What happens when you turn 30 and your life looks nothing like the version you imagined in your twenties?

In this raw and honest solo episode, I reflect on the expectations I had for turning 30 — the career ladder, the house, the partner, the stability — and why none of that actually happened… and why that might be the best thing that ever happened to me.

Instead of following the traditional path, I found myself building a life around freedom, travel, creativity, and connection. From walking away from toxic stability, to starting over during a pandemic, to building community on a tiny island in Portugal — this is the story of how I’ve redefined success in my 30s.

If you're approaching 30, already there, or just feeling like your life isn't matching the timeline you expected — this episode is for you.

We talk about:

• Letting go of the “perfect life” plan

• Moving abroad and starting from scratch

• Redefining what success means at 30

• Celebrating the things we did figure out

• Finding joy and alignment off the traditional path

💬 Let’s normalize not having it all figured out by 30 — and maybe even celebrate it.

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To celebrate my 30th birthday, I took a sunset hike with eight of my closest friends — and brought my mic along. In this special episode, we talk about everything from what we thought we’d have figured out by now (spoiler: not much) to what truly matters less as we grow older.

We laugh, we reflect, and we share stories.Whether you're turning 30 soon, already there, or just love a good mix of wisdom and chaos, this one’s for you. Recorded on the trail, raw and real — just the way I like it.

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This week on Poncha Talk, I hiked and talked with my good friend Brandon Harpold (@brandonharpold), who brings a refreshing and philosophical lens to the remote lifestyle.

After getting laid off from his job as a human factors engineer, Brandon chose to take a very different path—he’s now building a life as a speaker, coach, and online philosopher. We explore what it means to live intentionally, build meaningful friendships as a nomad, and experiment boldly with life (including that one time he became a stripper—for one night only).

We also dig into how social media has shaped our attention spans and how Brandon uses short-form content to make big ideas more accessible in today’s fast-scroll world.

This episode is thoughtful, unexpected, and full of reminders not to take life too seriously.

Follow Brandon on Instagram: @brandonharpold
Follow the podcast: @ponchatalk

⏱️ Timestamps:

00:00 – Intro
0:55 – Brandon’s story: from engineer to coach to philosopher
12:05 – Nomad friendships through a philosophical lens
22:10 – How social media reshapes our attention span (and Brandon’s bite-size approach to big ideas)
27:45 – The one-night stripping story: curiosity, friends, and bold life experiments
41:04 – Embracing silliness and the role of play in adult life

In part two of my conversation with Kate, we shift focus to one of the most exciting parts of remote life: choosing your next destination. Kate shares how she started her podcast Hintern Horizont gibt’s WLAN, where she explores different nomad hotspots and remote work travel tips.

We dive into what makes a destination great for digital nomads, from community and Wi-Fi to lifestyle and affordability. Kate also shares her favorite places, beginner-friendly suggestions, and what’s currently on her travel bucket list.

If you're wondering where to go next (or first!) — this episode is for you.

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🎙️ Check out Kate’s podcast Hintern Horizont gibt’s WLAN:
https://www.instagram.com/hintermhorizontgibtswlan

⏱️ Timestamps

00:00 – Intro
01:00 – How Kate launched her podcast Hintern Horizont gibt’s WLAN
06:05 – What makes a destination ideal for digital nomads
08:00 – Fuerteventura: Kate’s personal favorite and why it works so well
13:37 – Ericeira, Portugal: a great starting point for first-time nomads
16:40 – Buenos Aires, Argentina: perfect for a longer stay and city lovers
20:30 – Tips for balancing work and travel
23:30 – Long-term nomad life: choosing between new places and returning “home”

What happens when you get everything you thought you wanted — and still feel unfulfilled?
In this episode of Poncha Talk, we dive deep into what it really means to reinvent yourself. We explore the shift from climbing the corporate ladder to choosing a path that’s less traditional but far more aligned with your values.

We talk about the emotional weight of quitting a job others admire, how to deal with societal pressure when you live life differently, and what it takes to start over — from going back to school to taking a job that pays less but brings more meaning. You'll also hear about letting go of everything that ties you to your home base (job, apartment, relationship) and the moment when years of nomading lead to a desire for a semi-permanent home again.

🎧 Kate also hosts the podcast Hintern Horizont gibt's WLAN, where she shares her experiences and favorite nomad destinations:
https://www.instagram.com/hintermhorizontgibtswlan

⏱️ Timestamps

0:00 Intro
1:43 Kate’s background in the corporate world
4:40 Quitting a perfectly “good” job
12:36 How to get into a remote career
15:40 Letting go of things to start a new life
18:40 Challenges of reinventing yourself
24:05 Friendships, relationships, and a home base as a nomad

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In this episode of Poncha Talk, I chat with Manon, cofounder of Viomatico Business Retreats and an expat who’s called Madeira home for the past 3.5 years. Manon opens up about the early challenges of her entrepreneurial journey and how those struggles eventually led her to create something deeply fulfilling: retreats that bring entrepreneurs together to connect, grow, and support one another.

We talk about how her retreats work—from attracting the right people to creating space for masterminds, skill-sharing sessions, and collaborative workshops. After a successful retreat in Morocco, she’s now preparing for the next one in Madeira this June.

Manon also shares honest insights about the emotional side of business: why sales can feel hard, how patience pays off, and why clarity often comes through trying, adjusting, and growing over time. If you’re an entrepreneur or remote worker craving deeper community and purpose, this one’s for you.

🔗 Links & Resources
🌐 Website: www.theviomati.co
📸 Instagram – Viomatico: https://www.instagram.com/theviomati.co/
📸 Instagram – Manon: https://www.instagram.com/travelwithmelon/
💼 LinkedIn – Manon Jongejan: https://www.linkedin.com/in/manon-jongejan/

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Curious about visiting Madeira? Check out my travel blog:

🌐 Website: ⁠www.your-madeira.com

📸 Instagram: ⁠https://instagram.com/your_madeira

In this episode, I’m joined by Anna, who’s been living the digital nomad life for the past five years while working full-time for a fully remote company. 🌍💻

She shares how she found her job at WorkFlex by taking a leap of faith—reaching out on LinkedIn even though no position was posted—and what it’s really like to work asynchronously across time zones while traveling the world.

We talk about everything from remote job tips to nomad routines and travel fails, all the way to the decision to slow down and build a home base in Portugal.

⏱️ Timestamps

0:00 – Intro
1:02 – How Anna got started in her remote job
7:04 – Working in a fully remote company
13:04 – Finding your travel style as a digital nomad
24:54 – Digital nomad fails
32:20 – Work setup when working from anywhere
34:15 – Having a base as a nomad

🔗 Connect with Anna

🎧 Podcast: Hinterm Horizont gibt’s Plan
📸 Instagram: @travelbuddyanna
💼 LinkedIn: Anna Dung
🧳 WorkFlex Job Openings: careers.getworkflex.com

✨ Poncha Talk is the podcast where we talk about remote work, life abroad, and finding freedom in unexpected places.
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Mahdi's New Release: Desert Waves on Soundcloud

This week’s episode of Poncha Talk is a rooftop brunch special with my good friend Mahdi—a DJ and musician from Tunisia who now calls Madeira home. We recorded this episode while he cooked an incredible brunch and served it with a view from his terrace.

Mahdi’s creative process is as free-flowing as his conversation. He shares how improvisation shapes not only his music but also his life philosophy. We talked about dreaming big while staying grounded, the tension between creating art for passion versus profit, and his journey toward finding his own unique sound.

Although Mahdi hasn’t released any tracks yet due to perfectionism, he made a promise on this very episode: his first track will drop with this podcast.

This is an honest conversation, made for every creative out there trying to find their way. If you’ve ever felt stuck, unsure of your voice, or caught between vision and reality—this one’s for you. Expect real talk, relatable struggles, and valuable insights from someone still in the midst of the journey.

Timestamps:

0:00 - Intro

1:30 - Mahdi’ story

7:00 - The struggle with perfection & finding your own style of music

16:50 - Dreaming big vs. being realistic

20:55 - Challenges in monetising music & art

28:05 - Finding inspiration in Madeira

30:20 - The mission of a DJ

34:35 - Planning vs. improvising

41:40 - Mahdi’s new Music Release

Follow Mahdi and his music journey here: @mahdi.hlewi

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