How can leaders prepare the next generation for a workforce being rewritten by artificial intelligence? In this episode of Leadership Blueprints, BJ Kraemer welcomes Edward DuCoin, a lifelong entrepreneur, adjunct professor, and co-founder and partner of Orpical Technology Solutions, to discuss how education and business leadership must adapt as AI reshapes employability, work, and growth. In their conversation, Edward reflects on starting his first business as a teenager, navigating significant setbacks, and turning those experiences into lessons for students and business leaders. He explains why students want to be coached hard, why college should offer a safe space to fail, and why learning to use AI is quickly becoming a foundation for employability. They discuss what it takes for a business to survive growth, and Edward shares how staying loyal too long changed his career trajectory. They also explore why leaders need to understand their limitations and how AI could revitalize business. Tune in to learn how to prepare people for change and turn hard-won lessons into stronger leadership.

Key Points From This Episode:

• Hear about Edward’s background and his entrepreneurial journey.
• Explore why ‘failing forward’ is essential for building future leaders.
• Discover why students want to be pushed and what employers should expect.
• Learn why he sees a professor's job as helping students get, keep, and grow a career.
• Examine how AI is reshaping white-collar work and rewarding top performers.
• Uncover why older workers may be more prepared for AI than younger workers.
• Understand why companies do not fail at growth but can fail at surviving it.
• Consider how growth without refinement can raise sales while erasing the paycheck.
• Examine his biggest career failure and the cost of staying loyal for too long.
• See why leaders must trust, verify, and ensure they get the little things right.
• Edward shares the books that shaped his approach and mindset.
• The difference between a warrior mindset and ruthless leadership.
• Appreciate why AI may bring humanity back to the front and center of business.

Quotes:

“I don't call it failure. I call it the opposite of success because failure means that you got nothing out of it.” — Edward DuCoin [0:03:44]

“[Teachers] have one job, and that is to make you employable: get the job, keep the job, and then grow the job.” — Edward DuCoin [0:10:44]

“Watch what you wish for in growth. You have to be prepared through process and constant refinement.” — Edward DuCoin [0:27:47]

“I think artificial intelligence is going to bring humanity back to the front and center of business.” — Edward DuCoin [0:40:43]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Edward DuCoin

Edward DuCoin on LinkedIn

Orpical Technology Solutions

Montclair State University

Rowan University

'Indicted Loyalty, Convicted Logic'

The Hard Thing About Hard Things

Chop Wood Carry Water

Relentless

Pound the Stone

Leadership Blueprints Podcast

Leadership Blueprints Podcast on YouTube

MCFA

MCFA Careers

BJ Kraemer on LinkedIn

If you are in sales, you have probably heard the phrase: Always Be Closing, or ABC! But if you walk through life trying to ‘close’ every person you meet, you are likely to miss far more valuable things. In today’s solo episode of Leadership Blueprints, BJ offers a new version of this phrase and inspiring listeners to place their focus on more important things such as relationships, generosity, curiosity, and service. Tuning in, you’ll hear all about what it means to collect dots and why it’s essential. BJ delves into why showing up in the world with a spirit of curiosity and service is so valuable before he encourages listeners to consider the last time they helped someone who had nothing to offer them. He also talks about ‘collecting dots’ intentionally without forcing connections and enlightens listeners on when dots actually start to connect. Finally, BJ leaves us with his ABCD challenge. Thanks for listening!

Key Points From This Episode:

• The phrase Always Be Closing (ABC) and why it could be problematic.
• Why BJ prefers the ABCD (Always Be Collecting Dots) term.
• The importance of walking through life trying to be genuinely helpful to people.
• A breakdown of what a ‘dot’ represents in this scenario.
• BJ challenges listeners to question when they last helped someone with no agenda.
• Why you should ‘collect dots’ with intention without forcing connections.
• When dots start to connect: when opportunity meets capability and trust.
• BJ breaks down this week’s ABCD challenge for listeners.

Quotes:

“Always be collecting dots because you can’t connect dots if you haven’t collected dots.” — BJ Kraemer [0:01:44]

“You want to be intentional, but you don’t want to keep score, and I think there’s a balance there.” — BJ Kraemer [0:14:12]

“There’s no contradiction between setting goals and being open to the unexpected.” — BJ Kraemer [0:14:35]

“Dots connect when opportunity meets capability and trust.” — BJ Kraemer [0:17:12]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Leadership Blueprints Podcast

Leadership Blueprints Podcast on YouTube

MCFA

MCFA Careers

BJ Kraemer on LinkedIn

What does it take to turn leadership values into repeatable action? In this episode of Leadership Blueprints, BJ Kraemer welcomes Kevin Chemidlin, MCFA’s new Director of Client Activation. In a twist, Kevin takes the interviewer’s chair to ask BJ how systems thinking can coexist with the human realities of leadership. They discuss how structure and empathy work together, why growth depends on choosing the right challenges, and how leaders create clarity around expectations and shared responsibility. BJ and Kevin also unpack MCFA’s values of love, entrepreneurial spirit, accountability, and how culture becomes visible through decisions, habits, and relationships. BJ also reflects on the importance of connecting employees’ life plans to professional growth. Tune in to learn how thoughtful leaders turn values from words into consistent action and meaningful career growth.

Key Points From This Episode:

• Find out where BJ first learned to turn goals into repeatable systems.
• Hear how to pair systems thinking with the challenges of leading people.
• Discover where BJ developed the emotional intelligence to meet people where they are.
• Learn how trust helps leaders know when to push and when to support.
• Explore why MCFA embraces hard things without making difficulty the goal.
• Consider when leaders should persevere, simplify, or cut their losses.
• Uncover why love is an MCFA value and a deliberate choice.
• Understand how entrepreneurial spirit creates shared value.
• Distinguish individual accountability from the protection teamwork can provide.
• Recognize when leaders take on too much accountability.
• Advice on how teams can delight clients by creating a white-glove experience.
• Gain insights into operationalizing the MCFA concept of stretch.
• Reframe discipline as restraint when success creates too many opportunities.

Quotes:

“When you are working together with other people, hard becomes a little more fun and a little easier.” — BJ Kraemer [0:17:45]

“Balance occurs in the macro, not the micro.” — Kevin Chemidlin [0:23:17]

“Love is hard. Love is an investment. Love is a choice.” — BJ Kraemer [0:30:08]

“Teamwork can also be the thing that disguises individual accountability.” — BJ Kraemer [0:37:25]

“When I always think of discipline, I think of exertion and getting yourself to do hard things, when really these days it sounds like it’s about what you don’t do.” — Kevin Chemidlin [0:54:13]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Kevin Chemidlin on LinkedIn

Do Hard Things

The 4-Hour Workweek

The ONE Thing

What Got You Here Won’t Get You There

Four Thousand Weeks

Leadership Blueprints Podcast

Leadership Blueprints Podcast on YouTube

MCFA

MCFA Careers

BJ Kraemer on LinkedIn

What can happen when you stop waiting for the right opportunity and start creating one? In this episode, BJ Kraemer sits down with Rylee Meyer, MCFA’s Office Manager and Marketing Coordinator, to talk about creativity, identity, and the courage to take action. Rylee shares how a background in radio, television, and film led her from production into a role that brings together operations, marketing, and storytelling. They discuss her upcoming Korean-language program, reconnecting with her birth family, and a documentary idea inspired by the Korean adoptee community. Rylee also explains why the trip was a win for both herself and MCFA, why she refuses to let fear of rejection close doors, and how her husband's support has helped her take meaningful risks. She also reflects on the value of curiosity, belonging, and the people and stories that continue to shape her. Tune in to discover how small acts of courage can create room for growth, connection, and a more fulfilling life.

Key Points From This Episode:

• Meet Rylee Meyer and see how she coordinates the organized chaos behind MCFA.
• Learn about the unexpected career turn that carried Rylee from a film set to MCFA.
• Hear why a language program in Korea became an opportunity she could not ignore.
• Uncover the community-centered documentary she is currently working on.
• Find out how she turned a deeply personal opportunity into a win for herself and MCFA.
• Understand how Rylee transforms an idea into meaningful action.
• Discover where she learned to create opportunities despite the fear of rejection.
• The role that having a supportive partner has played in Rylee’s personal journey.
• Explore what Rylee enjoys most about being part of the MCFA team.
• Consider why the book Crying in H Mart struck such a personal chord with her.
• They unpack and reflect on their biggest ‘what if’ moments.

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Rylee Meyer on LinkedIn

Sogang University Korean Language Education Center

Global Overseas Adoptees’ Link (G.O.A.’L.)

Crying in H Mart

Past Lives

Leadership Blueprints Podcast

Leadership Blueprints Podcast on YouTube

MCFA

MCFA Careers

BJ Kraemer on LinkedIn

AI may transform how professional services firms deliver technical work, but it cannot replace the human qualities that build trust. In this episode, BJ welcomes back Jim Rogers, founder of Impellor Group and author of Becoming a Seller-Doer, to explore why client leadership, judgment, and empathy will become even more valuable as AI reshapes the AEC industry. Jim outlines the progression from transactional provider to embedded advisor, explains the difference between attentive, active, and empathetic listening, and shares ways emerging leaders can develop client-facing skills. They also discuss the risks of relying on AI, the leadership gap created as senior principals retire, and why paraphrasing is one of the simplest ways to prevent costly miscommunication. Tune in to discover how strengthening your human skills can protect your career, build relationships, and help you become the trusted advisor clients call first!

Key Points From This Episode:

• Jim’s approach to progressing from a transactional provider to an embedded advisor.
• Discover what empathy looks like in professional settings and leadership roles.
• The difference between attentive, active, and empathetic listening.
• Find out how empathetic listening helps people feel understood and strengthens trust.
• Explore why project management is about people, not only schedules and metrics.
• Learn how young professionals can build trusted-advisor skills through content curation.
• Uncover the risk that AI workflows pose and why experience and context matter.
• Understand how leaders adapt their tactics to the client, team, culture, and situation.
• The client-leadership gap and why empathy and relationship-building create career security.
• Try a practical listening exercise: paraphrase what someone said in your own words.

Quotes:

“So much of leadership is about human problems.” — BJ Kraemer [0:07:58]

“One of the foundations [of leadership] is caring about somebody else’s success.” — Jim Rogers [0:13:40]

“Everybody needs more client leadership.” — Jim Rogers [0:22:24]

“We’re taught to write, we’re taught to read, [and] we’re taught to speak [but] nobody’s ever taught to listen.” — Jim Rogers [0:27:56]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Jim Rogers on LinkedIn

Impellor Group

Becoming a Seller-Doer

Seller-Doer Academy

Never Eat Alone

Project Management Institute

Leadership Blueprints Podcast

Leadership Blueprints Podcast on YouTube

MCFA

MCFA Careers

BJ Kraemer on LinkedIn

Becoming Happy High Performers with Jay Abbasi

Episode 270: Show Notes

What if burnout isn’t a sign that you need less ambition but rather that you need a different way to pursue it? Today we welcome Tesla leader turned professional speaker, Jay Abbasi, to discuss how leaders can help people achieve at a high level without sacrificing personal life along the way. Tuning in, you’ll hear all about Jay’s work in burnout, how he helps people become more adaptable through mindfulness and ‘mind-free-ness’, how mindfulness helped him thrive in a stressful environment at Tesla, and more! We delve into the importance of dedicating time to allowing your mind to be free before discussing Jay’s Resistance Formula (energy, space, and choice) and how to take the first step toward solving burnout. Jay even touches on the illusion of control, why our power lies in our choices, and why delayed gratification is far more fulfilling than instant gratification. Finally, our guest shares his thoughts on what makes a great leader and answers our rapid-fire questions. Thanks for listening!

Key Points From This Episode:

• Introducing today’s guest, Jay Abbasi.
• Jay’s work in burnout and the power of adaptability.
• How Jay helps people become more adaptable.
• Starting the practice and building the habit of mindfulness.
• How mindfulness helped him in a chaotic environment.
• Jay shares how he teaches people ‘mind-free-ness’.
• The first step to handling burnout: Jay’s Resistance Formula.
• Shattering the illusion of control and where your power truly lies.
• Jay tells us about his one-on-one coaching and public speaking.
• Why instant gratification won’t bring you real fulfillment.
• What makes a great leader, according to our guest.
• Jay’s favorite books, quotes, and dream dinner guests.

Quotes:

“You will see results if you just consistently [practice mindfulness].” — Jay Abbasi [0:10:59]

“‘Mind-free-ness’ is intentionally freeing your mind to explore new ideas.” — Jay Abbasi [0:17:42]

“Choice is different than control. [What] I often want to talk to people about is this illusion of control. People think that they can control things, – the reality is, most things are out of your control. – What you have power in is your choice: choosing your response.” — Jay Abbasi [0:24:48]

Links Mentioned in Today’s Episode:

Jay Abbasi

Jay Abbasi on LinkedIn

Jay Abbasi on Instagram

Jay Abbasi on Facebook

Unstuck with Jay Abbasi on Apple Podcasts

Man’s Search for Meaning

The Alchemist

Leadership Blueprints Podcast

Leadership Blueprints Podcast on YouTube

MCFA

MCFA Careers

BJ Kraemer on LinkedIn