Lisa Johnson never planned to become a high-conflict divorce strategist. After enduring a $100,000 divorce that stretched into a decade of legal battles, she discovered a phenomenon she hadn't known existed: legal abuse. Today, she's on a mission to help others navigate the treacherous waters of divorce and custody battles with narcissistic opponents.

The conversation explores coercive control, subtle abuse through threats, humiliation, and control that often feels "normal" to victims. Lisa's advocacy helped Connecticut become one of seven states to legally recognize it as domestic violence.

This episode stands out for Lisa’s real-world negotiation strategies that work with high-conflict personalities. Instead of traditional methods, she suggests giving narcissists some spotlight, keeping sessions short, and using smart communication to stay in control. “It’s a patience game,” she explains, not about winning fast, but winning smart.

For attorneys supporting domestic violence survivors, Lisa shares powerful tips for building trust; sometimes, a simple “I’m sorry you’re going through this” can make all the difference. She also flags warning signs of legal abuse, like persistent anger, addiction, or mental health issues, and hidden finances.

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