You keep saying you need more clarity… but what if clarity isn’t the problem? What if you’re just afraid of making the wrong move?

In this episode of Oops, I’m Evolving, we peel back what’s really going on when you can’t make a decision — the fear of getting it wrong, the obsession with control, and the constant mind-looping that keeps you stuck. I’ll walk you through how to spot this cycle in yourself, why your nervous system clings to overthinking, and how Human Design can help you finally break free.

This one’s for the people who’ve spent months circling the same decision, calling it “intuition.” It’s time to move — even without a guarantee.

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Everyone loves the “Let them” theory… until it's them being ignored, treated poorly, misunderstood, or left behind. The idea sounds empowering — just detach, let people do what they want, and float away into inner peace, right?

But what no one talks about is how damn hard it is to actually let them — especially when your nervous system is in a full-blown tailspin and your brain is spinning stories at 3am.

In this episode, we're cracking open the real truth behind letting go. This isn’t some fluffy conversation about “just don’t care.” This is a deep, honest, emotionally activating dive into why detachment is hard, how to actually pull your energy back, and what it really means to choose yourself without needing to be chosen first.

You’ll walk away understanding why you spiral, how to catch it, and the exact mindset shift that puts you back in the driver’s seat. If you're done being emotionally hooked to situations that drain you — this episode is your permission slip and your roadmap.

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No one talks about this part of healing.
The part where you start shrinking yourself just to keep the peace in relationships you’ve outgrown.
The part where you stop feeling safe to be fully seen by people who used to feel like home.
The part where you have to choose between your expansion… or their comfort.

This episode is for the ones secretly grieving the people they’re no longer aligned with.
For the ones wondering if they’re the problem.
For the ones who feel like they’re walking away from everything they used to be — and feeling both guilt and peace at the same time.

We’re unpacking:

• What “outgrowing” relationships really looks like (it’s not what you think)
• Why we stay in connections that deplete us
• The invisible identity crisis of expansion
• What happens when you hang on too long
• And how to release people without making them the villain

This is the raw, honest truth about why healing often costs you relationships — and why that’s not a failure.