You know those moments when you bite your tongue, play it safe, or laugh something off when you actually want to scream?
Yeah. That’s the visibility wound.

It’s not about being scared to show up on social media or speak on a stage — it’s about the quiet, daily ways you shrink. The times you second-guess yourself into silence. The ways you read a room before you even know what you feel. It’s about the parts of you you’ve locked away just to feel safe.

In this episode, we’re getting brutally honest about what it costs you to keep hiding.
We’ll talk about how the visibility wound shows up in your relationships, your work, your self-expression — and what it actually feels like in your body to start healing it.

I’m also answering your biggest questions about The Visibility Switch: what it is, how it works, what you can expect, and what inspired me to create it in the first place.

This isn’t about chasing confidence. It’s about unlearning the belief that it’s dangerous to be yourself.
It’s about letting your nervous system remember that you are safe to be seen — even in your mess, even in your truth.

If you’ve been living half-visible, this episode might hurt a little — but it will wake something in you that’s been waiting a long time to be seen.

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Ep. 35 Ever notice how the stories you tell yourself keep getting “confirmed” by life? You get rejected once, and suddenly it proves you’re unlovable. Someone laughs, and now you’re dumb. A card declines, and you’re officially a failure. Those moments stick—not because of the thing itself, but because of the story we attach to it.

I’m sharing how I realized I’ve been locking myself inside my own damn box. I talk about how a closed heart space keeps you performing instead of fully living, how emotions get trapped when we tie them to a story, and why so many of us are the victim and the perpetrator of our own shrinking.

If you’ve been feeling unseen, misunderstood, or like you’re hiding in plain sight, this conversation will crack something open for you. We’re diving deep into mind-heart coherence, rewriting the inner narrative, and taking the leap into being safe with yourself first.

This one is equal parts gut-punch and soul-reminder: You are safe to feel, safe to be seen, and safe to live wide open.

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This episode dives into the messy, chaotic energy that comes with eclipse season. I get real about the push and pull of life—the way joy and pain can hit at the same time—and why learning to navigate that duality is key to growth. I share a personal story that shows how change can shake your foundations, and why it’s so important to raise your vibration, show up as your true self, and still stay discerning about the guidance you take from others.

Takeaways:

• Life gets messy—especially during eclipses.
• Duality is real: joy and sorrow can live together in the same moment.
• The cracks in your foundation? Those are the spots that teach you the most.
• Facing reality honestly is the first step to creating real change.
• Raising your vibe isn’t just nice—it’s necessary for healing.
• Showing up authentically is how we move past fear and invisibility.
• Be picky about whose advice you take—discernment matters.
• You have the power to rewrite your story.
• Healing isn’t just internal—it’s also about taking action in the world.

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In this episode, I’m getting real about what went down for me during the September 7, 2025 Pisces Lunar Eclipse—and honestly? It cracked me wide open in ways I didn’t see coming. I trace it back to September 2024 and March 2025, and even to this random hair-business conference that flipped my world upside down. From business partners and friendships to old dynamics in my marriage, I’ve been through a season of loss, growth, and a whole lot of kicking and screaming along the way. Let’s just say—I didn’t exactly let go with grace.

Now, as this Virgo–Pisces eclipse cycle closes out, I want to talk about what this all actually means for us. How these eclipses have been showing up in real life, what they’re asking us to release, and how we can stop fighting the stripping and actually root into the next version of ourselves. If you’ve been feeling cracked open, restless, or like you’ve lost your footing—this episode is here to remind you that you’re not broken. You’re in the messy middle of becoming.

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Lately, it feels like the ground has been ripped out from under us. The chaos is constant, the waves just keep coming, and no matter how hard you try to “get it together,” you end up right back in that unsteady, ungrounded feeling. If you’ve been asking yourself “What is wrong with me?” or feeling like you’ve completely lost your way—you’re not alone. And more importantly, nothing is wrong with you.

In this episode of Oops, I’m Evolving, I channel through a message about why this ungrounded energy is showing up right now, what it’s here to teach us, and how to begin stepping out of the storm and into a more rooted, resilient version of yourself. We’ll talk about the difference between spiraling in the waves vs. anchoring into your strength, and why this moment is actually part of your evolution—not proof you’re failing.

If you’ve been moving through it, beating yourself up, or wondering if you’ll ever feel like yourself again, this episode will remind you of the power you already hold to rise, root, and embody the evolved version of you that’s waiting on the other side.

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Have you ever had that gut-punch moment where you realize you don’t even know what you like anymore—not even what you want on your pizza? This episode dives deep into that exact identity wake-up call—the sacred unraveling that can feel like grief, confusion, and shame all rolled into one.

I share my own experience and stories from clients who’ve been there, peeling back the layers of conditioning that kept us asleep at the wheel of our own lives. We’ll talk about why this awakening feels so disorienting, why grief shows up when you finally see yourself clearly, and how to stop beating yourself up for not “getting it sooner.”

More importantly, we’ll explore what comes next: practical tools to help you reconnect with your truth (including curiosity, journaling, and Human Design), why creativity matters in finding your way back, and how to give yourself space without rushing the process.

If you’ve ever thought, “What happened? Why does my life not feel like mine anymore?”—this one’s for you. Messy or not, you’re not behind. You’re right on time.

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This week, we’re diving deep into emotional intelligence, boundaries, and the heavy weight so many of us carry without even realizing it. We’ll explore what it really means to feel your emotions instead of holding them, why boundaries aren’t walls but energetic filters, and how guilt often shows up not because you’ve done something wrong but because of conditioning that taught you to abandon yourself.

And because awareness isn’t enough on its own, I’m guiding you through a powerful energy clearing and activation at the end of the episode. This practice will help you release what isn’t yours so that you can reset your nervous system & enter into a new grounded version of you.

If you’ve been feeling drained, guilty, or stuck in old patterns — this episode is here to bring both clarity and relief.

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This week on Oops I’m Evolving, I’m joined by the absolute powerhouse that is Jess Soulstice—your intuitive bestie, hype woman, and the queen of blending practical tools with mystical magic.

We get into her take on intuitive coaching and healing, why self-trust is the foundation of everything, and how embracing Leo energy can help you live your biggest, boldest, most “delulu” (in the best way) life. Jess drops wisdom that’s equal parts empowering and permission-giving, and you’re going to walk away feeling like you can take up way more space in your own damn story.

If you’ve been craving a reminder that you’re allowed to want more, dream bigger, and trust yourself deeply

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