In this raw and moving episode, I sit down with Gabe Pluguez to talk about fatherhood, marriage, grief, and the breaking point that led him to true surrender to God. After becoming a new father, nearly losing his wife, and suddenly losing his dad, Gabe opens up about the hidden battles, the pressure to “be strong,” and why self-reliance will always fail without the Holy Spirit. He shares the raw story of confessing p**n to his wife, rebuilding trust through vulnerability, and learning that obedience, not perfection, is what transforms a man. We discuss biblical manhood, presence over performance, how God uses suffering to break pride, and why surrender is the doorway to peace. If you’re a Christian man striving to lead, love, and live with purpose, this conversation will challenge you, convict you, and push you closer to Jesus. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still coming up short, this conversation will challenge your view of success, masculinity, and faith. INSTAGRAMhttps://www.instagram.com/antoniovaglicajrhttps://www.instagram.com/momentumshiftpodhttps://www.instagram.com/gabepluguez/Tik Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@momentumshiftpod_CHAPTERS00:00 – Intro02:10 – A Prayer That Sets the Tone03:47 – “I’ve Cried Every Day for 8 Weeks…”05:52 – The Birth That Changed Everything08:02 – “I’ve Never Felt So Powerless”10:20 – The Phone Call That Shattered Me12:56 – Trying to Stay Strong… and Breaking15:41 – When Faith Meets Helplessness18:09 – The Standard of Jesus vs. Self-Reliance21:02 – The Confession That Changed My Marriage24:11 – Arguing With the Holy Spirit27:20 – Why Good Men Still Fall Apart30:50 – Shame, Secrets, and Strongholds34:18 – Surrendering What You Don’t Want to Lose38:05 – The Turning Point in My Faith42:44 – Why Presence Matters More Than Time46:58 – Fatherhood, Legacy, and Pain52:10 – What Had to Die Inside Me57:40 – Leadership, Obedience, and Identity01:03:15 – God, Marriage, Porn, and Redemption01:08:50 – The Cost of Becoming Who God Called You to Be01:14:05 – Why It Was All Worth It (Final Message)01:18:52 – Closing Thoughts + What I Hope You Take Away#Christian #Podcast #Faith #Jesus #HolySpirit #ChristianMen #God #Fatherhood #Marriage #Leadership #Grief #Godplans #Vulnerability #Fitness #Relationship #purpose