In this episode of Kin & Capital, hosts Christian, Mike, Chris, and Alexis dive deep into one of the most misunderstood traits in business and personal growth — confidence. From missed opportunities and imposter syndrome to the razor-thin line between confidence and arrogance, the crew gets raw about the mental hurdles that shape how we show up every day.

The conversation explores:

How lacking confidence costs you deals, promotions, and relationships

The role of negative self-talk and how introverts can actually dominate in sales and leadership

The importance of criticism, mentors, and curiosity in long-term growth

When confidence tips into arrogance — and how to find balance again

This is one of the most honest Kin & Capital discussions yet — practical, reflective, and filled with insight for anyone chasing growth while fighting self-doubt.

02:00 – 05:00 Networking fears and learning to enter the room

07:00 – 11:00 Introvert vs. extrovert confidence

11:00 – 15:00 Constructive criticism, mentors, and the importance of feedback

23:00 – 26:00 Faith, reflection, and finding equilibrium

36:00 – 43:00 Do you follow passion—or build it through challenges?

Host Bios

Mike: Cybersecurity professional and new LLC owner focused on business growth.

Chris: IT leader sharing insights on networking, leadership, and career advancement.

Christian: Sales enthusiast emphasizing consistency, value, and personal development.

Alexis: Creative in graphic design, photography, and videography, discussing passion-driven work and internships.

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Kin & Capital is a podcast hosted by brothers Mike, Chris, Christian, and Alexis, focusing on personal growth, entrepreneurship, and family dynamics. Through candid conversations, they share their experiences in building relationships, overcoming career challenges, and pursuing business ventures. The podcast delves into real-life stories of failures and successes, offering insights into resilience, confidence, and goal-setting in fields like sales, media, and cybersecurity. Each episode includes a progress check on their goals, encouraging listeners to take small, consistent steps toward their own aspirations.

Intended Audience: Young adults, aspiring entrepreneurs, and anyone seeking motivation to navigate personal and professional challenges—especially listeners who want practical, no-nonsense tactics without a traditional path like a college degree. If you like authentic brotherly banter and actionable career/game-plan talk, you’re home.

In this episode of Kin and Capital, hosts Mike, Chris, Christian, and Alexis get real about building confidence under pressure—from panels and sales calls to job interviews and leadership moments. They break down how preparation, lifestyle, and repetition beat doubt, why mock reps feel harder than live, how to signal you actually want the job, and how a quick faith reset steadies the mind. The brothers close with clear weekly commitments to treat the show—and their careers—like a business.

Key Discussion Points

[00:06:49 - 00:08:17] Confidence vs. Doubt (Prep Wins):

[00:11:22 - 00:12:42] Practice Feels Harder Than Live:

[00:21:02 - 00:21:54] Lifestyle → Performance (Boxing Analogy):

[00:23:27 - 00:25:02] Interviews: Presence & “Wanting It”:

[00:26:18 - 00:26:36] Faith Reset for Imposter Syndrome:

[00:31:19 - 00:31:54] Worst-Case / Best-Case Planning:

Host Bios

Mike: Cybersecurity professional and new LLC owner focused on business growth.

Chris: IT leader sharing insights on networking, leadership, and career advancement.

Christian: Sales enthusiast emphasizing consistency, value, and personal development.

Alexis: Creative in graphic design, photography, and videography, discussing passion-driven work and internships.

Follow Us Here at

YouTube

https://www.youtube.com/@KinandCapital

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/kin_and_capital/

Discord Group

Coming Soon

Kin & Capital is a podcast hosted by brothers Mike, Chris, Christian, and Alexis, focusing on personal growth, entrepreneurship, and family dynamics. Through candid conversations, they share their experiences in building relationships, overcoming career challenges, and pursuing business ventures. The podcast delves into real-life stories of failures and successes, offering insights into resilience, confidence, and goal-setting in fields like sales, media, and cybersecurity. Each episode includes a progress check on their goals, encouraging listeners to take small, consistent steps toward their own aspirations.

Intended Audience: Young adults, aspiring entrepreneurs, and anyone seeking motivation to navigate personal and professional challenges—especially listeners who want practical, no-nonsense tactics without a traditional path like a college degree. If you like authentic brotherly banter and actionable career/game-plan talk, you’re home.

In this episode, the brothers dig into personal alignment, self-awareness, and the fear that keeps us stuck. Mike challenges the others to define what they're committed to, while Chris reflects on being distracted by “busy” work. Christian opens up about overcoming fear, and Alexis brings it full circle with a reminder that: clarity is everything.

Together, they unpack how easy it is to stay “busy” without actually moving forward—and why clarity, consistency, and alignment are the real tools for growth.

If you’ve ever felt stuck, distracted, or disconnected from your purpose, this episode is a must-listen.

Key Discussion Points

00:00 — Opening: Are you actually committed?

04:32 — Mike pushes Chris

09:14 — Christian’s fear of failure

13:28 — Alexis reflects on when clarity finally clicked

17:45 — Why the hardest part is just showing up

Host Bios

Mike: Cybersecurity professional and new LLC owner focused on business growth.

Chris: IT leader sharing insights on networking, leadership, and career advancement.

Christian: Sales enthusiast emphasizing consistency, value, and personal development.

Alexis: Creative in graphic design, photography, and videography, discussing passion-driven work and internships.

Follow Us Here at

Youtube

https://www.youtube.com/@KinandCapital

Instagram

https://www.instagram.com/kin_and_capital/

Discord Group

Coming Soon

Kin & Capital is a podcast hosted by brothers Mike, Chris, Christian, and Alexis, focusing on personal growth, entrepreneurship, and family dynamics. Through candid conversations, they share their experiences in building relationships, overcoming career challenges, and pursuing business ventures. The podcast delves into real-life stories of failures and successes, offering insights into resilience, confidence, and goal-setting in fields like sales, media, and cybersecurity. Each episode includes a progress check on their goals, encouraging listeners to take small, consistent steps toward their own aspirations.

Intended Audience: The podcast is aimed at young adults, aspiring entrepreneurs, and anyone seeking motivation to navigate personal and professional challenges. It resonates with those interested in real-world stories of perseverance, family-oriented values, and practical advice for building a career or business without a traditional path like a college degree. Listeners who enjoy authentic, brotherly banter and actionable insights into entrepreneurship and personal growth will find this podcast engaging.