnosis: A Life-Changing Moment

08:17
Navigating Treatment and Family Challenges

10:41
Follow-Up Care and Ongoing Anxiety

13:43
Coping with Loss and Family Dynamics

16:43
Navigating Grief and Loss

23:18
Creating Olivia's Gift: A Personal Mission

27:45
Family Resilience and Moving Forward

31:13
Vanessa-Outro.mp3

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Dr. Liz O’Riordan, a breast surgeon who faced breast cancer not once but three times, joins me for a powerful and deeply personal conversation. Liz shares her own journey through diagnosis, treatment, and multiple recurrences, offering a unique perspective as both doctor and patient.

We talk about the emotional and mental challenges that come with cancer, the importance of education and support, and how treatment can impact intimacy and relationships. Liz opens up about the need for honest conversations, why quality of life matters as much as survival, and how to find purpose and reinvention after cancer.

This episode is full of resilience, honesty, and hope and it is a must listen for anyone affected by cancer.

Listen to Dr. Liz’s YouTube channel where she shares brilliant, practical tips to help you through cancer and beyond. She’s also the author of three amazing books, all available now on Amazon. See Below:

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_t0jGeR8M4vCPSb68itjRQ

https://www.amazon.ie/Cancer-Roadmap-science-backed-treatment-ORiordan/dp/0008659087/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1HCF9ZKVZR5IF&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Cd8e2Go0SfGGfvL3qJImPR2cYINLb-e4ezkxfgsfu0strb3-BDnQFy5rHz9DTvqbWpKZ0Tzbo8ffsuRLxlUjqT9xf6LzVZAuSab8gt2p85RwQmnLc-FAl28WgqvEtLChWOjyaFdTgAtdmGN4gDU6NE-0ekug_ldtG1-pFuZ7kKOh9hsKvkLLQcaCAK4h7cc4gR5WJ9OkzbE0UlaglQndnJu-kySjgeojz_UstjS3Gy4.VzsR_S36bOu-F4OIDZe5CCzSLe7DDQNHikmsOTGnHW4&dib_tag=se&keywords=dr+liz+o&psr=EY17&qid=1757785646&s=todays-deals&sprefix=dr+liz+o+%2Ctodays-deals%2C47&sr=1-1

Sound Bites

• "I was floating thinking this is happening."
• "I felt like an alien during chemo."
• "It's a mental roller coaster."

Chapters

00:00
The Diagnosis Journey

03:25
The Emotional Impact of Cancer

06:24
Understanding Recurrences and Treatment Options

09:14
Navigating Mental Health Challenges

12:07
The Importance of Community and Support

14:54
Quality of Life vs. Treatment Side Effects

17:48
Planning for the Future and Mental Well-being

24:39
Navigating Grief and Acceptance

26:50
The Impact of Cancer on Relationships

30:36
Reconnecting Intimacy After Cancer

37:22
Embracing Change and Self-Discovery

42:11
Finding Positivity and Purpose Post-Cancer

45:25
Vanessa-Outro.mp3

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In this solo episode, Vanessa shares a deeply personal experience that shook her to the core. What started as a frightening health scare quickly turned into hours of fear, uncertainty and loneliness, made worse by a lack of compassion and clear communication from the medical team.

Vanessa opens up about the emotions that ran through her mind, the what ifs, and the importance of compassion in healthcare. She also reflects on how moments like this remind us of the preciousness of life, and why she created Someone Like Me Your Cancer Community in the first place.

This is a raw, honest conversation from Vanessa for anyone who has ever felt afraid, unheard or left in the dark.

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