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Remember when men had hobbies? Not just squeezing in an occasional round of golf or gaming session, but actually dedicating regular time to activities that brought them joy and connection with other men. This disappeared cultural norm became the catalyst for one of our most reflective conversations yet.

Our panel dives into the complex reasons why modern men struggle to prioritize leisure. From self-imposed productivity guilt to societal expectations and relationship dynamics, we unpack the shame many feel about taking time for themselves. As our host poignantly asks, "Why aren't we doing more of that? Why aren't we doing a little bit of an escape or just something to help us?" The answers reveal how deeply many men have internalized the message that their value lies primarily in their productivity.

This conversation takes a fascinating philosophical turn when discussing whether men should even pursue happiness as a goal. While some argue that contentment and achievement should be the focus for men rather than euphoric happiness, others passionately advocate that men deserve joy and must recognize this right. Through personal stories of material success without fulfillment, we explore how purpose—not possessions—ultimately brings satisfaction. One guest shares his journey from having "a hundred thousand dollars in the bank and feeling nothing" to finding profound fulfillment in community work.

Perhaps most importantly, we highlight the irreplaceable value of male connection through shared activities. Whether fishing, gaming, sports, or simply gathering together, these spaces create opportunities for mentorship, advice-sharing, and authentic relationships that men desperately need but rarely prioritize. As we conclude, the message becomes clear—making time for hobbies isn't selfish; it's essential for maintaining sanity and becoming better men, fathers, and partners.

Join our ongoing exploration of modern masculinity and share your thoughts with us at manhoodmatterspodcast@gmail.com. What hobbies have you abandoned, and which ones bring you back to yourself?

Resources: The Way of Men by Jack Donovan https://a.co/d/6OfSyMl

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