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  • Are Women Doing Too Much In Dating? Gender Roles, Male Friends and Relationship Boundaries

    Are Women Doing Too Much In Dating? Gender Roles, Male Friends and Relationship Boundaries
    2026/08/31
    In part Two of this weeks episode of So Shameless, the crew gets into dating, gender roles, friendship boundaries and what actually counts as disrespect when you’re in a relationship.

    Should men be expected to handle the traditionally masculine things while women handle the feminine things in a relationship—or are those expectations outdated?

    We also debate whether men ruin friendships with women by eventually wanting sex, and whether a woman planning AND paying for the third date is showing healthy interest or doing way too much, way too soon. Plus, do men take women who are constantly dating different people seriously when it comes time to choose a relationship?

    Paris opens up about her history of dating the “fun guys”—men who are into clubs, bars, cars, clothes and the lifestyle—and whether choosing excitement over stability may have been working against her.

    Then we get into social media relationship boundaries: Is a man liking other women’s pictures on Instagram harmless, or is it disrespectful to his relationship?

    Finally, the crew reacts to Funky Dineva’s controversial comments about parents bringing autistic children into public spaces where people have a “reasonable expectation of peace,” including restaurants and airplanes—and whether expecting that kind of “peace” in a shared public space is reasonable in the first place.

    Dating expectations. Gender roles. Friendship. Social media. Relationship boundaries. And another conversation where the cast of So Shameless and their guests probably aren’t going to agree on anything.

    Enjoy!
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    1 時間 24 分
  • The Provider Role Is Changing..So Why Haven't The Expectations?

    The Provider Role Is Changing..So Why Haven't The Expectations?
    2026/08/26
    This week on So Shameless, Tahoe is joined by Paris Danielle, Lola The Divine and Yesssterday for a conversation that goes from hilarious relationship misunderstandings to some much heavier questions about race, safety and what Black Americans should be paying attention to.

    Paris opens up about realizing bartending simply wasn’t for her, before the crew asks why women are so quick to hit their man with “WRONG B*TCH!” when he remembers something she doesn’t. Why is the first assumption that he must be confusing her with another woman?

    Then things get serious.

    The crew discusses the blackout in Gary, Indiana and questions surrounding the length of the power restoration, reports and concerns involving Black people being found hanging from trees in the South, and what Black communities should realistically be prepared for if racial tensions in America continue to escalate.

    We also get into a disturbing Google search observation: why does searching “I’m alone with a white man” trigger language asking whether you’re scared or in danger, while similar searches involving other races or genders appear to produce different results?

    Finally, we tackle one of the biggest debates in modern relationships: If men historically became providers partly because women had limited legal and economic opportunities, why are men still expected to financially provide now that women can earn, own, lead and—in many cases—out-earn men?

    Have the opportunities changed while the relationship expectations stayed the same?

    Featuring: @ParisDanielleco @lolatheedivine @yesssterday @tahoe_tv

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    So Shameless — where the conversations everybody is having privately get said out loud.
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    1 時間 21 分
  • Are Women Being Taught How To Be Wives Anymore? Double Standards, Colorism and Dating For Marriage

    Are Women Being Taught How To Be Wives Anymore? Double Standards, Colorism and Dating For Marriage
    2026/08/21
    Part Two with celebrity chef Chef Cream gets even more controversial as we dive into dating, marriage, masculinity, race, colorism, and the double standards between men and women.

    We start with a woman who says she’s only interested in men who are intentionally dating for marriage—but are men and women actually being prepared to become good husbands and wives? We debate fathers who teach their daughters to stay single, distrust men, and “be a boss” versus also teaching them what it takes to build a healthy relationship with a man.

    Then things get uncomfortable: Should a husband feel disrespected if another man is overly complimenting his wife? Why do some men completely lose their composure around beautiful women? And is it ever okay to say the N-word around white people, even if you’re not talking to them?

    We also react to Blueface calling a woman a “good darkskin” and debate whether the comment was a compliment, colorist, or just poorly worded. Plus, we get into the sexual double standard: Why are men celebrated for having multiple sexual partners while women are judged for doing the same thing—and should either one be judged at all?

    Finally, things take a wild turn when a surrogate mother changes her mind and disappears with the baby.

    Dating for marriage, husbands and wives, male and female double standards, colorism, relationships, sex, race, respect, and much more—nothing is off limits on Part Two with Chef Cream.
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    1 時間 19 分
  • Are All White People Racist? InvestFest Backlash and What it Means To Not Have A High Racial IQ

    Are All White People Racist? InvestFest Backlash and What it Means To Not Have A High Racial IQ
    2026/08/19
    This week on So Shameless, celebrity chef @Chef.Cream joins us on the couch for a conversation that goes from entrepreneurship and community to race, culture, and some of the biggest debates happening in Black America.

    We kick things off talking about Traum’s successful block party, the work that went into curating the event, and Tahoe’s new icee cart—which leads to a conversation about his hustler mentality and why he’s always looking for the next opportunity.

    Then we address the backlash from last week’s episode before getting into a much bigger question: Are all white people racist? And what do we make of white influencers who build platforms around being “pro-Black”? Are they genuine allies, profiting from Black culture, or can both things be true?
    We also discuss Tuskegee University’s new dress code, including the controversy surrounding restrictions on bonnets and durags, and the debate over respectability, professionalism, and cultural expression.

    Then we get into the criticism surrounding Earn Your Leisure and Invest Fest, including Rashad Bilal’s comments about creating a festival specifically for Black people and why the event has become such a polarizing topic online.

    Finally, we discuss disturbing reports involving Black people being found hanging from trees in the South and the fear, anger, and questions those cases have raised—including what Black communities should demand from authorities when circumstances surrounding a death are unclear.
    It’s another uncomfortable, complicated, and very So Shameless conversation.


    Tap in and let us know where you stand.

    Socials
    Cream
    @Chef.Cream on Instagram and TikTok
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    1 時間 20 分
  • Why Do Black People Hold On To The Pain Of Racism So Tightly???

    Why Do Black People Hold On To The Pain Of Racism So Tightly???
    2026/08/14
    Tahoe and Norense go head to head in a conversation about racism, christianity, masculinity, black pride and we revisit the covid discussion. This was alot. Enjoy.

    Socials:
    Norense
    @KingNo_
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    1 時間 8 分
  • When Do Black Men Become MEN?? Feat Norense Odiase

    When Do Black Men Become MEN?? Feat Norense Odiase
    2026/08/11
    Welcome Back To another episode of So Shameless!

    This week we welcome motivation and wellness influencer Norense Odiase to talk the difference in how black men view life at 30 vs how they view life at 50, dealing with a friend that has thoughts of ending it all, defining what a perfect life is, how trauma changes us at our core, affecting the people around us positively and what that does for you, being a dark skin Nigerian American and the difference between how Norense was treated when he was young vs how he is treated now that he is successful and older, Norense's first experiences with women and how that shaped how he feels about interracial relationships, and how Norense feels about the backlash he may get from the black community based off of his dating choices. Very interesting episode!!!

    Tune in to Patreon to hear part two!

    Socials:
    Norense
    @KingNo_ on instagram
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    1 時間 10 分
  • Marriage Is For Broke Women? Dating Up, Millionaire Mindsets & Remy Ma said what?

    Marriage Is For Broke Women? Dating Up, Millionaire Mindsets & Remy Ma said what?
    2026/08/07
    This week on So Shameless, we’re back with Emanny of The Joe Budden Podcast and friend of the show Tasia Janine for Part Two of a conversation about money, relationships, and modern dating expectations.

    We discuss Mandi, of Decision, Decisions, controversial claim that marriage is for broke women, whether men and women experience dating someone with more money differently, and if dating up versus dating down changes relationship dynamics. We also react to a woman who says she’ll only date a man with the mindset of a millionaire, debate Remy Ma’s reasons for calling herself the perfect wife, and somehow… YesJulz finds herself at the center of another internet conversation.

    Listen, subscribe, and join the conversation.

    Socials
    Tasia
    @TasiaJanine on Instagram

    Emanny
    @EmannyMusic on Instagram
    Patreon.com/alleyesone
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    1 時間 19 分
  • The Side Chick Had Access To His Girls Security Camera???

    The Side Chick Had Access To His Girls Security Camera???
    2026/08/04
    This week on So Shameless, we’re joined by Emanny from the Joe Budden Podcast and friend of the show Tasia Janine for a conversation about the fine line between comfort and losing the plot in relationships.

    We debate whether women get too comfortable passing gas around their partners, react to Usher getting curved by a fan during his concert, discuss what it’s like loving someone whose behavior constantly embarrasses you, and ask if you can ever truly move forward with someone who’s still emotionally attached to their ex.

    We also unpack the story of a man who gave his side chick access to the security cameras in the home he shares with his child’s mother, talk about becoming the kind of parent your children can come to when life gets real, and explore why some women lose interest in ambitious men who are still building and need support.

    ENJOY!!!

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    Socials
    Tasia
    @TasiaJanine on Instagram

    Emanny
    @EmannyMusic on Instagram
    Patreon.com/alleyesone
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    1 時間 24 分