This is a conversation about what it means to love, be wanted, and connect as a queer African who has survived shame, silence, and secrecy. Anyone who is learning to love without apologies or guilt will benefit from this episode. #QueerAndUnfiltered #LovingOutLoud #QueerIntimacy #DesireWithoutShame #QueerHealing #LGBTQIANigeria #AfroQueerVoices #UnapologeticallyQueer #QueerLove #ComingHomeToYourself #BlackQueerJoy #QueerDating #SoftnessIsPower #HealingAndThriving

This episode is about how softness, rest, and care are radical acts for queer Nigerians, Africans, and members of the diaspora. Many of us were taught to be strong, quiet, and cautious just to survive. This is for anyone who wants to get rid of their shame, guilt, and fear about caring for themselves. It is a reminder that you deserve softness because you exist.#SoftnessIsSurvival #QueerAndUnfiltered #UnapologeticallyQueer #QueerSelfCare #AfroQueerVoices #HealingAndThriving #QueerRestAsResistance #EmotionalLabor #LGBTQIANigeria #ComingHomeToYourself #SelfCareIsPolitical #BlackQueerJoy #RadicalSoftness #QueerHealing

This episode is a love letter to the people who chose us and became our family when our biological family rejected us. When our biological families fail us, we find home in those who love us as we are without conditions, and we talk about what a chosen family means. This episode is for anyone who is building their own version of a family. It’s for queer Nigerians and Africans who are now writing new definitions of belonging that are rooted in care, loyalty, and joy. Love that is decided, not forced, is the most revolutionary form of resistance we have.#ChosenFamily #QueerAndUnfiltered #LGBTQIANigeria #QueerLove #AfroQueerVoices #QueerBelonging #UnapologeticallyQueer #QueerResistance #HealingAndThriving #ComingHomeToYourself #FamilyIsWhatYouMakeIt

This episode talks about the complicated relationship between queerness and faith. Many of us were taught that our queerness was something to hide, fear, or pray away. But what happens when we start to regain our spirituality outside of shame, silence, and survival? We look at how religion has hurt people, how colonial interpretations of faith were used to justify homophobia, and how queer people are finding their way back to spiritual truth on their terms. This episode demonstrates that faith does not have to be based in fear. This episode is also for anyone who has been told that they have to choose between their queerness or their spirituality. You don’t. You are allowed to reclaim it fully and free.#FaithNotFear #QueerAndUnfiltered #LGBTQIANigeria #SpiritualHealing #ReligiousTrauma #AfroQueerVoices #ReclaimingFaith #SpiritualLiberation #UnapologeticallyQueer #HealingAndThriving #ComingHomeToYourself #QueerSpirituality #DecolonizeFaith

This episode explores the daily reality of code switching as a queer person in unsafe, unfriendly, or judgmental spaces. Many of us are constantly changing how we talk, dress, and show up to feel safe or accepted. Code switching may be rooted in survival, but it can often leave us feeling broken and exhausted. This episode is for anyone who has ever had to dim their light to stay safe, or who is looking for spaces where they can exist fully. We affirm together that our wholeness matters and that we deserve to take up space without apologizing.#QueerAndUnfiltered #Codeswitching #QueerIdentity #LGBTQIANigeria #SurvivalAndSafety #LivingInTwoWorlds #UnapologeticallyQueer #SafeSpaces #AuthenticityMatters #ComingHomeToYourself #VisibilityMatters #ThrivingAsQueer #EmotionalLabor #QueerLiberation

This episode elaborates on the process of learning to accept one's queer identity with confidence and pride. Homophobia can keep us from loving ourselves fully because of self-doubt and the heavy influence of culture, religion, and society. We look at what it looks like to let go of shame, change negative stories, and step into our truth without apologizing. This episode is for anyone who deals with queer identity in a world that tells them to hide it. Together, we say that being queer is something to celebrate, not something to overcome. Remember that you are not alone on this journey.#UnlearningHomophobia #SelfAcceptance #QueerHealing #QueerAndUnfiltered #LGBTQIANigeria #InternalizedShame #QueerPride #ComingHomeToYourself #UnapologeticallyQueer #SelfLoveJourney #VisibilityMatters #HealingAndThriving

This episode discusses the importance of financial independence for LGBTQIA+ individuals, especially in societies where queer people face job discrimination, family rejection, and limited opportunities. This episode also shares steps queer people can take to build financial stability, security, and safety. Money is not just about wealth, it is about freedom, protection, and the ability to live authentically. This episode gives you insight and motivation to help you take control of your financial future. Let’s continue the conversation by sharing your thoughts and listening.#QueerFinancialIndependence #SecureTheBag #QueerWealth #LGBTQIAFinance #FinancialFreedom #QueerAndUnfiltered #BuildingGenerationalWealth #QueerSuccess #EconomicEmpowerment #MoneyMatters #QueerEntrepreneurship #UnapologeticallyQueer

Mental health is already a struggle for many, but the weight of societal rejection, discrimination, and cultural expectations makes it even harder for queer people. In this episode, I share the unique mental health challenges LGBTQIA+ individuals face, from internalized homophobia and family pressure to the emotional toll of navigating a world that often refuses to see us.I talk about how to move beyond survival mode and step into a space of healing, acceptance, and resilience. This conversation is about acknowledging that our mental health matters, that our joy is valid, and that we deserve peace. Tune in as we discuss the realities of queer mental health and how we can thrive in a world that wasn’t built for us.#QueerAndUnfiltered #QueerMentalHealth #LGBTQIANigeria #UnapologeticallyQueer #HealingAndThriving #QueerVisibility #MentalHealthMatters #QueerJoy #SurviveAndThrive