Summary

In this conversation, Joash P. Thomas discusses his book ‘The Justice of Jesus’ and explores the themes of justice, faith, and the impact of colonization on modern Christianity. He emphasizes the importance of centering marginalized voices and the need for the church to engage in justice work without the constraints of colonial frameworks. The discussion also touches on the complexities of mission work, the role of empathy, and the call to live a flourishing life now, rather than focusing solely on the afterlife.

‘Justice is a communal exercise’

Takeaways

* Joash wrote a book called ‘The Justice of Jesus’.

* Justice should not be pigeonholed into biblical or social categories.

* All justice is ultimately God’s justice.

* We can’t change the past, but we can be faithful in the present.

* The gospel centers marginalized voices.

* Decolonization is essential for understanding justice.

* Empathy is crucial in addressing historical injustices.

* The church must engage in justice work today.

* Mission work can have both beautiful and harmful outcomes.

* Living a flourishing life now is a key aspect of faith.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and Background of Joash P. Thomas

02:41 The Justice of Jesus: A New Perspective

05:45 Decolonizing Justice and Faith

08:04 The Impact of Colonization on Justice

10:50 Understanding the Complexity of Colonization

13:37 The Duality of Good and Harm in Mission Work

20:04 The Complexity of Divine Action Amidst Human Atrocity

21:59 The Now of the Gospel: Living in Abundance

23:44 Reckoning with Colonial Narratives and Their Impact

26:09 Centering Marginalized Voices in the Gospel

27:56 Transformation Through Empathy and Understanding

29:43 Navigating the Tension Between Prophetic and Priestly Calls

32:16 Historical Trauma and Its Effects on Power Dynamics

36:16 Co-opting Liberation: The Need for Reflection

37:52 Hope in the Global Church: Moving Forward Together

Summary

In this episode of the Right Side Up podcast, hosts Danielle Strickland and James Sholl engage in a profound conversation with Karissa Sovdi about the complexities of singleness within the church. They explore the societal and theological implications of viewing singleness as a problem to be solved rather than a valid and fulfilling life choice. The discussion touches on the idolatry of marriage and family, the importance of celebrating life milestones beyond traditional markers, and the need for genuine community and friendship. Karissa shares her personal journey of dismantling the ‘future wife’ identity and embracing the gift of singleness, while also addressing the burdens and misconceptions surrounding it. The episode concludes with practical advice for living a fulfilling single life and the importance of inclusivity in church communities.

Check out more from Karissa at Surviving Christianity Unmarried

‘I never really identified as a person; I identified as a future wife’

Takeaways

* Singleness is often viewed as a problem rather than a valid life choice.

* The nuclear family is idolized in North American Christianity.

* Celebrating milestones beyond marriage is essential for community.

* Eternal life and fulfilment can start now, not just in marriage.

* Celibacy and singleness can be gifts that allow for deeper connections with God.

* Friendship is crucial and often overlooked in discussions about singleness.

* Comparison can lead to feelings of inadequacy and loneliness.

* The church needs to create inclusive spaces for singles.

* Marriage should not be seen as the ultimate goal or solution to loneliness.

* Practical steps can help individuals embrace and celebrate their singleness.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to the Karissa Sovdi

01:32 Exploring Singleness in the Church

03:50 Dismantling the Future Wife Identity

07:43 The Idolatry of Family and Marriage

11:02 Celebrating Life Beyond Marriage

14:41 The Gift of Singleness and Celibacy

18:50 Understanding Celibacy and Singleness

21:15 The Role of Friendship in Singleness

24:54 The Burden of Singleness in Church

29:37 Reimagining Community and Connection

32:11 Jesus’ Example of Singleness

35:17 The Crisis of Loneliness and Friendship

38:29 Practical Steps for Living Singleness Well

42:52 Conclusion and Resources

Summary

In this engaging conversation, Sheila Wray Gregoire discusses her groundbreaking work, 'The Great Sex Rescue,' which reveals the dissatisfaction of evangelical women in marriages due to toxic beliefs about gender roles. The discussion emphasizes the importance of mutual respect, healthy communication, and the need for empowerment and non-compliance in challenging patriarchal structures and her latest book ‘The Marriage You Want’. Sheila highlights the role of religion in relationships and the necessity of addressing toxic teachings within the church. The conversation concludes with a call to action for individuals to seek healthier, more fulfilling marriages based on equality and partnership.

“Healthy communication is the key to a successful marriage.”

"Healthy communication is key to a successful marriage."

Takeaways

* The Great Sex Rescue highlighted the dissatisfaction of evangelical women in marriages.

* Toxic beliefs about gender roles can lead to harmful practices in relationships.

* Religiosity can be beneficial, but toxic teachings can negate those benefits.

* Healthy marriages are built on mutual respect and partnership.

* Women should not feel obligated to fulfill male desires at the expense of their own needs.

* Doubt and deconstruction can lead to a deeper understanding of faith.

* Empowerment and non-compliance are essential for women in toxic environments.

* Healthy communication is key to a successful marriage.

* The church must address and change toxic teachings about gender roles.

* Jesus' teachings promote equality and mutual respect in relationships.

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Sheila Wray Gregoire

00:58 The Great Sex Rescue: A Turning Point

04:34 Research Findings on Women's Satisfaction

09:13 The Impact of Toxic Beliefs

13:48 Challenging Patriarchy in Marriage

18:52 The Role of Religion in Relationships

23:44 Navigating Toxic Church Environments

28:29 Building Healthy Marriages

33:10 Empowerment and Non-Compliance

38:04 The Importance of Mutual Respect

42:49 The Future of Marriage and Relationships

47:42 Conclusion and Call to Action

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