Welcome to Season 3 of the podcast! I had a huge past week with what felt like a true birth, the class that I taught on Healing the Relationship Between Men and Women was massive. I can’t not mention it here.

This class is a culmination of 11 years of walking the path both personally and professionally, working directly with over 1000 clients as a psychologist on this very topic.

We’ve been gathering in groups to talk about this work and heal together in real time in The Visionaries community, but whether you choose to join us or not, this class has some major take aways for you to put into practice, now, in your life.

You’ll know if you’re here for this mission of healing the relationship between men + women.

Most of the people in my world who are attracted to this work really are!

This material covers the big picture from a spiritual picture of why this work is important now than ever, as well as ground level practical implications for us to work with, with me sharing every piece of the puzzle that I know.

I do a deep dive into mother and father wounds, power dynamics, masculine and feminine energy, inner union, differences as complementary energies, and the divide + conquer strategy.

LINKS MENTIONED:

Healing the Relationship Between Men + Women (3.5 hour class):

https://www.love-evolved.us/healing-the-relationship-between-men-and-women.html

If you’re a member of The Visionaries, it’s posted here:

https://the-visionaries-le.mn.co/posts/teaching-library-healing-the-relationship-between-men-women

If you’re not a member, but want to join us, click here:

https://www.love-evolved.us/

My Story, Part 1 + 2:

Alchemy of the Heart

https://www.love-evolved.us/alchemy-of-the-heart-course.html

My two favorite relationship books:

Conscious Loving

https://www.amazon.com/Conscious-Loving-Co-Commitment-Gay-Hendricks/dp/0553354116

How to Be An Adult

https://www.amazon.com/How-Adult-Psychological-Spiritual-Integration/dp/0809132230

Email List (at bottom of website)

https://www.love-evolved.us/

I often say this is not a path for the weak-willed, and the truth is that people usually come to this work after they have tried everything else possible.

It is the moment of initiation, surrender, and sometimes, the dark night of the soul.

While this path is risky (to the ego and to the status quo of our lives!) it is also the greatest gift that I have been given in my life and leads to true liberation.

This episode describes this in greater detail and will be a good orientation to see if this work is truly for you.

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RESOURCES + LINKS MENTIONED:

Start Here (an intro of who I am and what the path is)

The Visionaries Community

The Wayshowers Mentorship

The Channel

Luminosity (Group Program - Sagittarius Season)

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About me:

My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m devoted to the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth through relationships. and we are the visionaries of the new paradigm, the people going first.

I clearly see, know, and live this path, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.

Podcast intro music: Medicine by HOL - Holly Gottlieb @hollygottlieb

Today, we’ll speak of some helpful guidelines to bring to relationships in order to get through bumps in the road a little bit smoother.

Links mentioned:

Start Here

Inner Union, Alchemy, and Healing the Relationship Between Men + Women

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About me:

My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m devoted to the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth through relationships. and we are the visionaries of the new paradigm, the people going first.

I clearly see, know, and live this path, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.

The Wayshowers Mentorship | The Visionaries Community | The Luminary

Podcast intro music: Medicine by HOL - Holly Gottlieb @hollygottlieb

Season 2, Episode 22:

At this point, it’s squarely up to us. Nobody is coming to save us.

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I am incredibly frustrated (and also a bit mind blown) that people still aren’t getting it that the answer is not to have women and men go back in time to where men are the providers and women are the child bearers.

I have never said that this dynamic cannot be part of the new paradigm, but the interplay between men + women is SO much more expansive and integrated than this.

In other words, our third way (aka the new paradigm) can absolutely include this for those for whom is it TRUE, but will never work as an enforced set of ‘roles’ upon men and women.

People also have to get really honest with themselves as to where some dark misogynistic views are lurking behind the scenes (or in others, proudly at the forefront).

This is clearly running within the systems of both men and women, still.

I won’t ever ignore the truth of misandry either (and never have).

But in this conversation I speak to a view that is mostly on the ‘right’ and even in the ‘truth’ communities (which has gotten so filled with BS that I have no time for most of it anymore).

I promise you that neither the right nor the left have the answers on the way forward, nor do they understand integration, inner union, or evolution in the slightest.

In this recording, I speak to this in a strong tone. Take it or leave it, as always ❤️My frustration is not meant for you to take personally as it is directed at the collective - but if it serves as a needed catalyst in any way for you, that’s great.

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RESOURCES

* Start Here: https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

* A Brief Summary of The New Paradigm of Relationships:

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/a-brief-summary-of-the-new-paradigm

* The True Divine Masculine + True Divine Feminine

* Inner Union, Alchemy, and Healing the Relationship Between Men + Women

—About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m devoted to the new paradigm of relationships.For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth through relationships. and we are the visionaries of the new paradigm, the people going first.

I clearly see, know, and live this path, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.The Wayshowers Mentorship | The Visionaries Community

Podcast intro music: Medicine by HOL - Holly Gottlieb @hollygottlieb

‘Hurt people hurt people’ is often true, but not always...

Sometimes, hurt people don’t hurt other people.

And sometimes, people who haven’t been hurt hurt other people.

Why does it matter?

It actually matters significantly with how we show up in human relationships and how we approach and respond to harmful, abusive behavior - both in ourselves and in others.

I believe understanding the nuance around this and transcending black and white thinking will be key as we co-create and step into the new paradigm of relationships.

There are some things I’ve learned along the way in 15 years of assisting people therapeutically and also my personal life, and some of those things blew the lid off of some assumptions I was making about humanity and what true love and care is, what true ‘helping’ is. I want to share these things with you.

In this episode, I speak about:

* the wrong assumption that trauma always underlies everything

* how we often enable bad behavior (unintentionally)

* the rescuer side of things and what we need to own

* the roots of narcissism and abusive behavior

* spiritless humans

* moral relativism as an agenda to erode all boundaries

* not all misbehavior is caused by trauma

* permissive parenting causes dysfunction

* facets of healthy character development

* healing the relationship between men + women

* healthy shame vs toxic shame

* the empath-narcissist trap

* what many therapists got wrong

* transmuting victim consciousness without losing self compassion

LINKS

Start Here: The Foundational Material

https://www.love-evolved.us/start-here.html

Podcast with Dr. George Simon:

Conscious Loving

A Shameless Society is a Narcissistic Society

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/a-shameless-society-is-a-narcissistic

—About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I’m devoted to the new paradigm of relationships. For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth through relationships. and we are the visionaries of the new paradigm, the people going first.

I clearly see, know, and live this path, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.The Wayshowers Mentorship | The Visionaries Community

Podcast intro music: Medicine by HOL - Holly Gottlieb @hollygottlieb

In this episode, I speak on the concept of ‘separate, purify, and unite’ in alchemy and how this applies to our inner union process, the process of outer union (especially in romantic relationships), and more importantly, how this applies to the bigger interplay between healing the relationship between men + women.

On a basic level, we need to keep the polarities separate in order to purify them deeply, and then use the purified versions for union. Think about this in relation to masculine and feminine, and why we need to transmute the wounded versions of each into their highest expression (divine).

I also apply this in a very practical way to what I call ‘the dance of union + separation’ which deeply protects us against codependency, providing the ideal template for the alchemical process of relationships as evolutionary portals.

In this episode, I also share why the powers that be are intentionally distorting this process, and why.

Please share any comments or questions in the comments section (Substack and Spotify have them) or message me directly on Instagram or in The Visionaries. You can also email me at la@love-evolved.us

Much love to you all!

Leigh-Anne

RESOURCES

Alchemy, Divine Union, and Spiritual Enlightenment

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/alchemy-divine-union-spiritual-enlightenment

Towards Sexual Sovereignty

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/towards-sexual-sovereignty-the-alchemical

The War on Love, Sex + Relationships

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/the-war-on-love-sex-relationships

The Trap of Codependency + How to Break Free

https://www.love-evolved.us/the-trap-of-codependency.html

Wetiko: Healing the Mind-Virus That Plagues Our World (Paul Levy on The Cosmic Matrix)

Email me at la@love-evolved.us

—About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I am a visionary of the new paradigm of relationships. For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth through relationships. I now work with leaders of the new paradigm, the people going first.

I clearly see, know, and live this path, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.The Wayshowers Mentorship | The Visionaries Community

Podcast intro music: Medicine by HOL - Holly Gottlieb @hollygottlieb

This is a companion podcast episode to the prior one on Energy Clearing and serves as the other side of the coin.

Yes, we do our shadow work and energetic clearing. AND, we take responsibility to step into our right sized place as the leaders, visionaries, and wayshowers of the new paradigm of relationships. We are the Keepers of the Frequency and must allow ourselves to come up and out of the darkness, trauma, suffering and ‘underworld journey’ to embody and sustain the frequency of this higher level way of relating.Are you willing to come up and out and hold the flame?Inspiration for this title and transmission from Bringers of the Dawn:

The impeccability required, and the acceptance of this ‘awesome task to carry light’ is our work now - especially during this potent Virgo season.Email me at la@love-evolved.us

—About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I am a visionary of the new paradigm of relationships. For the past 15 years, I’ve worked with people 1:1 and in groups to support healing and growth through relationships. I now work with leaders of the new paradigm, the people going first.

I clearly see, know, and live this path, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.The Wayshowers Mentorship | The Visionaries Community

Podcast intro music: Medicine by HOL - Holly Gottlieb @hollygottlieb

In this episode, I cover why the energetic side of healing is critically important. For most of us, an combination of psychological healing in addition to energy clearing is a huge key - and one that many people miss. Especially in the field of psychology, this is not widely spoken about - yet. I believe one day this will change.

Due to a tough lesson in my own life, I learned that both parts are needed - both the psychological healing and the energetic clearing - and that one or the other will not suffice.

This episode is meant to be an introduction for those who may not be aware of the importance, and the links below provide an energy clearing breathwork that you can use as many times as you need to.Email me at la@love-evolved.usLINKS MENTIONED:The Wayshowers

https://www.love-evolved.us/the-wayshowers.html

The Visionaries

https://www.love-evolved.us/

The New Paradigm of Relationships (podcast)https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/the-work-of-a-lifetime-the-new-paradigm

A Brief Summary of The New Paradigm of Relationships (article)

https://leighannelopinto.substack.com/p/a-brief-summary-of-the-new-paradigm

Energy Release Breathwork Meditation (David Elliott)

—About me:My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and I am a relationship visionary working with the leaders of the new paradigm of relationships.

I clearly see, know, and live this new paradigm, understanding the terrain and pure potential that it holds as the key to the evolution of humanity.The Wayshowers Mentorship | The Visionaries Community

Podcast intro music: Medicine by HOL - Holly Gottlieb @hollygottlieb