In this episode, Amy dives into her “Secret Questions:” those persistent, introspective musings about connection, trends, and self-loyalty that linger at the back of her mind. Through raw reflection, humor, and heartfelt honesty, Amy invites listeners into her inner world—one shaped by recovery, spirituality, motherhood, and life with ADHD.

Key Points:

• The Longevity of Relationships: Amy candidly explores why some people seem able to maintain lifelong friendships and networks, while others (like herself) struggle to keep in touch. She reflects on generational differences, personal choices, and the elusive “secret sauce” that holds relationships together over time.

• Deconstructing Self-Blame: Drawing on her 14+ years in recovery and 12-step wisdom, Amy examines her tendency to assume personal fault for relationship drift, while also acknowledging the role of impermanence and growth throughout life.

• The Mystery of Trends & Virality: Amy shares her befuddlement with marketing and internet trends, questioning what makes certain moments go viral or products become beloved. She humorously acknowledges her pop culture “stuck in the 80s” status and the unpredictability of what connects with people en masse.

• Caring vs. Not Caring: Reflecting on her shifting bandwidth and emotional investment, Amy discusses oscillating between deep care for projects, relationships, and pop culture—and total indifference, often dictated by ADHD and life chaos.

• The Struggle with Self-Abandonment: Despite her fierce loyalty to others, Amy vulnerably reveals her ongoing struggle with self-abandonment when it comes to advocating for her own needs, health, or boundaries—an area she’s still working on, even in sobriety.

• Humor Meets Seriousness: True to form, Amy balances self-deprecating humor (including her delight in a tongue-in-cheek Nancy Drew container) with deep insights on impermanence, spiritual practice, and the resilience demanded by life’s unpredictability.

• Practical Wisdom: While not offering definitive answers, Amy encourages curiosity, self-compassion, and continuous self-examination as tools for navigating relationships, trends, and self-advocacy.

Closing Thoughts:Amy leaves listeners with the acknowledgment that some questions may never be fully answered—and that’s okay. By staying curious, kind, and authentic, we can keep growing and caring (at least when it matters most).

Hosted by Amy Liz Harrison

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