Nonchalant dating is out… and honestly, it's about time. In this episode of Sex and the Cincy, we're talking about the shift from playing it cool to what people are now calling "chalance" dating, where effort, clarity, and consistency are finally back in style.

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What good things can happen once we start to heal??? I usually avoid the word "heal" because we never stop healing. But todays guest Adam (Connection Thu Chaos Podcast) walks us through healing, and ending old patterns. All while celebrating even the smallest wins. and plot twist.... Is that REAL healing???

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Downtown Cincinnati's Arnold's has it allllllllll. burgers to die for, cocktails, live music, and you can even surprise your date with a self-guided art tour. Whether it's a date or a night out with friends, this spot is a total 10/10. You need to check it out!

210 E 8th St, Cincinnati, OH 45202

I'm TELLLLINNGGG YOU… create a self-guided art tour for you and your date! Or yourself, hehe

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Here's the thing… I'm on a journey to healing my anxious, avoidant attachment style. And this fun lil hot take dating Q&A session HOPEFULLLLYYY checks out… I looove being single. OR… do I actually just prefer to isolate so I dont have to risk anything…. EEEEEK.

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210 E 8th St, Cincinnati, OH 45202

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Trouble with erections, trouble with self-lubrication, low libido?! Could be all those pizza pockets… I got chu (;

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Downtown Cincinnati's Arnold's has it allllllllll. burgers to die for, cocktails, live music, and you can even surprise your date with a self-guided art tour. Whether it's a date or a night out with friends, this spot is a total 10/10. You need to check it out!

210 E 8th St, Cincinnati, OH 45202

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Ok ok ok…. We have finally made it… The end of this story and chapter… Today I am hanging out with Izzy because she was my right-hand woman during the annoyed crashouts…

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✨Today's Episode is sponsored by Lydia Thee Esthetician!✨

This week's episode is sponsored by my go-to Cincinnati aesthetician, Lydia Thee Esthetician. Lydia offers a free 30-minute skin consultation, and let me tell you, it's a game-changer.

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Having a therapist on the pod was SOOO healing for me. And this conversation barely scratched the surface. Christin is incredible. I'm excited for you to hear her thoughts on why we do some of the things we do.

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ATTN CINCINNATI:

Governor DeWine line-item vetoed 15 pages of SB 56 — killing the THC beverage provisions the legislature passed with bipartisan support.The votes to override exist. Leadership needs to bring it to the floor. Want to help???

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I went in just wanting to start taking better care of my skin, and I left feeling so educated, confident, and excited about my new routine. Lydia mapped out a personalized plan for my skin, explained everything in a way that made sense, and gave me clear steps for prevention and long-term care.

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Okayyyy welcome back to part 2/3 of this ghosting series! Today, we rewind to Fall 2024-Winter 2025.... emotional maturity has left the chat.

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This week's episode is sponsored by my go-to Cincinnati aesthetician, Lydia Thee Esthetician. Lydia offers a free 30-minute skin consultation, and let me tell you, it's a game-changer.

I went in just wanting to start taking better care of my skin, and I left feeling so educated, confident, and excited about my new routine. Lydia mapped out a personalized plan for my skin, explained everything in a way that made sense, and gave me clear steps for prevention and long-term care.

Whether you're dealing with specific concerns or just want to glow, Lydia has you in safe hands. Check her out below, your skin will thank you. ✨

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Hellooooo hot people!!! We have one of your favorites back, Bobby G! Last we heard from him, he was headed to Disney with his ex. What happened??? Let's find out together.

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THE reel.... its so good hahaha

Our Previous Episode: "Going to Disney with my Ex" 9/18

✨Today's Episode is sponsored by Lydia Thee Esthetician!✨

This week's episode is sponsored by my go-to Cincinnati aesthetician, Lydia Thee Esthetician. Lydia offers a free 30-minute skin consultation, and let me tell you, it's a game-changer.

I went in just wanting to start taking better care of my skin, and I left feeling so educated, confident, and excited about my new routine. Lydia mapped out a personalized plan for my skin, explained everything in a way that made sense, and gave me clear steps for prevention and long-term care.

Whether you're dealing with specific concerns or just want to glow, Lydia has you in safe hands. Check her out below, your skin will thank you. ✨

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