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  • Ep 58 | Truth In a World Addicted To Comfort
    2025/06/24

    Join Jay and Joshua on the Rules & Tools Podcast as they dive into the Exodus journey and how it relates to our modern lives. Joshua shares his personal struggles with eating disorders and how the simplicity of the gospel set him free. They discuss how our phones can be our Babylon, and how we often prioritize appearances over true meaning. Jay and Joshua explore the importance of wrestling with scripture and overcoming "Go with the flow" mentality. This thought-provoking conversation is a must-listen for anyone looking to deepen their faith and break free from the slavery of comfort. With a dash of humor and bloopers, this episode is a call to all denominations to come back to The Simplicity of the Gospel.***CHAPTERS***(0:00) Episode Preview

    (1:01) Intro

    (1:26) Foreshadowing in the Bible

    (2:47) Caring About Appearances

    (3:52) The Exodus Journey

    (4:49) Going With The Flow

    (6:11) Slavery was Comfortable

    (7:47) A Call to All Denominations

    (8:27) Set Free Showed Me Love in Action

    (9:53) You Can't Live Without the Bible

    (11:06) Joshua Shares about His Eating Disorder

    (12:07) This World is on Hospice

    (13:04) The Lesson of Exodus

    (14:22) Our Phones Are Our Babylon

    (15:19) Oblivion In Modern Times

    (17:14) Wrestling with Scripture

    (18:37) Joshua's Wife's Devotion

    (20:41) The Simplicity of the Gospel

    (21:06) Closing

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  • Ep 57 | The Fruit of the Spirit with Bonnie Scheltema
    2025/06/17

    Bonnie's Testimony: https://youtu.be/gTjk3up8noI

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    Join Bonnie Scheltema on Episode 57 as she shares her powerful testimony of transformation. Jay Fettig dives into Bonnie's Experience at Set Free, where she recounts the effects of her Freedom Appointment and how it transformed her marriage. Today, Bonnie is a volunteer at Set Free guiding women to the same Freedom in Christ that she found! She opens up about her past struggles, including a porn addiction and self-harm. Her life has been completely transformed - "Who I was before vs who I am now is totally different, the scales came off my eyes!" She shares her personal message to listeners about implementing ALL of the Fruits of the Spirit, but emphasizing the importance of patience and love in our walk with God. If you're struggling to find freedom, Bonnie's story is a reminder that you can't do this on your own, but with with loving brothers & sisters in Christ and the Holy Spirit, you can turn your struggles into "fruit juice". Learn what to expect when you sign up for a Freedom Appointment and be inspired to live a life that reflects the Fruit of the Spirit, as described in Galatians 5.


    ***CHAPTERS***

    (0:00) Episode Preview

    (1:03) Intro

    (1:28) Bonnie's Freedom Experience

    (3:52) Bonnie's Childhood

    (4:33) I Thought I Knew God

    (5:39) Effects of a Freedom Appointment

    (6:07) My Marriage Was Transformed

    (7:16) We Are Attracted to Change

    (8:00) Drawn to Serve where I Found Freedom

    (8:41) What Are The Fruits of the Spirit

    (9:18) Galatians 5

    (9:54) I had a Porn Addiction as a Woman

    (10:49) Average Person's Normal Cycle

    (11:31) Who I Was Before

    (12:06) Who I Am Now

    (13:15) Paul's Call Out of Slavery to Sin

    (14:22) "I Could Never Do It On My Own"

    (15:30) When I Came To My End

    (16:40) "I Just Want A Redo"

    (18:14) What Do The Fruits of the Spirit Mean To You Today?

    (19:03) LOVE

    (20:00) JOY

    (22:34) PATIENCE

    (25:20) KINDNESS & GOODNESS

    (27:08) FAITHFULNESS

    (30:44) "The Scales Came Off My Eyes"

    (32:53) You Can't Pick One Fruit

    (34:19) SELF-CONTROL

    (35:51) When Life Gives You Lemons, Make Fruit Juice

    (38:00) You Can't Do This On Your Own

    (38:50) Telling My Grandma My Story

    (40:53) Bonnie's Personal Message to Listeners

    (43:16) Why We Do This With Two Brothers or Sisters?

    (44:43) Bonnie's Experience with Therapy and Bitterness

    (46:49) The Moment My Life Changed Forever

    (48:33) What To Expect When You Sign Up A Freedom Appointment

    (49:48) Closing


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    51 分
  • Ep 56 | What Is THE FEAR OF GOD? Daniel Bergsma
    2025/06/10

    In this episode, Jay Fettig is joined by special guest Daniel Bergsma as they delve into the concept of the fear of God. Defining what it means to fear the Lord, they explore the difference between holy fear and unhealthy fear, and how our reverence for God is just the starting point. Bergsma shares his insights on how our casual attitude towards God can lead to spiritual death, and why we should STOP celebrating sin. The conversation also touches on the magnificence of the gospel and how our fear of God should outweigh our fear of man. Daniel also shares his own fear test, and how it has impacted his faith. Join the conversation to learn more about the fear of God and how it should shape our relationship with Him.


    ***CHAPTERS***

    (0:00) Daniel Bergsma - Intro

    (2:06) Rules & Tools Intro

    (2:30) The Fear of The Lord - Defining Fear

    (4:10) Is Fear Always Bad?

    (4:50) Holy Fear vs Unhealthy Fear

    (6:07) Bible Verses on Fear

    (7:55) We Avoid Things We Are Afraid Of

    (8:58) God's Holiness Keeps Us Separate

    (10:46) Protection from our Father

    (11:08) Jay's Definition of Fear of The Lord

    (13:00) Separation from The Lord's Presence

    (13:53) Reverence Is Just The Starting Point

    (15:00) John Bevere's Definition of Holy Fear

    (17:41) Fear of God VS. Fear of Man?

    (19:19) Daniel's Call to Focus on God

    (21:00) Jay's Perspective - All Things Are A Form of Worship

    (22:28) Having A Casual Attitude in The Presence of The Lord

    (25:10) "Jesus & Coffee" Mugs

    (26:00) STOP Celebrating Sin!

    (27:00) God's Glory is Dangerous to Man

    (28:50) Magnificence of The Gospel

    (30:23) YOUR Value to God

    (30:46) Being Casual = Spiritually DEAD

    (32:26) The Danger of Tolerating Sin

    (33:00) God's Precious Word

    (35:06) Daniel Bergsma's Fear Test

    (36:00) Closing


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    37 分
  • Ep 55 | Is Deliverance A Part Of Freedom Ministry?
    2025/06/03

    Is Deliverance Ministry talked about anywhere in the Bible? What is the Difference Between Deliverance & Freedom? These are just a few of the questions that Jay Fettig and Dean VanderMey tackled in this thought-provoking conversation. We will dive into the importance of having a biblical worldview and how it relates to spiritual strongholds, dealing with manifestations, and determining whether symptoms of depression are really signs of spiritual oppression. They also explore how drugs and alcohol can give spiritual permission to evil spirits, and how living in a war zone requires spiritual authority over evil spirits. Drawing analogies from the story of King David, a tormented man who found freedom, Dean and Jay share their insights on the importance of Freedom Ministry, which is practiced at At Set Free Ministries. Don't miss this powerful and informative discussion that sheds light on the ignorance in the USA Church and the importance of exercising free will in our spiritual lives.


    ***CHAPTERS***


    (0:00) Intro

    (0:24) Dean Vander Mey

    (0:54) Biblical World View

    (2:26) What is the Difference Between Deliverance & Freedom

    (2:57) Power Encounters in the Bible - What is Power Basing?

    (3:43) What is Deliverance Ministry?

    (4:18) Fly Problem Analogy

    (5:03) Reality of Spiritual Warfare - Strongholds

    (6:35) How to Deal with Manifestation

    (7:32) Depression; Mental Illness or Spiritual Oppression?

    (8:51) What happens when we Drink Alcohol or Drugs?

    (9:49) Two Bucket Analogy

    (11:23) A Tormented Man, King David

    (11:55) Discipline from the Demonic Realm

    (13:21) Freedom Ministry

    (14:14) Envy Rots Your Bones

    (14:50) Ignorance in the USA Church

    (15:59) Kingdom Law

    (17:08) Free Will

    (17:46) Reality - Living in a War Zone

    (18:23) Stand up for your Community

    (19:22) We should be Grace & Truth

    (19:57) Your Spiritual Authority over Evil Spirits

    (22:40) Don't be a Coward

    (23:08) Closing


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    24 分
  • Ep 54 | The Simplicity Of The Gospel
    2025/05/27

    In this episode, Jay Fettig sits down with returning guest Joshua Collins to discuss the simplicity of the Gospel. They delve into the Hebrew definition of love and its connection to the second greatest commandment, highlighting the distinction between worldly love, which can be manipulative, and God's unconditional love. The conversation explores how we respond to God's love, and how we can practically implement it in our daily lives. They also touch on the idea of being set apart and how our actions can transform the world, referencing the story of Paul in the Bible and the concept of being grafted in and born again. They challenge the idea that we often get caught up in rule-following, and instead, encourage viewers to ask themselves if people see Jesus through their actions. This thought-provoking episode will inspire you to re-examine your relationship with God and how you can live out His love in a practical way.


    ***CHAPTERS***

    (0:00) Intro

    (0:55) Joshua Collins

    (1:28) Is the Gospel Simple?

    (2:48) Hebrew Definition of Love

    (4:12) How do we respond to God's Love

    (4:53) The Second Greatest Commandment

    (6:11) Worldly Love = Manipulation

    (7:27) Joshua's Perspective of the Lost

    (8:43) Old Testament vs New Testament Jesus

    (9:57) Putting the Gospel into Practice

    (10:59) 100,000 Jesus' Radically Transforming the World

    (11:46) The Different Gospel We were Warned About

    (12:49) What it Means To be Set Apart

    (15:21) Blame the Egyptians

    (16:58) Mankind's Rebellion towards God

    (18:50) How to be a Better Rule-Follower than a Jew

    (21:30) Hard and Fast Rules on Love

    (22:28) How Does Jesus Love?

    (23:19) Jay Is Willing To Die For This?

    (24:40) How do People See Jesus Through Us?

    (25:55) Are Beards Unholy?

    (26:52) The Story of Paul

    (29:10) The Point of Being Grafted In

    (31:25) #1 Takeaway

    (33:12) Closing


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    34 分
  • Ep 53 | The Power of Song: From Grammy Winner to Prison Worship Leader
    2025/05/20

    Join Wayburn Dean and host Jay as they delve into the transformative power of song, from Grammy-winning heights to the unexpected depths of prison ministry. With 35 years of singing experience, Wayburn shares his first prison encounter, where he witnessed something he'd never seen before - authentic and spiritual worship that transcended the prison walls. But what is the real purpose of music? Is it to evoke a feeling or to play to the audience of One? Jay reflects on the albums he used to listen to growing up and how not all music today is of God. He also tackles tough questions, like which Psalms are invalid because of David's sins, and how to lose the Spirit of God. Through his story, Wayburn Dean illustrates the dangers of pride and the importance of seeking a genuine connection with God, even in the darkest of places. Tune in for a thought-provoking conversation that will challenge your perspective on music, worship, and the true calling of prison ministry.


    ***CHAPTERS***

    (0:00) Intro

    (0:58) Who is Wayburn Dean?

    (2:13) The Real Purpose of Music

    (2:43) How My Prison Ministry Started

    (3:27) My First Prison Experience

    (4:29) Our Calling In Prison Ministry

    (6:22) Most People Don't Know This About Prison

    (7:06) Prison is not ALWAYS BAD

    (8:40) My Life Philosophy

    (9:05) In 35 yrs of Singing, I'd Never Seen This Before

    (10:35) Why is Song SO Powerful?

    (12:17) Created to Worship

    (12:54) Authentic, True, and Spiritual Worship

    (14:20) Are We Seeking a Feeling?

    (15:31) The Issue behind it all: Pride

    (17:08) We Don't Do Well In Surrender

    (19:35) Jay before Ministry

    (20:19) King David Casts out the Evil Spirit

    (21:48) Playing to the Audience of ONE

    (23:14) Glory through our Dependence

    (24:08) The Albums I Used to Listen To

    (25:09) Why is there Pride?

    (26:39) What Makes Good Worship Music?

    (28:10) Ambassadors of Life and Godliness

    (28:54) Not ALL Music is of God

    (30:18) Jay's Confession of Pride

    (30:58) Music Videos

    (31:28) Brokenness is in All of Us

    (32:55) Which Psalms are Invalid because of David's Sins?

    (35:44) How to Lose the Spirit of God

    (36:47) Nobody Had Ever Told Me This

    (37:59) God's Purpose For All of Us

    (39:06) Closing Thoughts: Fortunate to be a Servant

    (40:03) Motivation - Operate In Your Gift

    (40:46) Closing Thank You


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    41 分
  • Ep 52 | The Paradox of God’s Plan
    2025/05/13

    Join Jay Fettig and guest Steve Vander Molen on this episode of The Rules & Tools Podcast as they seek to understand God's plan and share a remarkable story of faith and loss. Steve takes us back to 2024, when his family embarked on a 1,000-mile snowmobile trip in Northern Canada. The dramatic turn of events at mile 26 changed everything. Jay and Steve dive into the heart-wrenching experience of when Steve's cousin died for 18 minutes, and how they reacted to the situation. Steve shares his initial desire for God to spare his life, but how God's plan was different from his own. They explore how this experience ultimately led to Steve's cousin's best friend coming to faith and how it relates to God's plan in Scripture. This inspiring conversation highlights the difference between our hope and God's ways, and how, in some situations, we may never understand God's plan until we reach heaven. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion on trusting in God's sovereignty and finding purpose in trials.


    *** CHAPTERS ***

    (0:00) Intro

    (0:40) Steve Vander Molen - USA Director

    (1:40) The 1,000 Mile Snowmobile Trip

    (2:38) What Happened at Mile 26?

    (4:07) The First Thing That Went Through My Mind

    (4:52) The Hardest 2 Hours Ever

    (5:50) How We Reacted to the Situation

    (6:41) He Died for 18 Minutes

    (7:24) Imagine The God of Heaven

    (8:09) I Believed That God Was Going To Spare His Life

    (9:06) God's Presence in the Hospital 9:28 What Do You think I Should Do?

    (10:22) The Hardest Decision We Had To Make

    (11:05) Why Go Through All This?

    (11:44) The Real Miracle

    (12:31) My Desire was Different than God's

    (13:17) How We Healed Together

    (13:40) My Cousin's Best Friend Got Saved because of His Death

    (14:21) God's Plan in Scriptures

    (15:06) My Hope VS. God's Ways

    (15:50) Can I Trust Yaweh with My Life?

    (16:40) My Conclusion Of The Whole Situation

    (16:58) The Freedom Appointment

    (17:22) The Forgiveness Step 3 - I was Angry with God

    (17:59) Things We Will Not Understand Until We Get to Heaven

    (18:39) God's Will For Your Life

    (20:03) Don't Drown the Pain!

    (20:33) How to Keep an Eternal Perspective

    (21:15) Closing Analogy - A Child With Cancer

    (22:20) Is This YOU?

    (23:20) Closing


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    24 分
  • Ep 51 | The Impostor Test: Is Fear Leading Your Faith?
    2025/05/06

    In this video, we're discussing the importance of discernment in our walk with Christ. How can we spot an impostor, and what are the signs of someone who diminishes the power of Jesus? We'll explore how Thomas's doubt was addressed by Jesus, and how this relates to the concept that "greater is the one who has not seen yet believes." We'll also examine the common misconception that archeology "proves the Bible is true," why this would make archeology the ultimate truth, and why this line of thinking can be problematic. Have you disrespected the sovereignty of God Almighty in your life? We'll discuss the importance of honoring God's authority and why inviting Him to come in is not a biblical concept. Finally, we'll also be discussing the divisions in the church and how this affects our witness to the world. We hope you enjoy this message!

    Link to Karl Payne's Book, Spiritual Warfare on Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Spiritual-Warfare-Christians-Demonization-Deliverance/dp/0981752829/ref=asc_df_0981752829?mcid=c6d2ed5c090433d68ce4ac2ad821b82a&hvocijid=4702382885457087411-0981752829-&hvexpln=73&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=721245378154&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=4702382885457087411&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=9189268&hvtargid=pla-2281435177378&psc=1

    ***CHAPTERS***

    (0:00) Intro

    (0:25) How to Spot an Impostor: Christ vs Anti-Christ

    (1:28) Jesus Diminishes Thomas's Doubt

    (3:31) Greater is the one not Seeing who will Believe

    (4:30) Archeology Doesn't Prove that the Bible is True

    (5:55) Have you Disrespected the Sovereignty of God Almighty?

    (6:25) Inviting the Holy Spirit to come in is NOT Biblical

    (8:32) "I have never shared this on any podcast!"

    (8:54) Cessationism is NOT supported by Scriptures

    (9:59) What Scripture Clearly says!

    (10:24) Charismatic vs Non-charismatic Churches

    (11:12) Divisions in the Church

    (13:17) Christians are being Martyred in the 21st Century

    (13:49) Ghana Pastor Describes Western Churches

    (15:00) You Need to Get These 3 Things Right!

    (16:40) Why You Need To Be Discipling

    (18:06) The Solution To Wide & Shallow Churches

    (19:06) "In my heart I believe" Opinion vs The Word of God

    (19:54) Is Fear A Worthy Motivator for Christians?

    (22:06) Do Not Live By Cliches

    (23:39) Is There A Healthy Fear?

    (24:30) The #1 Door for Christians to Get Involved With Demons

    (25:31) Is it Ok to give a 3-year-old a Knife?

    (27:21) Common Sense vs Being Motivated by Fear

    (29:19) Closing

    (30:00) Karl Payne Referral to Set Free


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    31 分