What if the person you loved most, your twin flame, your ex, your “healer,” was actually just wearing a mask? In this raw, poetic, and piercingly honest episode, Jillian Melissa dives into the manipulative tactics of narcissists, the emotional gymnastics of self-loathing men, and the soul work required to break free. From the psychological to the spiritual, this is an activation for anyone healing from toxic dynamics or excavating shadow parts to live in truth.

We explore the biggest lie narcissists need you to believe (that they’ve changed), and how hope can become a form of energetic addiction. Jillian also introduces powerful frameworks like Internal Family Systems (IFS) and parts work—guiding listeners through naming and dialoguing with inner protectors like the “Inner Perfectionist,” “Inner Sick Girl,” and the “Clever One.”

This episode is a balm for empaths, a call-out for enablers, and a guiding light for anyone unraveling attachment, identity, and self-worth. If you’ve been feeling like it’s time to stop romanticizing pain and start returning to peace—this is your invitation.

Chapters
00:00 – Welcome to the Summer Transmission
01:04 – Your DMs Matter: The Triangle of Visibility
05:02 – The #1 Lie Narcissists Need You to Believe
09:20 – Regret vs. Remorse: The Narcissist’s Playbook
15:23 – Men Who Hate Themselves (and How They Punish Love)
21:49 – The Pain of Setting Them Free
24:22 – Why Strong Women Intimidate Weak Men
30:00 – Can Narcissists Change? (The Slow Thaw Theory)
33:00 – Parts Work 101: The Inner Critic, Perfectionist & More
44:00 – Dialogue with Your Shadow Parts
50:11 – The Inner Sick Girl & Inner Healer Dynamic
53:15 – The Clever One: Self-Deception & the Healing Trap
55:44 – Final Reflections & Your Invitation to Go Deeper


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In this unflinching and energetically charged episode of It’s Time, Jillian Melissa opens a portal into one of the hardest truths to speak: the reality of psychopathy, narcissism, and spiritual manipulation. Guided by spirit and grounded in real-life experience, Jillian takes you on a deeply human—and soul-protective—exploration of Cluster B personality types, not from a clinical lens, but from the knowing that lives in the heart.

Through the 30 red flags from Psychopath Free by Jackson MacKenzie, Jillian weaves a tapestry of story, metaphor, spiritual insight, and fierce compassion. This episode holds space for the empaths, the sensitives, the ones who gave their light to people who were never capable of holding it.

It’s not just about pathology—it’s about energetic sovereignty.
It’s about reclaiming your identity, reestablishing your boundaries, and remembering that the light has already won.

Let this episode be your reminder that discernment is sacred.
That you're not crazy for noticing the cracks in the mask.
And that you were never meant to stay in their shadow.

Key Message:
The spiritual energetics behind narcissism and psychopathy
Red flags that show up perhaps before you can consciously process them
Why empaths are often targeted—and how to protect your light
The difference between divine intuition and distorted perception
Triangulation, energy vampirism, and why these dynamics feel like soul-death
Reclaiming your voice and your worth after emotional and spiritual abuse
The power of clear eyes and an open heart in the face of darkness

Chapters
00:00 – The Discomfort of Speaking Truth
01:15 – Understanding Cluster B: A Spiritual Frame
04:30 – Flying Monkeys, Oz, and Energetic Archetypes
10:30 – Manipulation vs. Intuition
18:25 – 30 Red Flags (From Psychopath Free)
24:00 – Gaslighting, Crazy-Making & The Car Alarm Metaphor
33:00 – Triangulation and the Erosion of Self
41:00 – Why They Always Have “Crazy” Exes
52:00 – The Pain of Realizing the Love Wasn’t Real
1:10:00 – Energy Recovery, Identity Reclamation & Divine Discernment
1:16:00 – Closing Transmission: You Are Royalty. Protect Your Light.


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narcissistic abuse recovery, cluster B red flags, psychopath free, intuitive discernment, emotional manipulation, spiritual healing, trauma bonds, toxic relationship signs, spiritual boundaries, energy vampires

In this expansive and soulful episode of It’s Time with Jillian Melissa, Jillian channels a night-sky transmission on the deep work of releasing attachment, trusting visions without clinging, and manifesting without grasping.

Through metaphors of ladders, psychic premonitions, heartbreak, post-breakup glow-ups, and body healing, she shows how true freedom comes when we detach from rigid expectations and allow for divine emergence. Jillian shares personal stories of psychic visions coming true in unexpected ways, the alchemy of rock bottoms, and how to trust your path even when outcomes shift.

In This Episode:

• How attachment distorts psychic visions and manifestations
• The hidden energetic cost of gripping to people, dreams, or stories
• Why fear is actually misplaced faith—and how to redirect it
• How to recognize when it's time to surrender to divine unfolding
• The alchemy of heartbreak, physical healing, and radical self-trust

attachment healing, manifestation without attachment, psychic visions trust, detaching from outcomes, fear is misplaced faith, healing heartbreak spiritually, intuitive development boundaries, post-breakup glow up, emotional alchemy, spiritual bypassing manifestation, faith and surrender, timeline shifts spirituality, releasing control spiritual growth, intuitive manifestation process

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