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Motherhood guilt is one of the quietest burdens women carry.

In this episode, Michelle J explores why so many mothers feel guilty for wanting more than motherhood; more growth, more identity, more fulfillment, and why that desire doesn’t make you a bad mum.

This conversation unpacks:
• Where motherhood guilt really comes from
• Why wanting more is often mistaken for ingratitude
• How women learn to bury their identity instead of expand it
• Why fulfillment doesn’t take away from your children, it gives back to them

If you’ve ever loved your children deeply but still felt a pull toward something more, this episode will help you understand why — and how to stop shrinking yourself in the name of being “good.”

Michelle also shares how this journey connects to reclaiming identity inside the Identity Code Workshop.

You’re not broken.
You’re not selfish.
And you’re not a bad mother for wanting more.

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There are expectations women carry that are never spoken out loud, but quietly shape how they live, lead, and see themselves.

In this tender and deeply personal episode, Michelle J explores the silent expectations women inherit and internalise, including the pressure to be grateful instead of honest, successful but not intimidating, and to never change too much. Over time, these unspoken rules don’t just drain energy ... they bury identity.

This episode is for women who feel exposed but unseen, accomplished but restrained, grateful yet quietly unfulfilled.

Together, we unpack:

• Why women confuse silent expectations with character
• How gratitude can become a form of self-silencing
• The hidden cost of being “easy” to love or work with
• Why growth is often labelled as “intimidating”
• What it really means to reclaim your identity without guilt

This is not a hype episode.
It’s a mirror.

If you’ve ever felt like you had to make yourself smaller, quieter, or easier to stay loved, this conversation will name what you’ve been carrying — and offer permission to put it down.

Listen in, take a breath, and remember:
You are not difficult. You are not ungrateful. You are not wrong for changing.

Confidence on. Doubt off.

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Menopause and peri-menopause don’t just bring physical symptoms — they reshape identity, confidence, and how women experience themselves in leadership, work, and life.

In this episode, Michelle J shares her personal experience of peri-menopause, including brain fog, disrupted sleep, and the impact it had on her confidence as a speaker and leader. She explores why so many women feel lost during this season, how menopause affects identity and self-trust, and what it really takes to rise through this transition with clarity and compassion.

This conversation is for women navigating midlife, leadership, and identity shifts — and for anyone seeking language, reassurance, and truth about menopause beyond the symptoms.

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