In this episode of More in Common, Keith Richardson and Gerren Taylor are joined by Zach Amatore to explore the journey of emotional awareness and how masculinity is shaped by environment, leadership, and lived experience.

Zach reflects on growing up in high-pressure, male-dominated spaces — from sports culture to family business — and how those environments influenced how emotion, anger, and authority were expressed. The conversation examines how men often confuse intensity with aggression, why emotional regulation is misunderstood as weakness, and how learning to pause can radically change relationships at work and at home.

Throughout the episode, Zach connects his personal growth back to the emotional intelligence tools he learned through More in Common alongside Keith — emphasizing listening without fixing, managing tone, and creating safety in male relationships. Rather than rejecting masculinity, the discussion reframes it as something that evolves through awareness, accountability, and intentional practice.

This episode is for anyone navigating leadership, fatherhood, relationships, or self-growth — especially men learning how to hold strength and emotional clarity at the same time.

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00:00 – Introduction & setting the conversation 02:10 – Early influences: sports culture, masculinity, and emotion 06:45 – Anger vs intensity: how tone gets misread 11:30 – Learning emotional regulation in male spaces 16:20 – Taking over the family business & leadership pressure 20:50 – Listening without fixing: lessons from More in Common 25:40 – Redefining masculinity through awareness 30:10 – Modeling healthier masculinity in relationships 34:00 – Growth without perfection: final reflections

• Emotional awareness is learned, not innate

• Masculinity isn’t broken — it evolves

• Regulation creates trust, not weakness

• Listening is often more powerful than solving

• Growth happens through practice, not perfection

• “Masculinity isn’t about being louder — it’s about being steadier.”

• “Sometimes the pause is the most powerful move.”

• “Strength without awareness turns into damage.”

In this episode of More in Common, Keith Richardson and Gerren Taylor sit down with Zach Amatore to explore what it actually looks like to practice emotional intelligence in real life—at work, in leadership, and in moments of pressure.

Zach’s appearance on the show isn’t accidental. As he shares in the conversation, his approach to emotional regulation, listening, and supporting others was deeply shaped by the More in Common learning he experienced alongside Keith. That foundation—slowing down before reacting, staying present in hard moments, and choosing curiosity over control—runs through every part of this discussion.

Together, they unpack why “staying calm” isn’t about suppressing emotion, but about creating space for clarity, trust, and better outcomes. From workplace dynamics to being heard without overpowering others, this episode explores how emotional mastery shows up not as perfection, but as practice.

This conversation is for anyone navigating leadership, teamwork, or personal growth—and wondering how to respond more thoughtfully when it matters most.

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• Curiosity can disarm conflict when it’s rooted in care, not performance

• Listening isn’t passive—it’s an intentional skill

• We often react to discomfort before we understand it

• Slowing down creates room for better conversations

• You don’t need to fix someone to show up for them

“Curiosity isn’t about being right—it’s about staying open.” “Listening well changes the temperature of the room.” “Most conflict comes from moving too fast with too little information.” “We confuse reaction with honesty.”

00:00 – Opening & episode framing Setting the tone: curiosity, communication, and why this conversation matters

02:15 – Why curiosity feels risky How social conditioning shapes the way we enter hard conversations

06:40 – Listening vs. reacting Why most of us respond before we actually hear each other

11:30 – Power, identity, and discomfort How dynamics of power affect communication and emotional safety

17:10 – Slowing the conversation down Creating space instead of escalation

22:45 – Curiosity as an act of care When questions build connection instead of control

28:30 – What it looks like to stay present Letting go of the need to fix, prove, or win

33:20 – Final reflections & listener takeaway How to practice better conversations in real life

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In this episode, Keith Richardson, Gerren Taylor, and Nicholas Miller unpack the confusion, pressure, and possibility surrounding modern masculinity. As social expectations shift, many men are left asking: What am I supposed to do now?

Rather than framing masculinity as something broken, this conversation reframes it as evolving—and explores how healthier models of masculinity can foster connection, purpose, and emotional resilience. The episode examines male identity, privilege, vulnerability, and the importance of supportive male relationships, while challenging shame-based narratives that leave men isolated. Through personal stories and sociological insight, the hosts offer a grounded, human approach to masculinity that prioritizes listening, growth, and belonging.

🕒 Episode Chapters 00:00 — Introduction Why masculinity feels confusing right now 02:03 — Masculinity in a Changing World What happens when social expectations shift without a roadmap 06:45 — “What Am I Supposed to Do?” The emotional cost of uncertainty for men 09:52 — Privilege, Backlash, and Defensiveness Understanding positional power without shame 14:20 — Masculinity Isn’t Broken Why masculinity evolves instead of disappears 15:52 — Healthier Models of Masculinity Strength paired with empathy and accountability 20:43 — Male Friendship and Community Why men struggle to build emotionally supportive relationships 24:10 — Listening Without Fixing The power of presence over performance 27:51 — Finding Belonging Beyond Bars and Gyms Rethinking how men connect socially 31:44 — Closing Reflections What growth-oriented masculinity can look like moving forward

🧠 Key Takeaways Masculinity isn’t broken—it’s evolving Men are navigating shifting expectations without clear guidance Vulnerability strengthens connection, not weakness Privilege is positional, not personal Listening without fixing is a critical relational skill Healthy masculinity requires community and support

💬 Memorable Quotes “Masculinity isn’t broken—it evolves.” “We don’t need less masculinity, we need healthier models of it.” “Sometimes, you just need to listen without fixing.”

🔑 Keywords & Topics modern masculinity, male identity, men’s mental health, privilege, vulnerability, gender roles, emotional intelligence, male friendship, masculinity studies, social connection, More In Common Podcast

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