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  • #57 - Brick (Ben Folds Five)
    2026/08/04

    #57 - of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie unpack "Brick" by Ben Folds—a song often associated with abortion, but one that opens the door to a much deeper conversation about relationships, emotional weight, and what it means to carry someone through their darkest moments. Together, they explore the complexities of supporting a partner through depression, grief, chronic illness, addiction, and life's hardest decisions. They discuss the feeling of becoming "the brick" in a relationship, the difference between helping someone out of love versus helping to ease your own discomfort, and how anxious and avoidant attachment styles can shape the way we experience emotional burdens. Can love survive when one person is carrying more than the other? How do you know when staying is an act of compassion—or self-sacrifice? And what does it really mean to see someone as a whole person instead of the weight they're carrying? This honest and compassionate conversation dives into empathy, commitment, emotional resilience, and the difficult choices that define our closest relationships.


    Co-Hosts:

    Hannah Shaper

    https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

    https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact


    Scottie Gassner

    https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

    www.heyjustbe.com

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    41 分
  • FREESTYLE - “The History of Monogamy”
    2026/07/28

    Sometimes you just have to press record and see where the conversation takes you. In this special freestyle episode of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie put aside the playlist and flow unscripted—no set track, no theme, just authentic conversation. Think of it as the hidden track on your favorite album: spontaneous, raw, and full of surprises.


    Co-Hosts:

    Hannah Shaper

    https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

    https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact


    Scottie Gassner

    https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

    www.heyjustbe.com

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    27 分
  • #56 - Mama's Favorite (Kanye West)
    2026/07/14

    #56 - of Mixtape Therapy, Scottie and Hannah dive into the complicated, uncomfortable, and rewarding process of personal growth. They explore what it really means to become the best version of yourself — and how that journey can change the relationships around you. Scottie opens up about losing friendships, gaining more authentic connections, and learning that growth often comes with difficult conversations and rejection. Together, they unpack the tension between personal success and maintaining meaningful relationships, while questioning how we define “the best version” of ourselves in both art and everyday life. The conversation also touches on encouragement, validation, and the lasting impact of feeling truly supported. Scottie reflects on a song about Kanye West and his mother that deeply moved her, sparking a conversation about the kind of emotional space people need to pursue their passions. Hannah adds insight into how genuine encouragement often comes from doing the internal work ourselves rather than simply offering empty reassurance. They also discuss boundaries, parenting, therapy, addiction, and the balance between focusing on yourself while still showing up for others. Along the way, they wrestle with the complicated reality of loving people — and even appreciating art — while acknowledging flaws, mistakes, and the need for accountability. This episode is an honest conversation about growth, identity, support, and learning how to love people without losing yourself in the process.


    Co-Hosts:

    Hannah Shaper

    https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

    https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact


    Scottie Gassner

    https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w

    www.heyjustbe.com

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    47 分
  • #55 - The Meaning of Your Life (Arthur C. Brooks)
    2026/06/30

    #55 - of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie dive into the question we all circle at some point: What actually gives life meaning? Inspired by a recent book and podcast, the conversation moves beyond clichés and into the real, often subtle moments where purpose shows up—like helping a stranger, being present with someone, or simply showing up when it matters. They explore how meaning isn’t always found in big achievements, but in small, human connections that remind us we belong. From there, the discussion turns personal—covering relationships, communication, and the challenge of letting others help us. Scottie reflects on how learning to receive support has shaped his relationship, while both he and Hannah unpack the deeper role trust and connection play in a fulfilling life. They also explore parenting, and how giving children responsibility—not just protection—helps build confidence, independence, and a sense of contribution. Scottie shares honest insights from fatherhood, including how being present with his daughter continues to reshape his priorities and perspective. The episode expands into the modern tension between online and real-world living—touching on social media, virtual work, and the importance of physical presence. Whether it’s connecting with strangers, training clients in person, or performing stand-up comedy, Scottie emphasizes how real-life interaction creates a deeper impact than anything digital can replicate. Grounded, reflective, and honest, this conversation weaves together purpose, parenting, relationships, and presence—offering a thoughtful look at how to build a meaningful life in a distracted world.

    Co-Hosts:

    Hannah Shaper

    https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

    https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact


    Scottie Gassner

    https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-

    wwww.heyjustbe.com

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    58 分
  • #54 - The Cult of the Manosphere (Amanda Montell & Reese Oliver)
    2026/06/17

    #54 - of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie explore the “Manosphere” and the deeper human needs that can pull people toward online echo chambers, extremism, and black-and-white thinking. What starts as a conversation about modern dating, masculinity, and reactionary online culture opens into something much broader: loneliness, belonging, ideology, communication, and what healthy relationships require in a fractured digital world. We talk about how online dating can distort expectations, how frustration can harden into stereotypes, and how social media can quietly shape the way couples communicate—or stop communicating. Along the way, we unpack ideological drift in relationships, the false sense of community the internet can offer, and why real connection often asks more of us than certainty ever will. We also get personal—sharing stories about conflict, compromise, boundaries, faith, and the relationship lessons we’ve learned through experience. At its heart, this is a conversation about how to stay thoughtful, relational, and authentic in a culture constantly pushing people toward extremes. A nuanced, honest discussion about dating, identity, ideology, and what it takes to build connection in the modern world.

    Co-Hosts:

    Hannah Shaper

    https://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831

    https://www.intotheabliss.com/contact

    Scottie Gassner

    https://youtube.com/@heyjustbe

    https://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-

    wwww.heyjustbe.com

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    52 分
  • FREESTYLE - "Importance of Being Present"
    2026/06/09

    Sometimes you just have to press record and see where the conversation takes you. In this special freestyle episode of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie put aside the playlist and flow unscripted—no set track, no theme, just authentic conversation. Think of it as the hidden track on your favorite album: spontaneous, raw, and full of surprises.Co-Hosts:Hannah Shaperhttps://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831https://www.intotheabliss.com/contactScottie Gassnerhttps://youtube.com/@heyjustbehttps://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w⁠www.heyjustbe.com

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    12 分
  • FREESTYLE - "Snow Plowing Parents"
    2026/05/26

    Sometimes you just have to press record and see where the conversation takes you. In this special freestyle episode of Mixtape Therapy, Hannah and Scottie put aside the playlist and flow unscripted—no set track, no theme, just authentic conversation. Think of it as the hidden track on your favorite album: spontaneous, raw, and full of surprises.Co-Hosts:Hannah Shaperhttps://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831https://www.intotheabliss.com/contactScottie Gassnerhttps://youtube.com/@heyjustbehttps://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-w⁠www.heyjustbe.com

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    42 分
  • #53 - The Big Lebowski (The Coen Brothers)
    2026/05/12

    #53 - of Mixtape Therapy, Scottie and Hannah continue their discussion of the cult classic The Big Lebowski, through a thought-provoking conversation that explores deeper truths about life, mindset, and personal growth. The discussion unpacks how our perspectives shape our experiences, challenging conventional ways of thinking while offering practical insights for navigating everyday challenges. Through engaging ideas and real-world reflections, this episode invites listeners to question assumptions, embrace curiosity, and develop a more intentional approach to how they think, act, and show up in the world. Whether you're looking for clarity, motivation, or a fresh perspective, this conversation offers something meaningful to take with you.Co-Hosts:Hannah Shaperhttps://youtube.com/@hannahshaper6831https://www.intotheabliss.com/contactScottie Gassnerhttps://youtube.com/@heyjustbehttps://open.spotify.com/show/1THqG0Pch3Gj0kEAAhwmnA?si=VSWIflkQRgOsxUjMEK-o-wwww.heyjustbe.com

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    57 分