In this fun and honest episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we’re going back to the beginning—sharing our origin story. From our childhoods and quirks to an embarrassing moment or two, we take you behind the scenes of who we were before we became “Ben and Kimi.”

You’ll hear how we met in college, what made us notice each other, and how our relationship began. Whether you’re new here or a longtime listener, this episode is all about connection, laughter, and a reminder that every strong relationship starts somewhere.

Is your marriage running like a well-oiled machine—or more like a chaotic circus? In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we dive into the idea of weekly marriage meetings and why they might just be the best thing you’ve never tried. Ben draws parallels from his workplace where weekly team meetings help align goals, celebrate wins, and tackle obstacles—and makes the case that marriages deserve the same intentionality.

We discuss how a simple 20-minute weekly check-in can help couples:
✅ Stay on the same page with logistics
✅ Plan intentional date nights
✅ Create fun, meaningful moments with the kids
✅ Address small issues before they become big problems

A "marriage meeting" might not sound sexy, but the results sure are. Tune in for practical tips, real talk, and a fresh perspective on building a marriage that thrives—on purpose.

In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we’re swapping lazy weekends for lasting memories. Sure, we love our couch time, but today we're talking about the value of choosing adventure—whether it’s floating the river, planning a quick hike, or just being intentionally present with your kids. We kick things off with our signature “Overrated/Underrated” segment (potty training and Brandon Lake both make appearances 😂), and dive into how busy family weekends, while exhausting, might just be the Super Bowl of parenting. Inspired by a quote from Jesse Itzler, this conversation is all about creating core memories before our kids are grown and gone.

Making friends as a married adult with kids isn’t easy—but it’s necessary. In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we dive into the challenge of building godly friendships in the busyness of parenting and marriage. We talk about the power of church small groups, how to welcome new people into your circle, and why modeling strong friendships is essential for your kids. If you’re feeling isolated or longing for deeper connection, this episode is for you.

In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we’re talking about creative ways to keep your marriage fun, flirty, and connected—without needing a weekend getaway. From lunch dates while the kids are at school, to spontaneous Target runs (yes, that counts!), to leaving sticky notes or sharing inside jokes—this episode is full of simple, intentional ideas to fuel romance in the middle of real life.

Struggling to find purpose in the daily grind? In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we dive into the truth about purpose—it’s not in your job title or paycheck, but in Who you serve. As moms and dads, our greatest impact comes from leading our families with love, faith, and intentionality.

We share personal stories, practical encouragement, and a reminder that true fulfillment isn’t found in career success, but in the way we pour into our spouses, kids, and community. Tune in and get re-centered on what truly matters!

Ready to trade screen time for s’mores and family memories? In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we dive into the benefits of taking your family camping—from quality time and outdoor adventures to teaching your kids valuable life skills.

Whether you’re a camping pro or a total newbie, we’ll share why unplugging in nature is one of the best things you can do for your marriage, your kids, and your sanity. Grab your tent (or just your earbuds) and tune in!

Think marriage should always be 50/50? That love should feel effortless? That happy couples never fight? Think again! In this episode of Real Talk with Ben and Kimi, we’re busting the biggest marriage myths that hold couples back from real connection. We’ll break down the truth behind these common misconceptions and share practical ways to strengthen your relationship. Don’t let these lies sabotage your marriage—tune in now!