Nonchalant dating is out… and honestly, it's about time. In this episode of Sex and the Cincy, we're talking about the shift from playing it cool to what people are now calling "chalance" dating, where effort, clarity, and consistency are finally back in style.

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What good things can happen once we start to heal??? I usually avoid the word "heal" because we never stop healing. But todays guest Adam (Connection Thu Chaos Podcast) walks us through healing, and ending old patterns. All while celebrating even the smallest wins. and plot twist.... Is that REAL healing???

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✨ Thank you to today's sponsor, Arnold's Bar and Grill! ✨

Downtown Cincinnati's Arnold's has it allllllllll. burgers to die for, cocktails, live music, and you can even surprise your date with a self-guided art tour. Whether it's a date or a night out with friends, this spot is a total 10/10. You need to check it out!

210 E 8th St, Cincinnati, OH 45202

I'm TELLLLINNGGG YOU… create a self-guided art tour for you and your date! Or yourself, hehe

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Here's the thing… I'm on a journey to healing my anxious, avoidant attachment style. And this fun lil hot take dating Q&A session HOPEFULLLLYYY checks out… I looove being single. OR… do I actually just prefer to isolate so I dont have to risk anything…. EEEEEK.

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Downtown Cincinnati's Arnold's has it allllllllll. burgers to die for, cocktails, live music, and you can even surprise your date with a self-guided art tour. Whether it's a date or a night out with friends, this spot is a total 10/10. You need to check it out!

210 E 8th St, Cincinnati, OH 45202

I'm TELLLLINNGGG YOU… create a self-guided art tour for you and your date! Or yourself, hehe

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