Fun Marriage Exercise to Stop Fights before They Start

Most couples try to solve problems by talking, but that often leads to arguments, defensiveness, and even more distance. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll discover a fun and surprising alternative to problem-talking that actually brings couples closer: role play. Learn how this playful method can turn potential conflict into connection.

What You’ll Learn

• How role play helps you avoid arguments while still addressing issues
• A simple way to use role play to show your spouse what you want
• Why role play can quickly improve intimacy and empathy in your marriage

Want to Work With Coach Jack?
If you’re tired of conflict and want to rebuild closeness with your spouse, Coach Jack’s Re-Connections Coaching Package will help you take the right steps, in the right order, to create a loving and lasting marriage.

Key Takeaways

• Talking about problems often makes marriages worse, not better
• Role play is fun, low-stress, and easy to try at home
• Switching roles helps couples understand each other’s needs instantly
• Small role play experiments can prevent fights from ever starting

Additional Resources

• Coaching Packages -
• Self-Assessment Quizzes

Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

How to Deal with a Spouse Who Spends Too Much Money (without Conflict)

Money fights can drain love from a marriage faster than almost anything else. When a spouse overspends, the other often reacts with reasoning, complaining, or pleading—yet those approaches only lead to more conflict. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn a step-by-step way to address financial issues without arguments, while protecting your relationship and building trust.

What You’ll Learn

• How to replace conflict with loving behaviors and secure boundaries
• Why disliked spending isn’t always a financial problem—and how to tell the difference
• A simple, three-step approach to creating a workable budget in marriage
• How to recognize and address financial abuse in a relationship

Want to Work With Coach Jack?

If your spouse’s spending is damaging your marriage—or if you feel controlled financially—Coach Jack’s Restore a Loving Relationship with a Difficult Spouse coaching package will help you set secure boundaries while preserving love. Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to bring back fairness and connection.

Key Takeaways

• Conflict never creates positive change—love and boundaries do
• If your spouse can afford the expense, the issue may not be money but values
• A fair allowance system gives both partners freedom and autonomy
• Budgets must be cooperative, not authoritarian, to work in marriage
• Financial abuse requires boundaries, not arguments

Additional Resources

• Resources for improving your marriage with boundaries
• Restore a Loving Relationship with a Difficult Spouse - coaching package
• Ramsey -financial help website with many tools for managing money

Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

When Your Spouse Says, "I'm Not in Love with You"--What to Do

Hearing your spouse say, “I’m not in love with you” can feel like a gut punch, but it doesn’t have to mean the end of your marriage. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you’ll learn how to respond with empathy and clarity instead of panic, and how to use this moment to build a stronger connection rather than lose it.

What You’ll Learn

• Why reacting emotionally will push your spouse further away—and what to do instead
• How validation creates connection even when your spouse is rejecting you
• Self-reflection questions that help you understand what’s really going on
• The three stages every rejecting spouse goes through on the road to reconciliation

Want to Work With Coach Jack?
If your spouse has said he or she isn’t in love with you anymore, the path forward is not persuasion or promises—it’s connection through empathy and validation. Coach Jack's Re-Connections Coaching Package will guide you through the exact steps to rebuild attraction and commitment in your marriage.

Additional Resources

• Can Your Marriage Be Saved? What Really Determines Reconciliation
• Connecting through 'Yes!', by Jack Ito PhD--Learn how to master validation with agreement.
• Personality Type Quiz - See how well you and your spouse match.

Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.