エピソード

  • Faith, Mental Health & a Career in Professional Soccer | Luukas Ojala | SAHDad Podcast
    2026/09/24

    September is Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, and one part of this conversation with Luukas Ojala felt worth centering because of it.

    Luukas served part of his mission in Colorado, split between a small town he loved and a stretch in Denver that was genuinely hard on him — real depression, tied to circumstances he doesn't go into detail about, that got serious enough he sat down with his mission president and his mission's mental health professional. Together they made the decision to transition him into service missionary work for the remainder of his time, rather than have him push through in a way that wasn't sustainable.

    He's honest that the transition itself wasn't easy. He came home to take care of some medical appointments and felt, in that stretch, like he'd failed himself and let down the people he was serving for — even though that wasn't true at all. But what followed became some of the most meaningful work of his life: the Bishop's storehouse, the Portland Temple, a Catholic food bank, the Salvation Army, and coaching a group of twelve-year-olds in a stake soccer league with an aggressive tactical philosophy that produced 33 goals in four games.

    The rest of the episode covers a lot of ground beyond that — his family's remarkable multi-generational conversion story in Finland, a formative loss on his high school swim team, his career in professional soccer administration, which he describes as his personal ministry, and Saints and Soccer, the global community he co-founded with Addison Walters connecting Latter-day Saints across professional soccer.

    But the through-line worth sitting with this month is simple: asking for real help, from people actually equipped to give it, didn't derail his mission. It's what allowed the rest of it to happen.

    If you or someone you know is struggling, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7 by call or text.

    🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and YouTube.
    📲 Follow us on Instagram @sahdadpodcast — link in bio.

    #SuicidePreventionMonth #MentalHealthMatters #FaithFamilySports #SAHDadPodcast #YouAreNotAlone

    続きを読む 一部表示
    1 時間 19 分
  • BYU Soccer Player on Faith, Legendary Coach's Final Season & Finding Her Identity | Kyleigh Hastings
    2026/09/16

    Kyleigh Hastings bought a car and accidentally found her dream school.

    Her dad found a beat-up Charger for her older brother on KSL, they drove out to pick it up, and afterward found out whose car it used to belong to: Elisa Flake, then the star player at BYU. Kyleigh had no idea BYU even had a women's soccer program. That night the family watched the rest of Flake's season together. A year later, Makayla Kulahan's senior class went all the way to the NCAA final before losing to Florida State on penalties — a heartbreaking, unforgettable game that Kyleigh's family watched from their living room in Logan, right as she was entering the recruiting window herself. From that point forward, BYU wasn't a stretch goal. It was the only goal.

    This episode is the first time this podcast has featured a Division I athlete, and Kyleigh — currently playing under a coaching legend in the final season of her career — brought a story with real range to it.

    She talks about growing up in Logan, a bubble of its own but a different flavor than Utah County's, and how joining an ECNL club two hours away as a freshman changed the entire trajectory of her development. She talks about a strict rule her family lived by growing up: goals had to be things you controlled, never outcomes like making varsity or getting recruited, just the next tangible step forward — a rule enforced with soccer-ball stickers taped to her bedroom mirror for every goal scored.

    She talks about going from a standout at every level to a guest player at La Roca who felt, by her own account, like the worst player in the gym every single day — and how learning to climb back from that exact feeling gave her the confidence to accept a bench role at BYU without it breaking her.

    And she talks about her faith, honestly and without polish. A testimony that never quite felt like her own. A crisis triggered, of all things, by a large NIL deal and the question of whether to tithe on it. A prayer said in a parking lot outside the Provo City Temple — her temple recommend had actually expired, so she couldn't even go inside — where she heard four words that rebuilt her foundation from the ground up: "You are my beloved daughter."

    She closes with advice she's already given to a cabin full of young campers: your identity is not your performance. It doesn't rise when you play well and it doesn't fall when you don't. It's fixed, because it was never yours to begin with.

    Also — big shoutout to our newest sponsor, Good Candy: 70% less sugar, no artificial dyes or preservatives, and genuinely good. More on them soon.

    🎧 Listen now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and YouTube.
    📲 Follow us on Instagram @sahdadpodcast — link in bio.

    #FaithFamilySports #SAHDadPodcast #BYUSoccer #FaithAndAthletics #DivineIdentity

    続きを読む 一部表示
    1 時間 5 分
  • New Job, a Sponsor Update & Why I Think About September 12th | Bonus Episode | SAHDad Podcast
    2026/09/11

    A quick one this week — no guest, no script, just some updates and some things that have been on my mind.

    First, the good news: I got hired by Utah Valley University as an Athletics Academic Mentor. I'll be working closely with freshmen, transfers, and international student-athletes — exactly the kind of work that lines up with what this podcast has become about. First day is next week, and I'm genuinely excited.

    Also — shoutout to Steadfast for continuing to sponsor this show. If you want to try them, use code SAHDAD20 for 20% off, and if you're in Utah County, delivery is free on top of that. Another sponsor announcement is coming late next week too, once it's finalized.

    I'm recording this on September 11th, and that's part of why this one's a little different — shorter, less structured, more just from the heart. I've seen a lot of posts this week about needing to "be September 11th America again." I understand the sentiment, but I actually think about it differently. I'd rather we get back to September 12th America — the day after. The day the fear turned into resolve. The day I'd guess more prayers were said in this country than any other day in its history. That unity is what I hope we find our way back to.

    Also — three of my kids are playing soccer right now, which means our weekends are wonderfully chaotic, and Arsenal is off to a great start this season. Small joys in a heavy week.

    Next week's episode is already on the schedule and I'm really excited about it — a younger guest doing some genuinely impressive things, and I think it's going to resonate with exactly the demographic I'm trying to reach.

    If any part of this hit home for you, I'd love to hear it. Faith. Family. Sports. Even on the short weeks.

    🎧 Available now on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and YouTube.
    📲 Follow us on Instagram @sahdadpodcast — link in bio.

    #FaithFamilySports #SAHDadPodcast #September11 #NeverForget #Gratitude

    続きを読む 一部表示
    12 分
  • Grandson of Bolivian Soccer Legend, Rejected in Spain, Found by God | Tomas Bascon | SAHDad Podcast
    2026/09/02

    Tomas Bascon was born in La Paz, Bolivia — ten thousand feet up, the altitude the Bolivian national team weaponizes against visiting opponents. His grandfather played on that same national team, won Bolivia's only Copa América, became the first South American to play for Bayern Munich, and later built a youth academy named after himself specifically so Tomas would have somewhere to train without the club fees that price most kids out.

    That part of the story sounds like a fairy tale. What comes next is the real one.

    At sixteen, Tomas earned a scholarship to a Barcelona-area academy — dorms, tuition, everything covered, on the strength of a single standout tournament. A year later he was one signature away from a contract with a top-tier Spanish youth side, until his own age worked against him: too young to sign as an international, one month short of turning eighteen before the season locked. The door closed. He went home to Bolivia instead, tried out for Bolívar — the club his grandfather is an icon at — and waited weeks for a contract that never came. The rival club signed him within six days.

    Then COVID hit. The league stopped paying players for months at a time. His mother, a college professor, was diagnosed with stage four cancer. His father had disappeared from his life years earlier. And Tomas — the family's only real income source — realized professional soccer outside Europe's top leagues isn't a career, it's a gamble with no floor.

    His mother's answer was the same thing she'd said his whole life: go to school. So he did, at night, after full training days, just to make her happy. It changed the direction of his entire life.

    That decision eventually routed him — through a mid-COVID recruiting scramble with almost no full-ride offers on the table — to Lincoln Trail College, a junior college surrounded by cornfields in Robinson, Illinois. That's where he met Joe, who was his RA. It's also where Tomas made a calculated decision that would define the next four years: soccer wasn't going to be his path to stability. His GPA was. He graduated a 4.0.

    That GPA carried more financial weight than his soccer ever did — a fact he learned firsthand working in admissions and watching the dollar gap between a 3.8 and a 4.0. It landed him at MACU in Oklahoma City, where his first year fell apart almost immediately: a broken clavicle, a coach who didn't want him on the roster, a hamstring he tore twice. In the middle of that, with no family nearby and every decision resting on him alone, he built something he'd never actually had before — a real, direct relationship with God, not just the version he'd grown up with. And then a transfer crisis threatened to take it away: a $13,000 gap between what he could pay and what he had, one month before the season. He decided to stay anyway, without knowing how. The money came. So did an RA position. That year became the best of his life — Leadership and Legacy Award, Student Worker of the Year, more soccer minutes than he'd had in years.

    Even after graduating, the story kept testing him — a masters program chosen for visa purposes, a GA position that vanished into a month of silence, a lower-paying job accepted out of necessity right before a better one finally surfaced.

    Somewhere in the middle of all of it, Tomas landed on the line that became this episode's title: it's easy to believe in God. It's hard to walk with Him.

    🎧 Full episode on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, Amazon Music, and YouTube — link in bio.

    #FaithFamilySports #SAHDadPodcast #FaithAndAthletics #Bolivia #TrustTheProcess

    続きを読む 一部表示
    1 時間 55 分
  • From Getting Cut to Finding Faith: Kiwi Giroux's Full Story
    2026/08/26

    One of the most entertaining and honest conversations this podcast has had — and it ran over two hours for a reason. 🙏⚽🏃

    In this episode we cover:

    😤 Getting cut from his own JV soccer team as a freshman — and full on breaking down in front of his friends
    🏃 The redemption arc that followed — earning a varsity cross country letter as a freshman, states, the Penn Relays, and eventually making JV soccer under the SAME coach who had cut him
    ✈️ A sudden move to Jacksonville, Florida right as he was primed to finally make varsity
    ⚓ A near-miss with the Naval Academy and a congressional nomination that didn't pan out
    🙏 The phone call from Coach Logan Davis that changed everything — the first coach who ever told him to pray about a decision
    🏫 EFY at SVU as a teenager, sleeping in the exact dorm room he'd later work in as staff
    🩹 A stress fracture, hours on a bike machine, and seriously considering leaving SVU
    🥍 Getting "hallway recruited" into lacrosse and playing all four years in one of the toughest D3 conferences in the country
    ⛪ Balancing faith and club soccer in a brutally competitive Maryland market
    🔥 The full, unedited gasoline and campfire story
    🏠 How Joe ended up in Utah, a ward with Danny Ainge and Taysom Hill, and reuniting with one of his closest SVU friends who moved to Utah just weeks later

    This one has it all — heartbreak, redemption, faith, and some of the funniest stories we've had on this show.

    📲 Drop a comment — what's your own athletic redemption arc? 👇
    🎧 Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and Amazon Music — link in bio
    📲 Follow us @sahdadpodcast — link in bio

    #FaithFamilySports #SAHDadPodcast #SVU #FaithAndAthletics #RedemptionArc

    続きを読む 一部表示
    2 時間 12 分
  • Rejected for Being LDS, Building a 7-Figure Business & Real Talk on Balance | Austin & LaRee Wood
    2026/08/19

    Two of my closest friends from SVU finally sat down for a full episode — and this conversation went absolutely everywhere in the best way possible.

    Austin and LaRee Wood grew up on opposite sides of the country with completely different relationships to their faith and their sport. LaRee grew up in Wilcox, Arizona, a tiny farming town where Sunday sports simply didn't happen — the community norm made balancing faith and athletics almost effortless until high school scheduling conflicts forced her to choose between dance and volleyball. She chose volleyball, discovered she loved it, and ended up being recruited by a first-year SVU coach she trusted from the very first conversation.

    Austin's story looks completely different. Growing up in Ashburnham, Massachusetts, he and his sister were often the only members of the Church in their entire school. Basketball consumed his life from seventh grade — three teams at once, tournaments every weekend, showing up to Sunday church in his practice gear because there was no time to change. He was rejected from a Christian college literally overnight because of his LDS faith, and eventually found his way to SVU through his grandfather's suggestion and a persistent coach who wouldn't stop reaching out.

    We cover their unlikely meet-cute — a Wendy's four-for-four IOU that turned into a friendship, a Walmart grocery run that became hours of parked-car conversation, and a teammate who called out their obvious chemistry in the middle of a school lunch before either of them had said a word about it.

    And then the episode goes deep on entrepreneurship. Austin's path from door-to-door pest control sales to solar to founding Dazzl, a permanent lighting company, with his brother-in-law — including a year they profited zero dollars despite grinding around the clock, and the identity crisis that eventually led to a completely different way of building a business and a life.

    This episode also gets genuinely personal — how they greet their kids, how they've learned to make small moments intentional, and their honest, differing takes on what balance actually means when you're building something big.

    New episodes every week | Faith. Family. Sports.
    📲 Follow us @sahdadpodcast | linktr.ee/sahdadmedia

    #FaithFamilySports #SAHDadPodcast #Entrepreneurship #FaithAndAthletics #SVU

    続きを読む 一部表示
    2 時間 25 分
  • My Wife Moe | Growing Up LDS in a Town of 2,000, SVU, Motherhood & Baby #6 | SAHDad Podcast
    2026/08/12

    Fair warning — this episode comes with kids, popsicles, ice cream bars, a cheese spider, a sound bar maxed to 85, and one very determined toddler who does not care that we're recording. This is the most SAHDad episode we've ever made. And it's one of my favorites.

    This week's guest is my wife Moe. And before you ask — it was her idea.

    Moe grew up in Bridgeport, Illinois. Population under two thousand. Sixty three kids in her graduating class. No Walmart. No soccer program. No access to much of anything. But a family reputation that kept her honest, a faith that kept her grounded, and a small community that gave a painfully shy girl room to become someone.

    She was the only member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints in her high school for a time. She drove thirty minutes into Indiana just to go to church. She navigated summer softball schedules that didn't care about her Sunday commitments. And she sat out of a tournament game — as their starting first baseman — because her family chose faith over the field.

    And she still looks back on that with peace.

    We talk about what it was like growing up LDS in a town that small. We talk about how her reputation as the only member in her school shaped the way people around her acted — bonfires with Sprite instead of alcohol, a friend who signed her yearbook saying thanks for helping me stop cussing. We talk about how she almost went to BYU and how a missionary named Rob Robbins changed everything by simply opening his mouth and talking about a small school in Virginia.

    We talk about SVU — driving up the hill on a spring break trip, seeing Main Hall, and knowing instantly. Trying out for three sports in one day. Losing by fifteen to Coastal Carolina and going to Outback Steakhouse where Coach Harmon ate a bloomin' onion by himself for dinner.

    We talk about the chaos of year one in Arizona — learning to teach with no certification, learning to coach, learning to be married adults in the real world all at the same time. And how year two felt like a completely different life.

    We talk about motherhood. We talk about the butterfly effect — how not playing basketball at SVU meant being available for the intro to business class after lunch where we met. And how six kids deep, she wouldn't trade any of it.

    Oh — and baby number six is on the way.

    Her one piece of advice to close it all out: no matter what you're pursuing, keep the Lord involved. He'll help you know when to go deeper and when to move on.

    This episode is everything the SAHDad Podcast was built for. Faith. Family. Sports. And home — in every sense of the word.

    🎧 Listen now and share this one with someone who needs it.
    📲 Follow us on Instagram @sahdadpodcast | linktr.ee/sahdadmedia

    #SAHDadPodcast #FaithFamilySports #FaithAndAthletics #LDS #Motherhood

    続きを読む 一部表示
    1 時間 14 分
  • Non-LDS at a Mormon School, US Soccer's Real Problem & Finding Fulfillment Outside "The Norm" |
    2026/08/05

    This one was a long time coming. Sean Breen and I lived on the same floor at Southern Virginia University, played soccer together, and somehow let way too many years go by without actually catching up. This episode fixed that.

    Sean grew up in the Hampton Roads area of Virginia — a military town, a house divided between Spain and Ireland and Germany and the US, and a family where sports were always on the TV whether you had a team or not. His mom is from Spain, his dad was Air Force, and every summer from the time school got out until the day before it started back up, Sean was on a plane to Spain by himself. No parents. Three months in Europe with his cousins, his grandmother, and an uncle who made sure the boys were swimming laps, playing tennis, and doing math homework whether they liked it or not.

    He also got politely asked to leave Catholic school in sixth grade for throwing food at silent lunch. Which honestly tracks.

    We talk about what it was like coming into SVU as a non-LDS student from a Catholic family — his mom's hesitancy, the 25 books she read about the church before letting him go, the student code he misread and the coffee he ordered at an Italian restaurant sitting right next to the student body president. We talk about his twelve years in property management, the golf handicap he's been grinding down, and the SVU friendships that somehow survived years of silence and still feel like family.

    We go deep on the World Cup — Spain winning, Infantino needing to go, the VAR mess, the pay-to-play crisis, Pochettino staying on, and why nothing ever seems to actually change with US soccer no matter how many times we have this conversation.

    And at the end Sean drops the most quietly powerful piece of advice this podcast has heard in a while:

    Find fulfillment in the things that aren't the societal norm. The little things. The friend group that shows up on a Wednesday night. The dinner with your mom every week. The Marvel movie you still go see with the same people you went to high school with. A lot of little things can be as equal — if not greater — than one big thing.

    This one's for anyone who's ever felt behind because their life doesn't look the way everyone said it was supposed to.

    🎧 Listen now and share this with someone who needs to hear it.


    📲 Follow us on Instagram @sahdadpodcast | linktr.ee/sahdadmedia

    #FaithFamilySports #Soccer #USMNT #SVU #FriendshipMatters

    続きを読む 一部表示
    2 時間 1 分