What if your anxiety isn’t a flaw—but a signal? In this episode, Kyle shares raw, personal stories from the battlefield to the front seat of a patrol car—revealing the powerful mindset shift that separates fear from preparedness. You’ll learn how to flip fear into fuel, why goal-setting feels terrifying for some, and what to do when success leaves you feeling lost.

This isn’t just about survival—it’s about stepping into your next evolution.

Inside this episode:

• Why Kyle visualized a gunfight every time he made a traffic stop

• The truth about anxiety, goal-setting, and self-sabotage

• What to do when you lose motivation after achieving your goals

• A powerful story about finding peace in the middle of chaos

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Tipping Culture Exposed: The Real Cost of Minimum Effort

What if the real issue isn’t tipping—it’s entitlement?

In this episode, I break down a trending video claiming, “If you can’t afford a 30% tip, don’t go out to eat.” But is that really about fairness… or have we lost the plot on what it means to earn your way?

From my early days bussing tables to leading teams today, I’ve seen both sides of the service industry—and I’m sounding the alarm on how performance-based opportunities are being rejected in favor of clocking in and doing the bare minimum.

We’ll unpack:

• The danger of confusing time with value

• Why effort-based compensation leads to real freedom

• How tipping culture reflects a deeper mindset problem

• What I’ve learned as both a worker and an employer

If you’re tired of minimum effort being celebrated while true contribution gets ignored, this one’s for you.

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You’re not lazy—you’re just done with what no longer serves you.

In this raw and honest episode of Rewired Experience Podcast – Kyle challenges the way we define laziness.He shares how burnout, emotional exhaustion, and misalignment often get mislabeled as apathy—and how real laziness is refusing to grow, learn, or evolve.You’ll discover:

• ​ Why high performers can still look lazy
• ​ How redirected energy is often mistaken for disengagement
• ​ The true danger of staying “comfortable”

If you’re in a season of transition, this episode will help you reclaim purpose, shift perspective, and move forward with clarity.Listen now. Then reshoot your azimuth.

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Episodes Referenced: Phase Line Bravo: Reshoot Your Azimuth & When Enough is Enough: Moving Beyond Trauma and Reclaiming Your Purpose

In this episode of The Rewired Experience Podcast, I take you into the heart of Afghanistan—where I learned that perspective and perception aren’t the same thing.

From my interpreter’s shocking statement—“I hate these people”—to a one-legged Bedouin elder who refused to recognize the Afghan president, this episode uncovers how trauma, tribal identity, and worldview collide in ways most people never see.

You’ll hear the raw stories that shaped how I now understand judgment, leadership, and what it means to truly see someone else.

Whether you’re a veteran, a leader, or someone navigating fractured relationships—this one’s for you.

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Behind the Dispatcher Desk: An Insightful and Inspirational Journey with Gabby aka @911itsGaby

In this episode of the Rewired Experience, we sit down with Gaby, best known as @911itsGaby on Instagram (100k+ Followers), to uncover the life behind the radio as a police dispatcher. With a background in concrete dispatching, Gaby transitioned to police dispatching and has since garnered a large following on social media for her insightful and entertaining content about her job.

We discuss her journey, the challenges she faced, especially a recent investigation triggered by a complaint, and her ambitions to bring more awareness to the dispatcher community. Gaby's story is a testament to the resilience and dedication of those in the public safety sector.

Join us for an engaging and enlightening conversation filled with humorous and heartfelt stories from the life of a 911 dispatcher.

00:00 Introduction and Background

01:33 The Life of a Dispatcher

04:00 Social Media Journey

05:54 Transition to Police Dispatching

07:55 Handling Challenging Calls

13:06 Mental Health and Support Systems

17:05 Future Aspirations and Community Outreach

31:43 Relating to Disciplinary Actions

33:24 The Incident with the Mean Captain

36:19 The Investigation and Its Aftermath

40:27 The Role and Importance of Dispatchers

48:13 Future Plans and Social Media

53:04 Humorous and Tragic Work Stories

01:01:41 Career Aspirations and Nonprofit Work

01:05:53 Final Thoughts and Kindness

🚨 FEAR is the most paralyzing obstacle—and it’s keeping you stuck. 🚨

In Episode 3 of The Hot Wash series on the Rewired Experience Podcast, we’re breaking down the two biggest ways fear holds you back:

❌ Fear of Failure – You haven’t failed enough to succeed. Every successful person has a long track record of failures behind them. If you’re afraid to start, it’s because you haven’t built the muscle of resilience yet.

❌ Fear of Success – The most realistic fear. If you stay in action long enough, success is inevitable. But what happens when expectations rise? What happens when you’re now responsible for maintaining it? This fear stops people before they even begin.

💡 In this episode, I’m sharing my own struggle—starting over after building a million-dollar business and losing momentum when the economy shifted. The fear of rebuilding. The fear of not being “enough” in a space filled with giants like Jocko Willink, David Goggins, and Sean Ryan. But here’s what I learned…

🔥 You don’t need permission. You don’t need a perfect plan. You just need to move.

Inside this episode, we’ll cover:

✅ Why fear of failure is a lack of exposure, not ability

✅ The real reason fear of success is more dangerous than failure

✅ How to use fear as a trigger for action instead of paralysis

Fear isn’t a stop sign—it’s a signal that you’re on the right path. Let’s break free. Charlie Mike. 🎙️

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Obstacle 2 of 15: The Denial Trap – Why Job Security Is an Illusion & How to Break Free

This is Obstacle 2 of 15 in The Hot Wash—a series exposing the mental, emotional, and financial traps designed to keep you stuck.

Right now, thousands of government employees are facing layoffs, and many are in denial about what’s happening. They believe job security is real. But the hard truth? Security doesn’t come from a paycheck—it comes from the value you create.

In this episode of The Rewired Experience Podcast, Kyle Stoy—a former SWAT officer, combat veteran, and entrepreneur—breaks down The Denial Trap and why so many people stay stuck in the time-for-money mindset.

🚨 Are you ignoring the warning signs?

🚨 Are you waiting for things to “go back to normal”?

🚨 Are you ready to take control of your future?

Kyle shares real-life stories from military downsizing, business failures, and the brutal truth about financial security. Using The Rewired Experience Framework, he lays out a four-step process to help you escape denial, shift your mindset, and build real financial and personal freedom.

🔹 Take a Knee – Stop & reassess where you are.

🔹 Drink Water – Cut out distractions & bad inputs.

🔹 Reshoot Your Azimuth – Set a new direction.

🔹 Charlie Mike – Continue the mission & execute.

If you’re watching your career change before your eyes—or feeling stuck in uncertainty—this episode is your wake-up call.

🎧 Press play now and learn how to turn fear into fuel.

🔥 Subscribe for more as we break down all 15 obstacles keeping you from reaching your full potential.

Obstacle 1 of 15: How the Devil Plans to Keep You Comfortable, and How to Break Free

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Most people don’t even realize they’re trapped. Not because they’re lazy. Not because they lack motivation.

But because they’re caught in the Comfort Trap—a slow, silent killer that robs you of your drive, discipline, and future.

If you were the enemy, how would you keep people stuck in the suck? You’d make them comfortable—just enough so they never feel the urgency to push forward.

In this first episode of The Hot Wash, we expose:

🔥 Why comfort is the most dangerous enemy of progress

🔥 How your brain has been chemically rewired to crave comfort

🔥 How to break free using the Rewired Experience Framework: Take a Knee, Drink Water, Reshoot Your Azimuth, and Charlie Mike

🔥 A 30-day battle plan to escape the cycle of comfort and start winning again

If you’re ready to break out of the suck and reclaim control over your life, download your FREE copy of Take a Knee atRewiredExperience.com. This is your first step in rewiring your mind, rebuilding your mission, and getting back in the fight.

🔗 Get the FREE ‘Take a Knee’ PDF Now:RewiredExperience.com

💥 Subscribe and leave us a review so you don’t miss the next 14 obstacles—the exact traps the enemy uses to keep you weak, distracted, and disconnected from your mission.

Next episode? We’re exposing Distraction—why you can’t focus, why your attention is under attack, and how to rewire your mind for deep work and relentless execution.

It’s time to Take a Knee. Drink Water. Reshoot Your Azimuth. And Charlie Mike.

Continue Mission.