Victim mentality is something we should all have compassion for, as it’s the way most of us are programmed from the start.

Victim mentality is “poor me” thinking, feeling like life is against you. It’s a passive, disempowered state where one lacks agency and personal responsibility.

Often, when we are stuck in victim mentality, life doesn’t feel good at all. We are stuck in a state of disappointment, depression, frustration, and often misery.

We can feel disconnected from our power and even life force energy.

I was in victim mentality for years and have a ton of compassion for those who are in it. I was forced to break free in 2016 with my most intense dark night of the soul.

In this episode, I speak about how to break out of victim mentality in a way such that we don’t lose our self-compassion (or compassion for others).

Personal responsibility is something we learn to step into adulthood, and this teaching should not be applied to children.

I would love to hear your thoughts on this one, as this teaching can trigger a lot of people! I wouldn’t go there if I didn’t truly believe that it is one of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my almost 50 years here.

Please comment below and let me know what you think.

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My Story, Part 1: Healing from Abuse

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About me:

My name is Leigh-Anne LoPinto, and my mission is to help co-create the new paradigm of relationships. This includes healing the relationship between men + women, and using relationships as a vehicle to evolve.

I help people break lifelong relationship patterns, heal insecure attachment and codependency, and build love on a healthy, stable foundation.

Through a blend of psychology, breathwork, transformational coaching, energy work, and intuitive guidance, I support individuals in creating relationships that become a path of growth and awakening.

For over 15 years, I have worked with people all over the world who are ready to stop repeating old cycles and step into relationships beyond their wildest dreams.

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