In this episode, I’m unpacking the quiet, exhausting cycle of people pleasing. From over-apologizing to overcommitting, I share personal stories of how I bent myself into versions I thought others wanted, all while calling it kindness or faithfulness. But behind the smiles and self-sacrifice was fear. Fear of being too much, too selfish, too disappointing.

Let’s talk about the difference between being loving and being liked, how to recognize when people pleasing is actually self-abandonment, and what it means to follow a God who doesn’t need our performance, just our presence. If you’ve ever confused obedience with approval-seeking, or if you’re tired of saying yes when you really mean no, this one’s for you.

In this episode of Sacred Mess, I'm opening up about the honest, sometimes confusing, and often beautiful season of singleness. I share a bit of my own dating history, what it's taught me about identity and worth, and how God has met me in both the content and lonely moments. Whether you're loving this season or feeling over it, I hope this conversation reminds you that you're not alone, and that there's so much purpose in the waiting. Join me as we talk about dating, comparison, trust, and what it means to build your foundation on something deeper than another person.

Welcome to Sacred Mess, a space where imperfection is honored, vulnerability is strength, and healing is a messy, beautiful journey. In this first episode, I’m opening up and sharing my testimony. My struggles with mental health, school, purpose, and how I found myself in Christ through it all.

This show is for anyone who’s felt broken, overwhelmed, or lost, and for those ready to embrace their mess as a path to healing and wholeness. Together, we’ll explore the raw, the real, and the transformative, leaning into the sacredness interwoven in our stories.

Come as you are. You’re not alone here.