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  • How Does Mutuality Lead to Peaceful Relationships?

    How Does Mutuality Lead to Peaceful Relationships?
    2025/06/15
    Hi, Phil and Maude here. Every week, we sit down and talk until we hit on a theme and jam on what we can say about it. Sometimes a dialogue best captures the essence of the conversation. PHIL: Mutuality is …

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    7 分
  • It’s Important to Treasure Each Person’s Uniqueness in Relationships

    It’s Important to Treasure Each Person’s Uniqueness in Relationships
    2025/06/08
    MAUDE: It is the unique quality of each person that can be the strength of a relationship, and yet it is often the great divider. Usually, when we write about uniqueness and its significance to peaceful relating, we discuss how …

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  • Why Honesty is so Important in Creating Peace in Your Relationships

    Why Honesty is so Important in Creating Peace in Your Relationships
    2025/06/01
    MAUDE: One of the cornerstones of deep and peaceful relationships is honesty. The ability to practice this within a relationship comes from a level of true acceptance of each other and the consequent trust that develops. This leads to a …

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  • Why Knowing Your Values is so Important for all Your Relationships

    Why Knowing Your Values is so Important for all Your Relationships
    2025/05/25
    MAUDE: I’ve been thinking a lot about my deep relationships with friends, family, and my partner, Phil. What makes those relationships so full of support for my own personal growth, comfort, wisdom, laughter, and relaxation? What brings me the most …

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  • The Art of Undefended Love — How to Create Truly Peaceful Relationships

    The Art of Undefended Love — How to Create Truly Peaceful Relationships
    2025/05/18
    PHIL: Our approach to writing about peaceful relationships is that we very much write about how we are rather than saying what you should do. We don’t know what you need to change to get here, but we know what …

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  • How to See and Be Seen in Your Relationships

    How to See and Be Seen in Your Relationships
    2025/05/11
    “O, wad some Pow’r the giftie gie us To see oursels as ithers see us!” Robert Burns PHIL: Maude met with someone from her past who reminisced about how he remembered her, and this blew Maude’s mind because her recollection …

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  • Be Loving Today – You Can Be Right Tomorrow

    Be Loving Today – You Can Be Right Tomorrow
    2025/05/04
    PHIL: Maude posted a meme on Facebook: “Be loving today – you can be right tomorrow” that generated an unusually enthusiastic response. Why were people so taken with this attitude? Let’s first consider why we like to be right. We …

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    7 分
  • What is Peace in a Relationship Actually Like?

    What is Peace in a Relationship Actually Like?
    2025/04/27
    PHIL: When we talk about peace with people who have not experienced it directly, they conceive of it as an absence. It has long been associated with death—the Latin, “Resquiescat in pace,” or R.I.P., stems from the eighth century. But …

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