Life keeps Life'n

This was an episode Coach Thomas featuring Michael Skinner, a male survivor of childhood sexual, physical, and emotional abuse discussing his healing journey and what thriving looks like after trauma. Michael shared his story of abuse by both parents, and his escape through music.

https://www.mskinnermusic.com/book

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Carry Less. Live Free! Coach Thomas Edward

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Why do so many survivors long for connection yet pull away when people get close?

In this episode of Things Nobody Ever Told Male Survivors, Coach T explores one of the most confusing effects of childhood sexual trauma: the fear of intimacy.

Through the story of Miguel, a man engaged to his long-term partner, Daniel, we examine why healthy love can sometimes trigger anxiety, distance, and self-protection. You'll learn how childhood sexual abuse can blur the lines between love, vulnerability, trust, and danger, leaving survivors caught between wanting connection and fearing it at the same time.

With you in this,

Carry Less. Live Free! Coach Thomas Edward

• Life By Your Design
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Why is asking for help so difficult?

In this episode of Things Nobody Ever Told Male Survivors, Coach T explores one of the most common yet overlooked effects of childhood sexual trauma: hyper-independence.

Through the story of Mark, a successful man who built his life around self-reliance, we examine how abuse can teach survivors that depending on others is risky, vulnerability is dangerous, and the safest person to trust is themselves.

You'll learn how childhood survival strategies often evolve into adult isolation, why accepting support can feel uncomfortable, and how the nervous system continues to favor self-reliance long after the original danger has passed.

If you've ever struggled to ask for help, felt uncomfortable depending on others, or believed you should be able to handle everything alone, this episode may help you understand why.

Because sometimes independence isn't freedom.

It's protection.

With you in this,

Carry Less. Live Free! Coach Thomas Edward

• Life By Your Design
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• BetterMaleSurvivors.com