Ever wonder what it's really like becoming a mom as a teenager? In this raw, heartfelt episode, host Kayla welcomes her sister-in-law (and hopefully permanent cohost!) Crystal for an unfiltered chat about young motherhood, the chaos of raising teenage boys, patience, unconditional love, and looking back without regrets.

From crying on porches and hyper-sensitive teen emotions to "bruh" cringes and learning to live in the moment—these two spill it all. Crystal shares how her boys taught her true patience and love, while Kayla reflects on the journey that shaped them both. Plus, real talk on self-care: take that breath, prioritize your mental health, and remember—it's going to be okay.

If you're feeling overwhelmed, you're not alone. Reach out:

• 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call/text/chat 988 anytime for free, confidential support (988lifeline.org).
• Caregiver Burnout Resources:

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If your kid just got out for Thanksgiving, you finally sat down — then remembered the laundry has been marinating since Tuesday… or you Googled “what is 6,7” and immediately needed a priest and a drink — this episode is for you. Grab the biggest mug, lock the bathroom door, and let’s go.

Today we’re going deep on social media, teen privacy, grooming, cyberbullying, sextortion, and why I will yeet myself into a Discord voice channel faster than you can say “mom, you’re embarrassing me.” Protective mama-bear energy incoming (with unhinged humor and zero shame).

Expect:

• Real horror stories about grooming, sextortion, and predatory tactics against kids online 😡

• A no-BS breakdown of how to spot red flags — from “you’re mature for your age” to “just send one pic”

• Hard-won mom hacks: screenshot ➜ block ➜ report ➜ tell, plus parental-control tools, “no secrets” rules, digital safety, and more

• Practical advice for handling cyberbullying — screenshot evidence, wait 24 hours before reacting, group-chat audits, and empowering your kids to stand up for themselves

• Cringe-mom confessions, laughter, and caffeine-fueled clarity — because protecting your kids doesn’t have to feel like doom scroll energy 24/7

If you or someone you know has experienced suicidal thoughts, you are not alone. Call or text 988 (if in the U.S.) or visit https://988lifeline.org for free, confidential support 24/7.

If you suspect sextortion, exploitation or grooming — don’t wait. Visit https://www.justice.gov/criminal-ceos/reporting-sex-trafficking for tips on how to report online sex exploitation, or contact law enforcement.

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The Amazon Holiday Catalog has entered the chat… and suddenly my kid “literally cannot survive” without a $79 Beyblade arena that lights up, talks, and probably pays taxes.

In this episode, we dive headfirst into the annual chaos that is the Kids’ Wish Book, the battle between eco-conscious parenting and impulse buys, and why our children think budgets are optional. From $40 metal Beyblades that never see daylight to the glory days of thrifting with a toothbrush in hand, we’re talking waste, wants, wallets, and why Starbucks receipts should count as emotional distress.

Plus: my best hacks for stopping the clutter avalanche, teaching kids money skills without becoming the Fun Police, and stretching your sanity (and budget) through the holidays.

Grab your cold coffee, hug your Target list tight, and let’s do this.

Follow the chaos everywhere: @momsbrainisacoffeestain on TikTok, Instagram, and Facebook — or email the show at momsbrainisacoffeestain@outlook.com.

“Hey you amazing humans — yes, YOU, still listening right now — thank you. Seriously. Every download, every time you text an episode to a friend who needs it, every review you’ve left… it all means the world and keeps this little coffee-stained show alive.

If you loved this conversation (or any episode) and you’re in a spot where you can help us keep going, here are two super-easy ways:

1. Share it. Screenshot this episode, tag me, text it to the mom in your DMs who’s having a rough week — sharing is literally the oxygen that lets a small show like mine grow.
2. If you feel like going the extra mile and you’re able, you can toss a couple bucks toward production costs (mics, editing software, coffee for my permanent mom-brain fog ☕). There’s a “Support the Show” link in the show notes — anything from $3 to $10 makes a huge difference, and every single donor gets a personal thank-you voice note from me because I’m that grateful.

No pressure at all — just showing up and listening is already huge. But if you do share or support, know that you’re directly helping another tired mom feel less alone this week.

Thank you for being part of this community. I love you guys.

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