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  • Summer Favorites: Beauty, Style, Splurge vs. Steals, Substacks & More
    2026/06/18

    #251. Everyone’s favorite seasonal series – summer favorites! I’ve gathered a long list of summertime favorites, from skincare & makeup to most-listened-to podcasts and perspective-changing Substack articles. I’ll link everything linkable on ShopMy, of course. Xx


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    59 分
  • ASK P: Resentment & Judgement in Relationships, Stagnant Sex Lives, Glow-Up Tips, and Long-Distance Love
    2026/06/11

    #250. In today’s ASK P, we are discussing mostly relationship-related topics, with a little glow-up note to lighten the mood. Listeners sent in sensitive topics, like “am I dating his potential or supporting him through a period of growth?,” non-existent sex lives, and sacrifices in closing the distance gap in a relationship.


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    Reality Disruption: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8S6oa/

    Dealing with Uncertainty without Rumination: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8UrtQ/

    Chasing Failure: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8A2HK/

    5 No’s a Week: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p89WNb/

    Joe Dispenza Meditation Review: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8XPeG/

    Play The Game By Your Rules: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8qQ8Q/

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    51 分
  • How to Feel Like Yourself in Seasons of Instability
    2026/06/04
    #249. If you’ve ever felt like you lost yourself in a season of constant change, this one’s for you. I’m sharing a few things that are actually keeping me grounded right now — from the simplest possible routine to why having a responsibility (even a four-legged one) might be the most stabilizing thing in your life. Consider this your permission slip to stop waiting for things to calm down before you start feeling like yourself again.The source content: Reality Disruption: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8S6oa/Dealing with Uncertainty without Rumination: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8UrtQ/Chasing Failure: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8A2HK/ 5 No’s a Week: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p89WNb/Joe Dispenza Meditation Review: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8XPeG/Play The Game By Your Rules: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8qQ8Q/ FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonross https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainrossSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 Sponsors:Rula: Visit Rula.com/notetoself to get startedPeloton: Go to onepeloton.comLola Blankets: For a limited time, our listeners can get 40% OFF select Lola Blankets products with code NOTETOSELF at checkoutOlive & June: Visit OliveandJune.com/NOTETOSELF for 20% off your first System!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    40 分
  • The Personal Holiday: On Crafting the Perfect Solo Weekend Away
    2026/05/28

    #248. Solo travel doesn't have to mean a flight, a passport, or a packed itinerary — it just has to be yours. I'm breaking down exactly how to craft the perfect solo weekend “away,” whether that's a staycation, a short drive, or anywhere in between, plus the must-haves that make it worth it on any budget. This is your sign to book a solo weekend sabbatical asap.


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    Reality Disruption: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8S6oa/

    Dealing with Uncertainty without Rumination: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8UrtQ/

    Chasing Failure: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8A2HK/

    5 No’s a Week: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p89WNb/

    Joe Dispenza Meditation Review: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8XPeG/

    Play The Game By Your Rules: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8qQ8Q/

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    46 分
  • What TikTok Taught Me: Life Lessons I’ve Learned Following the Right People
    2026/05/21
    #247. Social media gets a bad reputation — and usually earns it. But this week, I make the case for the other side: what happens when you curate your feed like a curriculum and actually pay attention. Five ideas worth stealing, from the people worth following. The source content: Reality Disruption: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8S6oa/Dealing with Uncertainty without Rumination: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8UrtQ/Chasing Failure: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8A2HK/ 5 No’s a Week: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p89WNb/Joe Dispenza Meditation Review: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8XPeG/Play The Game By Your Rules: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZP8p8qQ8Q/ FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonross https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainrossSUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 Sponsors:Quince: Go to Quince.com/payton for free shipping and365-day returnsPeloton: Go to onepeloton.comSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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    54 分
  • The Motherhood Conversation I Didn't Know I Needed, with What We Said (Jaci Marie & Chelsey Jade)
    2026/05/14

    #246. Jaci Marie and Chelsey Jade of What We Said came prepared — and left me feeling like I actually might be too. We covered trimester zero prep, the surprising things motherhood teaches you about productivity and identity, and the parts of yourself that are absolutely worth protecting. The motherhood conversation every woman deserves to have before she needs it.

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  • ASK P: Age Gap Relationships, Moving Out of the US, The Best Part of Getting Older, & Situationship Drama
    2026/05/07

    #245. In this installment of ASK P, listeners are asking questions about age gap relationships, making an international move, the positive side of getting older, and the push and pull of situationships.

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    45 分
  • 3 Way Pod Takeover: Catching Up & Single Girl Luck
    2026/04/30

    #244. 3 Way Pod is taking over Note to Self in this chatty episode for the girls. Kristen is sharing how to manifest abundance and stay lucky (hint: it’s removing men from your life), Emon is asking very Emon questions, and the girls descend into chaos by the end of the episode (probably from the many beverages consumed before and during recording). Happy 3 Way day!

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    48 分