278: "I am only interested in becoming known for what is true because one day you're going to fucking slip. And I think that is the scariest thing is to paint an entire picture around the most acceptable version of yourself and then fall from that because it's a lie." - Xanthe Appleyard

If you've ever thought you needed 100K followers to "matter" or felt guilty for working weekends while preaching about your “soft girl era”—this episode will rewire your entire approach to online business. Xanthe Appleyard gets incredibly honest about building a successful business on her own terms, from both a financial and energetic lens, ditching the "serious entrepreneur" mask (and why you can still be a silly goose while helping your people), and why leisure and pleasure are just as important as profit and revenue. She may have also single-handedly changed Chelsea’s notoriously anti-social media POV!

Episode Themes

• Why impulsivity isn't self-sabotage when you're moving toward what you actually want
• Monotasking your way to sanity: how compartmentalizing tasks prevents burnout
• The follower count lie: why 1K engaged people beats 100K passive scrollers every damn time
• Social media as a tool vs. social media as your worth—and how to tell the difference
• The cognitive dissonance of building businesses on platforms we're morally conflicted about
• Why hiding your "unprofessional" side perpetuates everyone else's shame

This episode isn't about clocking 60 hour work weeks to see results or becoming more palatable—it's about getting so clear on your values that every business decision becomes glaringly obvious. Whether you're sending emails at 5AM or taking two-month sabbaticals, remember: there's no prize for following someone else's blueprint. Your business should energize you, not drain you. PERIOD.

Connect with Xanthe Appleyard:

Join Xanthe’s content creation membership Social Life (at a special price!) until Friday, July 11th!

Xanthe’s Website

Xanthe’s IG

Xanthe’s Substack

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277: "Even though I have these mindset blocks and these patterns I'm trying to break doesn't mean that I can't take time off. And I hope that you realize that too." - Chelsea Riffe

In this solo episode, I spill the tea on how I planned to take 2 months off work during the summer, including how much I saved, business logistics, mental breakdowns and the weird feelings that creep up when you realize “wait, I’m not WORKING for 2 months?”

Whether you’re dreaming of going off the grid for an extended period of time in an undisclosed location or balling out while border-hopping, this episode is a crash course in making it possible, without draining your life savings or ghosting your business.

Episode themes:

• Breaking down the financials: how TF do you actually budget, save, and prepare for a two-month sabbatical?
• The emotional rollercoaster: navigating massive productivity guilt and the pressure to "have something to show for it" (hi, capitalism)
• Logistics 101: planning accommodation, travel, and the flexible, unscripted bits of this journey
• Reentry strategies: how to transition back to work after time off without operating like a madwoman
• Building a support system: the role of community, mentorship, and therapy during extended breaks and why I will continue to invest in these areas

Even seasoned nomads and entrepreneurs stumble through imposter syndrome, logistical tripwires, and the urge to people-please... but with enough Notion docs, tangible support systems, and stubborn personal boundaries, a sabbatical doesn’t have to be a far-off fantasy. Listen in to demystify exactly how to rest, recalibrate, and maybe, just maybeeee, not produce your magnum opus while being Out of Office.

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276: “We use numbers, we use status, we use all of these things to justify the hard work we've done. We have something to show for it, and we ultimately look for people to respond to that hard work.” - Jazzmyn Proctor

What if your worth had absolutely nothing to do with your bank account, follower count, or how busy you appear to be? Chelsea sits down with Jazzmyn Proctor — relational therapist and podcast host of All Our Parts — to dismantle the lies we've been told about success, unpack the exhausting cycle of external validation, and explore what it actually means to live a life worth the journey your ancestors took to get you here.

Episode Themes:

• Morphing yourself into whatever the situation calls for so you can be liked.
• Not everyone is going to like you. You don't like everyone — it works both ways.
• We've been trained to justify why we need rest. What a mindfuck!
• Collective care is our ticket to a more abundant way of living.
• You don't want the end credits rolling when your story is only ten minutes in.

This one’s for every care-giver, high-achiever, recovering people-pleaser, and quiet rebel wondering if showing up online, often, is ‘too much.’ Jazzmyn gives you full-body permission to take up space, speak your truth, and rest without earning it. This is your cue to stop shrinking and hit publish.

Connect with Jazzmyn Proctor

healingwithjazzmyn.com/

@healingwithjazzmyn IG

@healingwithjazzmyn TikTok

linkedin.com/in/jazzmynproctor/

pinterest.com/healingwithjazzmyn/

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