#44 - of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie dive into Timothy Keller’s The Meaning of Marriage, unpacking timeless principles that speak to both religious and non-religious audiences. Hannah, a couples therapist and recent convert to Christianity, highlights the dangers of chasing the latest relationship “solutions” instead of leaning on enduring wisdom. Scottie shares how he’s applied these lessons in his own relationship, emphasizing authenticity, commitment, and showing up with intention. Together, they explore what it means to emulate Jesus in relationships without falling into extremes—finding balance between selflessness, healthy boundaries, and genuine love. Topics include:

• The deeper meaning behind biblical submission and why true leadership is rooted in service.
• Balancing modern progress with traditional values in love and marriage.
• The role of shame as a tool for moral reflection and personal growth.
• Why authenticity, gratitude, and unconditional love matter more than quick fixes.

With personal stories, candid insights, and thoughtful dialogue, Hannah and Scottie invite listeners to reflect on how they show up in their own relationships—and how timeless wisdom can still transform love today.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com

Sometimes you just have to press record and see where the conversation takes you. In this special freestyle episode of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie put aside the playlist and flow unscripted—no set track, no theme, just authentic conversation. Think of it as the hidden track on your favorite album: spontaneous, raw, and full of surprises.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com

#43 of Mixtape Therapy, Scottie and Hannah unpack the song Chains and Whips by the Clipse and the emotional tug-of-war between boundaries and vulnerability—in therapy, relationships, and personal growth. We dive into the complexities of staying emotionally neutral in professional settings, the courage it takes to let go of unproductive clients, and how therapy teaches us to take full ownership of ourselves. From breathwork in a couples therapy lobby to navigating tricky friendship dynamics, they explore the fine line between showing up with love and protecting your peace. This episode gets raw about independence, acceptance, and the growth that happens when we choose ourselves—without losing our heart.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com

#42 of Mixtape Therapy, Scottie and Hannah explore the life and legacy of Paul Reubens through the lens of the HBO documentary Pee-wee Herman, and use it as a springboard for a deeper conversation about artistic integrity, fame, and personal boundaries. Scottie reflects on Pee-wee’s career, the scandal that derailed it, and what it reveals about public perception and redemption. Hannah brings a therapeutic lens to the discussion, exploring the nuances of narcissism, power dynamics, and the emotional toll of being misunderstood. This episode is a heartfelt, insightful look at what it means to stay true to yourself—even when the world pushes back.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com

Sometimes you just have to press record and see where the conversation takes you. In this special freestyle episode of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie put aside the playlist and flow unscripted—no set track, no theme, just authentic conversation. Think of it as the hidden track on your favorite album: spontaneous, raw, and full of surprises.

Sometimes you just have to press record and see where the conversation takes you. In this special freestyle episode of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie put aside the playlist and flow unscripted—no set track, no theme, just authentic conversation. Think of it as the hidden track on your favorite album: spontaneous, raw, and full of surprises.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com

#41 of Mixtape Therapy, Scottie and Hannah dive into a raw and real conversation about vulnerability, emotional boundaries, and the art of showing up for one another. They kick things off with a look at the groundbreaking 1968 Broadway musical Hair, unpacking its bold themes—homosexuality, drug use, interracial love—and a powerful song that challenges performative activism.

The conversation then turns inward, as Hannah opens up about her own struggles with trust, fear of being a burden, and the importance of being heard—not fixed. Together, they explore how friendships, like theirs, can be both professional and deeply personal when grounded in empathy, communication, and respect for boundaries.

From venting vs. coaching to emotional regulation, mutual support, and the healing power of honest connection—this episode is an invitation to just BE with the messiness of being human.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com

#40 of Mixtape Therapy, Scottie introduces Don Williams’ “Falling Again” to Hannah, inviting her into the world of classic country. Despite initial hesitations, Hannah finds herself resonating with the song’s emotional core, sparking a deep conversation about love, healing, and self-discovery. Scottie and Hannah dive into the challenges of healing from heartbreak—especially for sensitive souls and artists. They explore the tendency to seek connection too quickly, often at the cost of personal growth, and reflect on the importance of slowing down, setting boundaries, and taking responsibility for one’s emotional wellbeing. The duo opens up about balancing relationships with creativity, the role of communication and trust, and how real friendship can be a healing force. With honesty and vulnerability, they share personal stories of navigating love, friendship, and the complex dance between emotional intimacy and self-preservation. "Falling Again" becomes more than a song—it becomes a mirror for recognizing patterns, honoring the healing journey, and celebrating the richness that comes with self-awareness and authentic connection.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com

In this episode, we explores the deeper purpose of social media—engaging meaningfully rather than just consuming content. Hannah brings a thoughtful conversation about the animated film Flow, known for its emotionally resonant storytelling and unique portrayal of animals in a post-flood world. Together, Scottie and Hannah unpack the film's themes of loneliness, community, and grief, reflecting on how animals can mirror human vulnerability and truth. They also explore the symbolism of a whale as a force of benevolence and impermanence, and how film parallels real-life decisions—highlighted by a comparison to The Ark and the Aardvark. We expand into emotional connections, relationships, and the idea of being a "monster whale"—a person who offers love and compassion in the face of adversity. Join us for a heartfelt discussion on authenticity, presence, and the quiet power of simply showing up for others.

Co-Hosts:

Hannah Shaper

https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

Scottie Gassner

https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

www.heyjustbe.com