Episode Summary

Ever feel like life is speeding past you while you’re stuck in a lay-by, wondering if you missed the memo?

In this episode of The Tea Mind Podcast, we pause for tea and unpack the habit of comparison. From a sunset in Morocco to science-backed insights on envy and self-worth, Erica explores how to shift your focus away from what others are doing and back to what matters.

This isn’t about chasing contentment. It’s about learning to notice what’s already here.

In this episode:

* Why comparison drains joy and energy

* What really happened on that picture-perfect Morocco trip

* The mindset shift Dean Furness used to redefine success after paralysis

* What psychology says about the real reason we compare

* A practical tea routine to help you stay grounded in your own life

Resources and Links

* Dean Furness TEDx Talk - “Redefining Your Personal Average”: Watch here

* SELF Magazine - “3 Things to Do When You Feel Like Everyone Else Is More Successful Than You”: Read here

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