Many people don’t struggle with dating because they don’t know what to do — they struggle because of the emotions that show up along the way.

Fear, anxiety, rejection, uncertainty, longing, disappointment…
For many, dating becomes an ongoing attempt to avoid uncomfortable feelings rather than move toward meaningful connection.

In this episode, I explore:

• Why fear of emotions keeps you stuck in unhelpful dating patterns
• How emotional avoidance shows up as overthinking, people-pleasing, pulling away, or staying too long
• What it actually means to be with your emotions without suppressing or being overwhelmed by them
• How developing self-compassion creates emotional safety within yourself
• Why you don’t need to feel confident or calm to navigate dating effectively

As a Clinical Psychologist and Dating Coach, I share a trauma-informed, evidence-based approach to building emotional resilience — so your feelings no longer run the show or dictate your dating decisions.

✨ If this resonates, these are the exact skills we practise in my group program, Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach.
The group is designed to help you:

• Build emotion regulation and distress tolerance skills
• Develop self-trust and self-compassion in dating
• Navigate uncertainty, rejection, and vulnerability with more clarity and confidence
• Make values-based dating decisions rather than fear-based ones

🔗 The next group starts Feb 2026 and places are limited.
You can learn more and join via nadineneukirch.com

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If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

What If There’s No Wrong Answer? A New Way to Navigate Dating Choices

As a Clinical Psychologist and dating coach, one of the most common things I see is clients wanting the “right” answer — who to date, what boundaries to set, what feelings are acceptable, and what steps to take next. But here’s the truth: giving prescriptive advice doesn’t build long-term confidence.

In this episode, we explore a new way of approaching decision-making in dating — one rooted in psychological principles, self-awareness, and trust in yourself. I walk you through four strategies to help you develop your own internal compass, make choices that align with your values, and move through dating with clarity rather than fear of getting it wrong.

If you’re ready to date with more confidence, insight, and emotional clarity, join my next round of Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach — an online group program starting February 2026. This is my final group before maternity leave, and spots are limited.

Learn more and save your place at nadineneukirch.com.

Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

Do you find yourself over-focusing on the other person—trying to keep them happy, overthinking decisions, or guessing what they want in the relationship?
In this episode, we explore the signs that your attention may have shifted too far toward the other person, how this pattern can affect connection and communication, and why it often shows up in early dating and relationships.

You’ll also hear practical, psychology-informed strategies to help you rebalance your focus, stay connected to your own needs, and build relationships with more clarity and confidence.

If you’d like to develop these skills in a supportive, structured space, my next online group “Dating With Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach” begins February 2026.
It focuses on evidence-informed tools, self-awareness, and practical strategies for navigating modern dating.
More information is available at nadineneukirch.com.

Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

Conflict is a normal part of any relationship — but when you’re trying to assert yourself and emotions rise, it’s easy to fall into patterns that make things harder instead of clearer.

In this episode:

- learn three common mistakes people make when trying to communicate their needs during conflict, and why these patterns can lead to misunderstandings, defensiveness, or disconnect.

- You’ll also hear three practical, psychology-informed strategies that can support clearer communication, emotional steadiness, and more effective conversations with your partner. These approaches are designed to help you pause, reflect, and respond in ways that strengthen connection rather than escalate tension.

If you’re interested in developing your dating and relationship skills in a supportive, structured environment, Nadine’s online coaching program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach begins February 2026.
Limited spots available. More information at nadineneukirch.com.

Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

In this episode of The Psychology of Dating Podcast, I’m joined by manifestation coach Isabella Rosenthal to explore the fascinating intersection between dating psychology and manifestation.

Isabella breaks down the neuroscience behind manifestation, including how the Reticular Activating System (RAS) acts as the brain’s internal filter—highlighting the information we train it to notice. We discuss how manifestation isn’t about wishful thinking, but about aligning your thoughts, feelings, and behaviours with a clear, value-driven intention.

Together, we unpack how this alignment can help shift your dating experiences, help you notice healthier opportunities, interrupt old patterns, and support you in calling in relationships that truly match your values.

If you’re curious about the science-meets-spirituality side of dating, this episode offers grounded, practical insight you can apply right away.

Connect with Isabella Rosenthal:
🌐 Website: manifestwithisabella.com.au
📸 Instagram: @manifestwithisabella

Connect with Nadine Neukirch:

✨ Dating Coaching Program – Now Enrolling
Starts Feb 2026. Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

Do you feel guilty taking time for yourself? You're not alone—and this internal conflict can have a big impact on your dating life.

In this episode, we explore why self-care isn’t selfish, but essential, especially when it comes to setting boundaries, maintaining emotional availability, and showing up with clarity in relationships.

✨ Dating Coaching Program – Now Enrolling
Starts July 9. Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

🎁 Free Guide: Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating
Download → nadineneukirch.com

💌 Submit your dating questions → nadineneukirch.com

Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

Can there be such a thing as too much dating?

In this episode, we explore the often-overlooked impact of overloading your dating life—how seeing too many people too quickly can lead to emotional burnout, decision fatigue, and even prematurely ending connections that had potential.

I’ll break down how a high volume of dates can actually disconnect you from the emotional experience of dating, stop you from tuning into your own needs, and turn something meaningful into something mechanical.

✨ Dating Coaching Program –Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

🎁 Free Guide: Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating
Download → nadineneukirch.com

💌 Submit your dating questions → nadineneukirch.com

Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.

Before we focus on finding the right partner, it’s essential to ask—how strong is your relationship with yourself? In this episode, we unpack what it truly means to build a relationship with yourself from a psychological perspective.

In this episode:

- Learn how self-awareness, self-respect, and internal safety lay the foundation for dating with confidence and clarity.

- How your inner world can shape who you’re drawn to, how you show up in relationships, and your ability to set healthy boundaries.

✨ Dating Coaching Program – Learn more → nadineneukirch.com

🎁 Free Guide: Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating
Download → nadineneukirch.com

💌 Submit your dating questions → nadineneukirch.com

Thanks for tuning in to The Psychology of Dating Podcast.

If you found this episode helpful, please follow, rate, and share it with someone navigating the dating world.

Want more support? Download my free guide: “Top 3 Mindset Shifts in Dating” – link in the show notes.

For 1:1 sessions or to join my group program Dating with Confidence & Clarity: A Psychological Approach, visit nadineneukirch.com

Connect with me on Instagram @nadine.neukirch for tips, insights, and encouragement.

Remember: love starts with how you show up for yourself.