Evan interviews award-winning director Elizabeth Lo about her documentary Mistress Dispeller, following Teacher Wang’s work with a wife, husband, and mistress in China, and explores empathy, cultural “saving face,” legal/ethical challenges, filmmaking style, and the documentary marketplace.

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00:46 Season Intro and Guest Tease

01:17 Producer Banter and Setup

02:40 On the Docket: Shaq Divorce

04:14 Kids and Divorce Reflections

07:46 Parenting After Separation

10:22 Overrated/Underrated Begins

10:50 Legal Takes Business and CPAs

13:56 Co Parenting Communication Rules

15:54 Fun Picks Cornhole and Photobooths

20:38 Introducing Elizabeth Lo

21:29 Mistress Dispeller Origin Story

22:31 Teacher Wang Philosophy on Pain

23:59 Cheating Husbands Beyond Villains

26:01 Wives Culture and Saving Face

27:36 Directing Without Taking Sides

30:00 Editing With Restraint

30:20 Could It Work In The West

31:56 Legal And Ethical Minefields

34:01 Reconsent And Participant Protection

35:27 Mistress Beyond Villainy

36:43 What Mistress Dispelling Reveals

38:14 Participant Reactions And Trust

40:23 Filmmaking Style And Craft

42:15 Motivation And Doc Market Shift

44:19 Monogamy Love And Reflection

47:20 Future Love Stories

49:04 They Said It Quotes Segment

56:28 Documentary As Poetry

01:01:00 Wrap Up And Farewell

Evan delves into the complex world of divorce and relationships, spotlighting how financial dynamics impact these processes. The episode features an insightful discussion with journalist and author Josie Cox, who talks about her article on the rise in divorce rates when women out-earn men and her new book, 'Women Money Power: The Rise and Fall of Economic Equality.' The conversation covers the psychological and financial aspects of divorce, societal expectations, and the gender pay gap. Additionally, the episode presents the popular segment 'Overrated Underrated' and explores recent headlines in the world of divorce and family law.

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00:38 Season Six Kickoff and Reflections

03:54 Explosive Divorce Headlines

10:13 Overrated or Underrated: Divorce Edition

19:41 Interview with Journalist Josie Cox

28:38 Generational Shifts in Financial Dynamics

29:25 The Surprising Conservatism of Younger Generations

32:10 The Evolving Perception of Prenuptial Agreements

35:27 Financial Literacy and Gender Inclusion

39:42 The Gender Pay Gap: A Deep Dive

46:21 Addressing Gender Inequality in Professional Sports

52:00 Closing Thoughts and Future Directions

53:01 Fun Segment: They Said It

A rich conversation with Dr. Pepper Schwartz, an acclaimed sociologist, sexologist, and bestselling author. Dr. Schwartz discusses the importance of communication and intimacy in relationships, debunks myths about sex and aging, and provides practical advice for individuals at different stages of life. The episode concludes with a segment called 'They Said It,' where Dr. Schwartz offers her perspectives on notable quotes related to love, sex, and relationships.

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02:40 Reflecting on 2025 and Looking Ahead to 2026

04:47 The Power of Pause and Measuring Success

07:18 Reflecting on Past Episodes and Guests

11:21 Discussing Relationships and Marriage

16:06 Dating Post-Divorce and Intimacy

26:12 Financial Planning and Divorce

34:11 End of Year Reflections and Future Plans

38:49 The Physical Benefits of Climax

39:22 Sexuality After Age 50

42:00 Gray Divorce and Sexuality

43:53 Misinterpretations in Human Sexuality

47:56 AI Companions and Relationships

50:25 Reality TV and Marriage

54:12 Politics and Love

57:13 Advice for Different Ages

59:03 Communication in Relationships

01:02:09 Rituals to Keep Chemistry Alive

01:07:56 Famous Quotes on Love and Sex

Evan is joined by communication experts Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski, co-authors of 'Outwitting the Manipulator.' The episode delves into recognizing and responding to manipulation in real-time, particularly within the context of high-conflict divorces and everyday relationships. Topics include common manipulation tactics such as gaslighting and love bombing, managing post-divorce parenting, and the significance of premarital counseling. The podcast also features a discussion on handling manipulation from leadership in the workplace and offers practical advice for those dealing with manipulators. The episode concludes with the fun segment 'They Said It,' where Evan and guests analyze famous quotes related to manipulation.

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02:39 Holiday Struggles During Divorce

05:48 Co-Parenting During the Holidays

11:18 Life After Divorce: Remarriage and Moving On

13:06 Overrated or Underrated: Fun and Legal Topics

24:06 Interview with Dr. Dennis Becker and Robin Golinski

36:51 Understanding Manipulative Personalities

37:34 Can Manipulators Change?

38:15 Manipulation Tactics in the Workplace

39:29 Mastering Skills to Handle Manipulation

43:11 Manipulation in High Conflict Divorces

44:17 Communicating with a Manipulative Ex

47:06 Spotting Manipulation in Legal Cases

59:09 Quotes on Manipulation

01:04:32 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan dives into the complexities of divorce and addiction with featured guest Erin Khar, author of 'Strung Out'. The episode covers Erin's personal journey through a 15-year heroin addiction, her approach to recovery, and her advice on navigating relationships plagued by substance abuse. The conversation also touches on broader societal issues, such as the stigma around addiction and the flawed family court system. Listeners will find practical advice on handling the holiday season amidst divorce, the nuances of parental alienation claims, and thoughts on cultural phenomena like Taylor Swift. The episode concludes with an engaging segment featuring quotes from notable figures and a lively discussion on the underrated cranberry sauce.

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00:15 Divorce and the Holiday Season

05:26 AI Relationships and Legal Challenges

12:04 Overrated or Underrated: Pop Culture Edition

23:14 Interview with Erin Khar: Addiction and Recovery

36:15 Addressing Skeptical Senators on Harm Reduction

36:47 The Economic Argument for Medicated Assisted Treatment

39:05 Personal Reflections on Writing a Memoir

40:40 The Dichotomy of Heroin Use

43:39 The Unwinnable War on Drugs

45:41 Advocating for Harm Reduction and Community Support

50:51 Balancing Advice and Personal Experience

52:51 Lessons from Beverly Hills 90210

54:40 Changing the Language Around Addiction

56:31 Parenting and Personal Accountability

01:14:05 The Importance of Sharing Your Story

01:19:36 Final Thoughts and Reflections

In Episode 93 of The Schein On Podcast, Evan talks to Dr. Tracey Dalgleish, a clinical psychologist and relationship expert, to discuss her latest book, 'You, Your Husband and His Mother.' The conversation delves into the intricacies of the relationship triangle between husbands, their wives, and mother-in-laws. Tracey provides actionable advice for couples aiming to strengthen their marriage while managing familial boundaries. The episode also touches on significant issues such as the current state of divorce law, the value of farmers' markets, and the communal joy of fantasy sports leagues. Additionally, listeners get treated to the engaging 'Overrated/Underrated' and 'They Said It' segments, making for a well-rounded and insightful episode.

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00:33 Exploring Divorce Dynamics with Dr. Tracey Dalgleish

02:47 The Impact of Equal Custody Laws

08:42 Overrated or Underrated

25:08 Navigating Boundaries with Family

26:26 Practical Tools for Tough Moments

28:25 Personal Struggles and Professional Insights

30:12 The Power of Vulnerability in Therapy

34:01 Shifting Perspectives on Marriage and Divorce

35:27 Balancing Professional and Personal Life

38:53 Advice for Couples in Therapy

42:58 Co-Parenting After Divorce

44:42 Reflecting on the New Book

46:48 Fun Segment: They Said It

52:34 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Evan welcomes Dr. Rachel Glik, a relationship specialist and author of 'A Soulful Marriage.' Dr. Glik shares insights on maintaining healthy marriages, the misconceptions about love, and her personal experiences that inspired her book. The episode also includes fun segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It,' where the hosts debate pumpkin spice lattes, reality dating shows, and the wisdom of quotes from famous personalities.

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00:30 Fall Season and Football Talk

01:52 Birthday Wishes and Aging Secrets

02:33 Exciting Episode Preview

03:33 Diving into the Docket: Trophy Husband

04:03 Discussion on Income Disparity in Marriages

10:29 Overrated or Underrated: Rebound Relationships

12:51 Overrated or Underrated: Co-Parenting Apps

15:03 Overrated or Underrated: Board Games

16:33 Overrated or Underrated: Reality TV Dating Shows

20:15 Overrated or Underrated: Pumpkin Spice Everything

23:34 Introduction to Dr. Rachel Glik

24:10 Inspiration Behind 'A Soulful Marriage'

25:42 Challenges in Relationships

28:16 The Importance of Physical Intimacy

29:43 Misconceptions About Love

31:24 Early Marriage Counseling

39:21 The Role of Quantum Physics in Relationships

40:49 The Relevance of Marriage Today

44:15 Impact of 'A Soulful Marriage'

46:58 Fun Segment: They Said It

52:19 Conclusion and Where to Find the Book

Evan concludes the summer with a compelling episode featuring Bela Gandhi, founder of the Smart Dating Academy. They explore themes around modern dating, the impact of online dating, and the process of finding love post-divorce. Bela shares her journey from a career in business to becoming a renowned dating coach, offering invaluable insights on dating logistics, recognizing red flags, and debunking common myths. The episode also features discussions on the financial and emotional tolls of divorce and includes engaging segments like 'Overrated or Underrated' and 'They Said It.'

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00:31 Reflecting on the End of Summer

01:31 Exploring Modern Romance with Bela Ghandi

02:33 Diving into Divorce Trends

08:02 Weaponized Incompetence in Relationships

11:12 Overrated or Underrated: Divorce and Beyond

21:55 Interview with Bela Ghandi Journey and Insights

30:18 Blending Love and Compatibility

30:48 Generational Perspectives on Love

31:37 Unexpected Career Paths

32:19 The Role of Chemistry in Relationships

32:48 Modern Dating Challenges

34:20 The Paradox of Choice in Online Dating

35:51 Dating During and After Divorce

39:44 Debunking Dating Myths

44:53 Psychological Insights into Dating

53:14 The Impact of Politics on Relationships

54:27 Final Thoughts and Advice