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S2E20 "I Wanted to Help Him...Jump Out The Window" A Therapist Meets Her Shadow with Carol Smaldino

S2E20 "I Wanted to Help Him...Jump Out The Window" A Therapist Meets Her Shadow with Carol Smaldino

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Ever met the part of yourself you swore didn't exist? Carol Smaldino—78-year-old therapist and shadow work veteran—tells the story of the moment she realized she had rage she didn't know existed. A scary kid. A fourth-floor window. And the thought: "I could help him jump."

That's where the real work began. This is shadow work—Carl Jung's concept of owning the parts of yourself you're terrified to acknowledge. The anger. The cruelty. The selfishness. The darkness you shove down because "good people" don't feel that way. Except they do.

And when you ignore your shadow? It doesn't disappear. It organizes. Carol's been doing this work for decades as a therapist, a recovering "nice girl," and the creator of Dr. Ethel—her irreverent, orange-clad alter ego. She's worked with abused kids, multi-problem families, and her own psyche. And she's learned that vulnerability without protection is just exposure. That humor can be holy. And that sometimes the most radical thing you can do is admit: "You're better at being mean than me."

💥IN THIS EPISODE:
  • The scary kid who pushed Carol to her breaking point
  • Why "understanding" trauma isn't enough
  • How people-pleasing abandons the self
  • The birth of Dr. Ethel (English accent, zero filter)
  • Vulnerability as courage vs. performance
  • Why kids should be in charge
TIMESTAMPS:
0:00 – Intro: The Nice Girl & The Shadow
1:30 – Carol's Story: Playing Psychologist at 11
8:45 – The Scary Kid Who Changed Everything
15:20 – "You're Better at This Than Me": The Breakthrough
22:10 – What Shadow Work Actually Means
30:15 – Dr. Ethel is Born (Orange Coat & All)
38:40 – Vulnerability Needs Protection
45:30 – Why Kids Should Run the World
52:15 – Carol's Books & Where to Find Her
55:00 – Closing Thoughts: The Shadow Doesn't Disappear

ℹ️ABOUT CAROL: Carol is a licensed clinical social worker, author of "The Human Climate: Facing the Divisions Inside Us and Between Us" and "Vulnerability Protected: Visions of a Dancing Mind"

Find her at www.thehumanclimate.com and follow Dr. Ethel on Instagram.

📚GET CAROL'S BOOKS: Available on Amazon


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