Hello beautiful lovers,

I recently taught a 90 min masterclass on the biology of women and to be completley honest, I was not prepared for the depth of the responses that came back.

Men wrote to me saying things like:

“Holy scissors! I’ve been hit by a tsunami of information and experience.”“If only I had known this years ago…”“It will take me two years to fully absorb and practice what I learned.”

Whilst other men cried as they pondered if they would have actually separated from their partners if they had known this.

What moved me most was not just their enthusiasm, but more so it was the shift in understanding. Men began to see that women are not a problem to fix.That our hormones, nervous systems, and emotional processing are fundamentally different and oh so exquisitely designed.That a woman does not open through solutions, logic, or pressure… she opens through emotional safety, presence, and rhythm.

One man shared that for the first time he truly understood why safety is paramount for women and that from now on, he would encourage his wife to take her time instead of rushing her.Another said he finally grasped that women are not fragile or weak, but beautifully complex and immense.Many realized that what women need most is not fixing but listening, presence, and attunement instead.

One man even said, “This should be taught in big businesses.”

This masterclass is not about blame.It is about biology, compassion, and understanding and what becomes possible in relationships when men and women finally speak the same language.

If you are a man who wants deeper connection…a woman who wants to feel seen and understood…or a couple tired of misunderstanding each other….

this class will change the way you relate.

To have access to the entire class simply subscribe by pushing the button below.

I am also including the audio so you can listen on your long drives over this Xmas season.

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M

Hello lovers…..

This email is and podcast episode is for the women here and I feel like I am wrapped in pink silk just writing to you about it.

Last week I sat down with Teal Elisabeth, the powerhouse behind Relax Into Love Coaching, and our conversation went straight to the heart of what so many women struggle with. How to be strong, powerful, unapologetic AND deeply loved.

with my raw, brutally honest and scorpio drenched way of crawling through the world I have not ever really been intrigued by “Love coaching”, but let me tell you, when I met Teal a little over a month ago, I was like “Oh Hello”. I want to know more about this women and have her in my field.

What I love about what Teal embodies is that she is not teaching women to “lean in” harder or to chase love. And she is definitely not teaching you to dim your light or play small to keep a man interested.

Nah babe..Teal teaches something she calls “soft fierceness” the art of having non-negotiable requirements for how you show up AND how your partner shows up, without apology, without hoping he will eventually come around, and without sacrificing your power.

In this really sweet and powerful episode, we chat giggle and even have a few tears about,

* Why “hoping he will like you” or “waiting for him to come back” is energetically repelling the love you want

* How to set clear requirements for partnership without feeling demanding or pushy

* What it really means to “Relax Into Love” when you have spent years proving your worth

* How to stop over giving, overthinking, and carrying the mental load in relationships

Teal has helped hundreds of women around the world transform from anxious, burned out daters into women who attract deeply committed, soul-nourishing partnerships. And it is not by doing more lovers, I promise.

Her message is that you do not have to go get the love. When you know your requirements and lean back into your feminine power, the right partnership is magnetized to you.

If you are one of so many women who feel torn between your ambition and your desire for partnership, or if you are tired of being the one who does all the work in relationships, this conversation will hit home. Make a cup of tea, snuggle on the couch with a fluffy blanket and enjoy our convo.

And just fo credit who she is… Teal is a Spiritual Love & Relationship Coach trained in Feminine Energy, NLP, and subconscious reprogramming. She’s happily married for 10 years, a new mama, and has built her entire business while traveling the world as a digital nomad. She walks her talk…..and it damn well shows.

The great thing is she has a (free) 5 day event coming up called MANifest starting Dec1st. She does not start letting the world know until next week…but you can get your cheeky bum in now if you like because you are here Inside of The Pleasure Studio.

Sign up HERE

Ok lovers… be well, be juicy and be unapologetically YOU.

Always with pleasure

M

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Lovers hello

You know I adore conversations that crack open our conditioning and invite us into questioning the world we live in. The convo’s that are raw, a little humorous and of course a little uncomfortable in all the best ways.

Recently I sat down with Luna, the creator of the Polytales Podcast, to talk about her messy, human, and oh-so-relatable road into polyamory.

We talk into jealousy, liberation, cultural conditioning, and what it actually looks like to love more than one person without losing yourself (or your mind).

Luna shares what it’s been like to navigate love and freedom as a Mexican woman in a culture where traditional values, religion, and romantic ideals run deep.It is juicy and honest and shows that life is messy as f*ck at times.

And I am curious…what does love without ownership mean to you?I would love to hear your thoughts after you listen.

Always with Pleasure and a wink 😜 Melissa LouiseHost of Inside of The Pleasure Studio💋